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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys and gals

We're a young couple and I'm looking for a woman for my husband to meet alone. He's a little shy so she would need to be understanding but once he's warmed up he licks pussy wonderfully

Is it only men we are ever going to get attention from?! :p

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is more men on this site than women! Most single guys find it hard to get women! You just gotta be polite, chat, be patient and see why happens!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Personally if I want to meet a guy 1-1 .... I'll meet a single guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The chances are very low, the ratio is 100 men to 1 woman

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By *ylonSlutTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

I think he would have more luck with a separate single profile.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Also people tend to view people asking for meets on behalf of a third party a little cynically. Out of interest why isn't he asking for himself? Is that how you like to do things?

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By *organ and rob zombieCouple
over a year ago

bradford

I'd run a mile personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally if I want to meet a guy 1-1 .... I'll meet a single guy.

"

Same goes for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies! It's just the way he wanted it to be done, my involvement in a sense. Personally I don't mind who he gets involved with as long as it's safe.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Put something in the meets forum you might have more of a chance there. Would the woman have contact with your husband beforehand, if I were single I wouldn't go for this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Put something in the meets forum you might have more of a chance there. Would the woman have contact with your husband beforehand, if I were single I wouldn't go for this."

Yes, I would make first contact and if she's interested, let him take it from there

Thank you, i will give it a go! X

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By *ittle Miss InnocenceWoman
over a year ago

Suffolk UK

tried going to a club.....? meet loads of people there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, we'd not meet a single from a couples profile as with experience we've found most men from a couples profile looking to meet alone are in fact single men, not saying you are but that's our experience. In saying that we'd also not meet a couple from a single persons profile which is just as common.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally if I want to meet a guy 1-1 .... I'll meet a single guy.

"

this

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Personally, we'd not meet a single from a couples profile as with experience we've found most men from a couples profile looking to meet alone are in fact single men, not saying you are but that's our experience. In saying that we'd also not meet a couple from a single persons profile which is just as common."

I don't really understand why people make requests such as this when setting up a profile that reflects what they're actually asking is so easy. I'm a cynical old bag and always deeply suspicious of one partner claiming to be asking on behalf of another because they're shy.....so shy that they're happy to have photos of their cock displayed on the internet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally, we'd not meet a single from a couples profile as with experience we've found most men from a couples profile looking to meet alone are in fact single men, not saying you are but that's our experience. In saying that we'd also not meet a couple from a single persons profile which is just as common.

I don't really understand why people make requests such as this when setting up a profile that reflects what they're actually asking is so easy. I'm a cynical old bag and always deeply suspicious of one partner claiming to be asking on behalf of another because they're shy.....so shy that they're happy to have photos of their cock displayed on the internet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally, we'd not meet a single from a couples profile as with experience we've found most men from a couples profile looking to meet alone are in fact single men, not saying you are but that's our experience. In saying that we'd also not meet a couple from a single persons profile which is just as common.

I don't really understand why people make requests such as this when setting up a profile that reflects what they're actually asking is so easy. I'm a cynical old bag and always deeply suspicious of one partner claiming to be asking on behalf of another because they're shy.....so shy that they're happy to have photos of their cock displayed on the internet.

"

Wow. Firstly, if a profile is photo verified surely that gives an indication that the couple is genuine as you need both parties in the verification picture, or am I missing the point of verification altogether??

It was set up as a turn on for the both of us, not just for him. I didn't expect to find such bitchiness after having received quite a pleasant response from people so far..!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Personally, we'd not meet a single from a couples profile as with experience we've found most men from a couples profile looking to meet alone are in fact single men, not saying you are but that's our experience. In saying that we'd also not meet a couple from a single persons profile which is just as common.

I don't really understand why people make requests such as this when setting up a profile that reflects what they're actually asking is so easy. I'm a cynical old bag and always deeply suspicious of one partner claiming to be asking on behalf of another because they're shy.....so shy that they're happy to have photos of their cock displayed on the internet.

Wow. Firstly, if a profile is photo verified surely that gives an indication that the couple is genuine as you need both parties in the verification picture, or am I missing the point of verification altogether??

It was set up as a turn on for the both of us, not just for him. I didn't expect to find such bitchiness after having received quite a pleasant response from people so far..! "

No but you felt able to start a whole new thread about it!

Put yourself in the position of a single woman and you might see things differently.

I stand by what I said and if you want to call me a bitch in an open forum then start a thread claiming to be hurt.....Go ahead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally, we'd not meet a single from a couples profile as with experience we've found most men from a couples profile looking to meet alone are in fact single men, not saying you are but that's our experience. In saying that we'd also not meet a couple from a single persons profile which is just as common.

I don't really understand why people make requests such as this when setting up a profile that reflects what they're actually asking is so easy. I'm a cynical old bag and always deeply suspicious of one partner claiming to be asking on behalf of another because they're shy.....so shy that they're happy to have photos of their cock displayed on the internet.

"

If they were that shy you would wonder if they would be able to perform.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would meet one half if a couple alone. But only if we knew both halves (and we mean know, not just met) and that the other party was 100% comfortable wity the arrangement.

To be honest people looking on behalf of their partners always rings alarm bells

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


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To be honest people looking on behalf of their partners always rings alarm bells"

this..

whilst it could be a genuine request from the OP there have been many of this type of 'meet wanted' which have turned out to be just fantasy..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

O.P.

Before you get too annoyed bear in mind you talking to experiences swingers not people who are new to the scene.

You may be different but many requests like yours do come from dodgy profiles.

In addition many women and couples on the whole prefer to meet who appears in a profile so if its a couple you would expect to meet both, it may sound synical but there is a thing called the honey trap too and I doubt that needs explaining.

If your guy wants a one on one then he will have to fight it out with all the other single guys with a single guys profile, after all your only needed to give your consent and let him get on with it.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Don't really understand the shyness part, i'm what you would call shy and quiet, but it doesn't stop me sending messages, phonecalls and meets maybe a bit different, but finding and messaging ladies shouldn't be an issue. you will find the majority of single ladies won't be keen to be set up in this way, they prefer to hunt their own prey

ted

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

As a single female, I get quite a few of these messages and to be honest it is very obvious that they have in fact been sent by a fake couple profile.

Though as I do meet single males I have no idea why they do this, but they do!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"O.P.

Before you get too annoyed bear in mind you talking to experiences swingers not people who are new to the scene.

You may be different but many requests like yours do come from dodgy profiles.

In addition many women and couples on the whole prefer to meet who appears in a profile so if its a couple you would expect to meet both, it may sound synical but there is a thing called the honey trap too and I doubt that needs explaining.

If your guy wants a one on one then he will have to fight it out with all the other single guys with a single guys profile, after all your only needed to give your consent and let him get on with it. "

Okay, I get it now. We've spoken to other couples who have used their profile to meet as a single, which is how the idea came to place. And being new to the site we naively didn't think of it being abnormal. I didn't think of it coming across as being sinister in any way thank you

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

You'd be better off with your husband having a single guys profile, if you are looking for people for him to meet. At least that way it is clear to the people you contact what is on offer. By all means keep the couple's profile for when you are looking as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You'd be better off with your husband having a single guys profile, if you are looking for people for him to meet. At least that way it is clear to the people you contact what is on offer. By all means keep the couple's profile for when you are looking as a couple. "

I've told him to get on it, thank you

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