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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi

I really think I might have a decent shot at meeting some like minded people.

Sadly, I am getting sick of writing nice emails that are personalised to profiles that interest me. So I thought this approach might work a little better.

I am friendly, and enjoy good company and good conversation with intelligent people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol...Good Luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, however, what's your issue?

Judging by your verifications, you should consider yourself as having done well since Nov 09!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Does going public like this require a name change?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His "issue" is that no matter how many messages he sends out most never even reply with a no thanks, I am aware that it can be hard work getting through them all but at least make an effort......bad manners are a pet hate with me and i try and get back politely to almost everyone unless they have been rude or abusive in the first instance. Its hard for single guys so cut the good guys some slack folks...they are not all tossers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your "new approach" is posting a short complaining post on the forums then no, it won't help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

jeez!!as said give the guy some slack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your "new approach" is posting a short complaining post on the forums then no, it won't help."

speak as you find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"jeez!!as said give the guy some slack

"

No, seriously, do you even know what you typed? The guy posted a very short post, in which he basically complained and wondered if his post would help him.

How do you "give him slack" for that? Seriously?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

I really think I might have a decent shot at meeting some like minded people.

Sadly, I am getting sick of writing nice emails that are personalised to profiles that interest me. So I thought this approach might work a little better.

I am friendly, and enjoy good company and good conversation with intelligent people."

I took a look at your profile and it really didn't say anything. I know you said your verifications say it all, but how many of us on this site take verifications as gospel not many.

I always take verifications with a pinch of salt as they are an individuals opinion and everyone has different opinions.

I prefer to read a thoughtful profile. To me someone who has put time and effort into their profile is more likely to grab my attention.

And honestly for a single male profile you dont seem to be doing too badly. Some people wait months and months for their first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly, I personally think the OP's profile is crap, but he is doing better for meets than we are, so what do we know, we all think we know best but we don't always do.

As for the other posters pet hate no replies, it is always going to be that way, many people simply do not reply to all mails, we do, but we accept that most don't, bad manners, too busy, cant be bothered, whatever the reason it's real and it happens and letting it get to you will do no good, it is one of the things you have to expect on swing sites, and right or wrong the sooner you accept it the happier you will be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Did you read it fully? I didnt complain, I said I was getting sick of sending personalised emails, didn't say anything about responses.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Did you read it fully? I didnt complain, I said I was getting sick of sending personalised emails, didn't say anything about responses.

"

Er...

That reads like "I'm too lazy to make an effort", as opposed to "They're too lazy to reply to my brilliance".

If that's not how you want to come across, suggest you have another try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some right Penguins on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"jeez!!as said give the guy some slack

No, seriously, do you even know what you typed? The guy posted a very short post, in which he basically complained and wondered if his post would help him.

How do you "give him slack" for that? Seriously? "

Hi, Yes when i post i do engage my brain , as i see it the OP wanted to make himself stick out from the crowd of single guys,he gave his reason why,we all read it and no doubt had a peep at his profile, i didnt see anything wrong with that

But you are of course entitled to your own opinion

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