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Why am i finding it so hard??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im finding it very hard to speak to females on here, let alone attract them. Ive been told im a gd looking guy, im a lil shy but i dont get it. I need just one person to help me open up my can of freaky worms

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By *onkers 76Man
over a year ago

pontypool

You got to give it time lots of blokes on here , it's never going to be easy

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By *onkers 76Man
over a year ago

pontypool

Hang on scrap that last post you've been here over a year and had meets , what's the problem??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One or two, one happened to be a friend of mine i hooked up with. The other was a disaster, after getting there etc, we start kissing an about to get busy then she stops an has second thoughts sayin "i cant cheat on my husband"

But she stil verified me

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By *onkers 76Man
over a year ago

pontypool

Oh dear well I'm no expert and I find it hard myself but ya know you can't make people want to meet you lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lool true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the male to female ratio had something to do with or maybe the fact that you've put more effort into this question than your actual profile text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah it's easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously though mate. It will happen. Just takes time and lots of effort.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

There are loads of threads asking similar questions, there's lots of advice on those, take a look..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is doing nothing for you.

With the large number of men compared to women, the ladies are spoiled for choice and will not look twice at a profile that has virtually no info on it at all. What are you looking for? What have you got to offer?

Sell yourself! You only get one chance to make a first impression

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Revamping that profile man .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile is awful. No decent pics and zero effort put into it. Also spelling and grammatical errors.

Spend time revamping profile rather than wasting time on forum

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at your profile from a woman's perspective.

Would you meet you based on what you can read?

If it's not working, change it. Fab' is pretty simple when 'you' use all of the available tools to help 'yourself'

Note that the emphasis is on 'you' to make it work not everyone else.

Effort in...........rewards out.

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town

Ok to put it nicely, your profile is shit!!

You have written more in your OP than your whole profile, which says everything.

Search the forums for the other threads offering the same advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok to put it nicely, your profile is shit!!

You have written more in your OP than your whole profile, which says everything.

Search the forums for the other threads offering the same advice. "

Was about to say the exact same thing.

You message someone. They look at your profile. They see the lack of effort and the numerous nob shots. They click back and delete your message.

As the previous poster said . ... to be blunt and honest your profile is shit.

Loads of guys for each woman/couple. Buyers market and you need to sell yourself. You are simply not doing this.

This site works well and some of us single guys have had lots of success and very many verifications. The only thing you can change is yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im finding it very hard to speak to females on here, let alone attract them. Ive been told im a gd looking guy, im a lil shy but i dont get it. I need just one person to help me open up my can of freaky worms"

Erm ... Perhaps because your profile is two lines long and says nothing about you? And your photos show very little of yourself?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok well after that advice ive now added ALOT more to my profile!!

Is that better??

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By *ercy the Park KeeperMan
over a year ago

Chester

Take your time be polite don't push things and find a formula with messages that work for you is the best way to go.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

You 'DONT accom' (don't accommodate) and will only get a hotel but she 'gotta be the BEES KNESS for that' (Bee's Knees)

Women like me, who will not accommodate and aren't the 'BEES KNESS', are forming an orderly queue in the hope that you might change your mind

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton


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Is that better??"

In a word no, frankly it's awful.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Advice then plz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps its the messages you send to women as way of introduction.

No expert here, i have only had two meets myself.

But as you can see i lack a six pack and 8"+ cock, im also in a relationship which is a turn off for many women.

I think the fact you cant accomodate may also be a turn off for the Ladies as i believe many see that as a big sign which reads 'Cheater'.

Advice be yourself, be honest dont use text speak in messages. perhaps go too clubs and other social meets.

Relax and enjoy the site.

G.R.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps its the messages you send to women as way of introduction.

No expert here, i have only had two meets myself.

But as you can see i lack a six pack and 8"+ cock, im also in a relationship which is a turn off for many women.

I think the fact you cant accomodate may also be a turn off for the Ladies as i believe many see that as a big sign which reads 'Cheater'.

Advice be yourself, be honest dont use text speak in messages. perhaps go too clubs and other social meets.

Relax and enjoy the site.

G.R.

Thanx

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By *heQualityChaserMan
over a year ago

Leicester

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By *reacher and TartCouple
over a year ago

High Peak


"Im finding it very hard to speak to females on here, let alone attract them. Ive been told im a gd looking guy, im a lil shy but i dont get it. I need just one person to help me open up my can of freaky worms"

Nothing in life is easy and male swingledon is one of the hardiest things of all. Patience is needed lots of it.

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By *ougarsandcubsWoman
over a year ago

Medway

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By *ougarsandcubsWoman
over a year ago

Medway

I never had meets for years off another site. So I started going to events and socials. I still don't get decent offers of meets from the site it's self. But have met played and become friends with some amazing people going to clubs and socials

That way worked for me xx

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