FabSwingers.com forum: verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've noticed on my travels that a number of folks here won't meet anyone who isn't verified and can't help but wonder why they think that someone else should be the one to verify us for them if they're not willing to do it for others..reeks of selfishness if u ask me..thoughts anyone?

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By *tep121Man
over a year ago

manchester

Totally agree.. also almost impossible to actually chat to people on here as they think u are a timewaster when your not. Too many guys on here just taking the piss and treating women like shit..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is just a lot of the time people who arent verified are not genuine.

You could just go to a social event in your area, or a club, and i'm sure people will be happy to verify you then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed on my travels that a number of folks here won't meet anyone who isn't verified and can't help but wonder why they think that someone else should be the one to verify us for them if they're not willing to do it for others..reeks of selfishness if u ask me..thoughts anyone? "

I'm not here to perform some kind of public service...swinging isn't an altruistic pursuit... ultimately, in pursuing our own agenda and our own pleasures, we are all selfish to an extent...

I'm not sure what your issue is? Are people unwilling to meet you because you're unverified?

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By *tep121Man
over a year ago

manchester

Problem i have is that i work nights which includes every weekend which to me is a bit of a B**h. I know theres a load of guys on here that basically treat women like a piece of beef, which is totally wrong and i do actually understand why women ignore majority of guys on here. Only problem i have is that there are some guys who actually are genuine, that treat women with respect that are looking for more than just a one night stand, but because some of them are unverified, were often just ignored..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Problem i have is that i work nights which includes every weekend which to me is a bit of a B**h. I know theres a load of guys on here that basically treat women like a piece of beef, which is totally wrong and i do actually understand why women ignore majority of guys on here. Only problem i have is that there are some guys who actually are genuine, that treat women with respect that are looking for more than just a one night stand, but because some of them are unverified, were often just ignored.."

Are there not a lot of assumptions there?

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By *opmanforfun300Man
over a year ago

. Newcastle

Im a single guy and to be honest wont entertain anyone who isnt verified. When you look at profiles men woman and couple how many off them profiles are genuine its like a mine field. So makes sense if your looking for a fun night or even a social im going to go with someone who is verified and know that my time isnt going to be wasted. Lets face it to be verified isnt rocket science just pop to a local social night and get to know other members in your area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find if someone been on here for over a year and hasnt met any one alarm bells start ringing bug thats just me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications mean nothing to me

infact often repulse me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it really annoys me when folk wont meet newbies as i think they all forget they were all newbies and had to meet to be verified .

i still remember the first couple who met me for a social cup of coffee then verified me .

so even if ive been watching him her or them on cam while chatting and they are new. il veri by cam .

or il meet for a cuppa its only fair to mind who it was that gave you the chance and let others have that same chance as you got .

if they dont turn up then they dont turn up ... no veri left simples

but its just a social so i wouldnt bother .

just try and be fair its only a veri....

doesnt have to say hes greatest on site. just they turned up on time nice lad blah blah

so take a good look back and remind yourseleves who gave you , your first break .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it really annoys me when folk wont meet newbies as i think they all forget they were all newbies and had to meet to be verified .

i still remember the first couple who met me for a social cup of coffee then verified me .

so even if ive been watching him her or them on cam while chatting and they are new. il veri by cam .

or il meet for a cuppa its only fair to mind who it was that gave you the chance and let others have that same chance as you got .

if they dont turn up then they dont turn up ... no veri left simples

but its just a social so i wouldnt bother .

just try and be fair its only a veri....

doesnt have to say hes greatest on site. just they turned up on time nice lad blah blah

so take a good look back and remind yourseleves who gave you , your first break ..... "
very nice sentiment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not here to perform some kind of public service...swinging isn't an altruistic pursuit... ultimately, in pursuing our own agenda and our own pleasures, we are all selfish to an extent...

I'm not sure what your issue is? Are people unwilling to meet you because you're unverified? "

I'm not asking you to do anything and your altruistic leanings are your business and no one elses,just think it says alot about a person when they expect someone else to do something they wouldn't do themselves

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

actually it reeks of using everything else as an excuse...

oh but i am blameless and its all those other "nasty pasties" fault.......

people always focus on how others do their swinging as opposed to working out what they can do better themselves

the site gives you the tools to make it work... if you decide to take advantage of them.... use all, use some, use none.. thats on you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not sure what your issue is? Are people unwilling to meet you because you're unverified? "

Meant to add that i dont actually have an issue,just an observation and no,I haven't been turned down.I've been doing the turning down if I'm honest..i mean,Who wouldn't want me,I'm gorgeous me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It is just a lot of the time people who arent verified are not genuine.

You could just go to a social event in your area, or a club, and i'm sure people will be happy to verify you then."

I do get what u mean about being genuine but getting verified isn't the issue..could have a list of them on here if I asked but I choose not to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Verifications mean nothing to me

infact often repulse me"

Agree totally,if I was to meet you in a bar and start asking who you've slept with,when and where,i would expect and deserve a swift kick in the...well,you get the gist

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I do get what u mean about being genuine but getting verified isn't the issue..could have a list of them on here if I asked but I choose not to

you choose not to.... but the point is that it doesn't mean others shouldn't have that choice... and if they exercise their right to that choice not to be lampooned for it

if people decided they want to meet people after socials or clubs or being verified, that is there decision... not yours to make for them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"actually it reeks of using everything else as an excuse...

oh but i am blameless and its all those other "nasty pasties" fault.......

people always focus on how others do their swinging as opposed to working out what they can do better themselves

the site gives you the tools to make it work... if you decide to take advantage of them.... use all, use some, use none.. thats on you!"

What?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A verification on this site just shows people are genuine that's not to say those without verifications aren't but it does help in making informed choices

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do get what u mean about being genuine but getting verified isn't the issue..could have a list of them on here if I asked but I choose not to

you choose not to.... but the point is that it doesn't mean others shouldn't have that choice... and if they exercise their right to that choice not to be lampooned for it

if people decided they want to meet people after socials or clubs or being verified, that is there decision... not yours to make for them"

Again,what?

You really don't appear to get what I'm talking about

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