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"I'm into no condom sex, so if you are too, read my profile and if it is for you, send me a message. Thanks x" Also happy to help women get pregnant ?? ISSUES This is swinging not a friggin kindergarden.. Cant wait to see who your first meet is with | |||
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"I'm into no condom sex, so if you are too, read my profile and if it is for you, send me a message. Thanks x" . When were you last tested for STIs and how regularly are you tested if you are into bareback which is high risk. If you get someone pregnant will you also pay all the child maintenance for the next 18 years or do you expect the tax payer to fund this . What future will a child have as a result of this type of liaison. These are hardly the actions of a responsible citizen. | |||
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"Only way is if u either get checks done or ur elergic to condoms " Getting checked doesn't make you immune to catching something, also there are latex free if you are allergic. | |||
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"If someone is honest you know exactly where you are and can respond or not. There are many profiles that say one thing and mean something else I would rather complete honesty myself." Nice to see some common sense posted in this thread. So many people bang on about others not being honest but then when they are they get slated... only if their a guy though because if this had been posted by a woman the replies would not have been the same. | |||
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"ooo i don't know about that its a brutal place this seen many men and women get ripped to shreds for having the balls to post there belief / thing / _iew " Yep me too. Insult is often used in place of reasoned argument here. | |||
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"Just read the profile why would you want to go bareback its so dangerous I've just had a friend diagnosed with HIV for going bare back " Huge fan of people not being harrassed for admitting their preference for bareback sex as lots do it but descry it to others in public, but this guy IS in all the high risk categories and is a HIV case waiting to happen or walking. | |||
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"Just read the profile why would you want to go bareback its so dangerous I've just had a friend diagnosed with HIV for going bare back " Herpes is as bad. Nobody wants that! Or gonorrhoea for that matter. Don't much fancy syphilis either. And if you catch chlamydia as a woman you are damaging your fallopian tubes so that your only hope of a pregnancy will be by IVF. Obviously it's up to you but the more people who get infected put the more sensible people at increased risk. | |||
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"I love fucking bare back! Infact i only do bare back! And if you don't like it, up yours! I don't go around telling others how to fuck! So keep your preaching to yourself! " Always handy to know all the men with "safe sex" on their profile who meet unashamed bare backers though...We never take what people say at face value anyway, but confirmation is always handy as is the private notes function...Thanks for that...  | |||
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"ooo i don't know about that its a brutal place this seen many men and women get ripped to shreds for having the balls to post there belief / thing / _iew " People can bareback as much as they like, not my business. But when someone offers on Their profile to impregnate women as long as no strings afterwards then I do take umbrage a bit. My taxes may be used to support that child with whom he has "no strings". In addition every child has a legal right to know who their biological parent is and to form a relationship with them. The children of this guy will be denied that right and I find that a bit unpleasant | |||
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"The more you guys shout and scream about responsibility /morals/ honesty etc the less likely people will be honest..We have no right to demand honesty from other swingers whether it be age/sexual identidy/size of dick etc How many of you honest folk are tellin yr partners/lovers what you do on here.. Barebackin is not uncommon(go to a gay sauna and observe)or even doggin/cruising sites and in some ways is more instinctive/natural than using protection. At least the op is putting his cards on the table,if it freaks you out,pass him by...simples" | |||
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"Good Luck with this one OP your gonna need it!!!!! Just by posting this you will be getting blocked instantly by an abundance of people. IMHO if your going to swing you really need to take your sexual health more seriously, but bravo for you honesty and ultimately the final nail in your fab coffin " Congratulations on your pregnancy.....It wasn't 'yr man', (OP) was it? lol | |||
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"Only way is if u either get checks done or ur elergic to condoms Getting checked doesn't make you immune to catching something, also there are latex free if you are allergic." total forgot about them ones | |||
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"The more you guys shout and scream about responsibility /morals/ honesty etc the less likely people will be honest..We have no right to demand honesty from other swingers whether it be age/sexual identidy/size of dick etc How many of you honest folk are tellin yr partners/lovers what you do on here.. Barebackin is not uncommon(go to a gay sauna and observe)or even doggin/cruising sites and in some ways is more instinctive/natural than using protection. At least the op is putting his cards on the table,if it freaks you out,pass him by...simples" | |||
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"Not judgemental at all but if we were to post a "Looking for disease and a long commitment to another life" post, what do you think the response from sane people would be?" | |||
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"Good Luck with this one OP your gonna need it!!!!! Just by posting this you will be getting blocked instantly by an abundance of people. IMHO if your going to swing you really need to take your sexual health more seriously, but bravo for you honesty and ultimately the final nail in your fab coffin Congratulations on your pregnancy.....It wasn't 'yr man', (OP) was it? lol" thank you and yes the babies dad is my man an my man only one i do play saf an two i did swing while trying to conceive or after conceiving. BB with my long term partner whilst trying to make baby for geniune reasons is different matter | |||
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"If someone is honest you know exactly where you are and can respond or not. There are many profiles that say one thing and mean something else I would rather complete honesty myself." I also agree with you. | |||
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"Sexually transmitted diseases have been around for a long time...some more serious than others.. We make choices and life is a gamble..sex drugs rock n roll.. To suggest that someone is 'insane' for choosing unprotected sex, i think is a completely over the top reaction on a site such as this...now,if you were a daily mail reader,i could see where yr 'judgement' was coming from.. A number of people on sites like this will be hiv positive,it is a fact and with the comments i have read,they aint gonna tell you their status. happy swinging folks "And I reserve the right to be as judgmental as I like...when someone comes on a public forum like this one, to announce he is very happy to contribute to the spread of disease and misery to others and to claim on his profile that he will happily get a woman pregnant with no strings attached??? That unborn child will not only never know their biological father because the biological mother and her one night stand put their own selfish sexual kink before the happiness and health of an innocent child, but they also place that child at risk of contracting HIV in the womb! Yes...the world is a risky place which is why we wear seat belts when we drive to try and limit damage if we crash. It won't stop the crash. But it might stop me from dying! And its why we promote the use of condoms! Nothing is 100% foolproof. But condoms are scientifically proven to massively reduce the risk of transmission of known or unknown infection (because not everyone has regular testing or will be honest) and to prevent the birth of an innocent unborn child. So...am I being judgemental? Hell yes!!!!! With bells and whistles! | |||
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"Sexually transmitted diseases have been around for a long time...some more serious than others.. We make choices and life is a gamble..sex drugs rock n roll.. To suggest that someone is 'insane' for choosing unprotected sex, i think is a completely over the top reaction on a site such as this...now,if you were a daily mail reader,i could see where yr 'judgement' was coming from.. A number of people on sites like this will be hiv positive,it is a fact and with the comments i have read,they aint gonna tell you their status. happy swinging folks "I am not a Daily Mail reader. My _iew is that unprotected sex with a stranger is insane. So there! | |||
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"Its really simple! If you don't like it don't do it! But don't have a go at the people who do! Our lives, our choice! Jog on!" | |||
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"Its really simple! If you don't like it don't do it! But don't have a go at the people who do! Our lives, our choice! Jog on!" As long as you are honest enough to tell others before you have sex with them, I have no problem with that. I think you are silly but, as long as you are upfront, then that is fine. | |||
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"Its really simple! If you don't like it don't do it! But don't have a go at the people who do! Our lives, our choice! Jog on!" Some sanity at last...thank you.. | |||
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"Its really simple! If you don't like it don't do it! But don't have a go at the people who do! Our lives, our choice! Jog on! Some sanity at last...thank you.." While I do not disagree with choice, I prefer informed choice and I notice that you do not have "bareback" on your profile interests. | |||
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"Sexually transmitted diseases have been around for a long time...some more serious than others.. We make choices and life is a gamble..sex drugs rock n roll.. To suggest that someone is 'insane' for choosing unprotected sex, i think is a completely over the top reaction on a site such as this...now,if you were a daily mail reader,i could see where yr 'judgement' was coming from.. A number of people on sites like this will be hiv positive,it is a fact and with the comments i have read,they aint gonna tell you their status. happy swinging folks
I am not a Daily Mail reader. My _iew is that unprotected sex with a stranger is insane. So there!"Aha now i get you,its all the fault of strangers,like child abuse...nothing to do with the family..Std,s nothing to do with 'real'relationships! Its spread by strangers.. | |||
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"Sexually transmitted diseases have been around for a long time...some more serious than others.. We make choices and life is a gamble..sex drugs rock n roll.. To suggest that someone is 'insane' for choosing unprotected sex, i think is a completely over the top reaction on a site such as this...now,if you were a daily mail reader,i could see where yr 'judgement' was coming from.. A number of people on sites like this will be hiv positive,it is a fact and with the comments i have read,they aint gonna tell you their status. happy swinging folks
And I reserve the right to be as judgmental as I like...when someone comes on a public forum like this one, to announce he is very happy to contribute to the spread of disease and misery to others and to claim on his profile that he will happily get a woman pregnant with no strings attached??? That unborn child will not only never know their biological father because the biological mother and her one night stand put their own selfish sexual kink before the happiness and health of an innocent child, but they also place that child at risk of contracting HIV in the womb!
Yes...the world is a risky place which is why we wear seat belts when we drive to try and limit damage if we crash. It won't stop the crash. But it might stop me from dying! And its why we promote the use of condoms! Nothing is 100% foolproof. But condoms are scientifically proven to massively reduce the risk of transmission of known or unknown infection (because not everyone has regular testing or will be honest) and to prevent the birth of an innocent unborn child.
So...am I being judgemental? Hell yes!!!!! With bells and whistles! "Condom wearer here. Wife even suggested that we would wear hazmat suits if that would improve our chances for a potential meet... you are seriously hot, maybe we should also consider something fire retardant too, just in case... | |||
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"Sexually transmitted diseases have been around for a long time...some more serious than others.. We make choices and life is a gamble..sex drugs rock n roll.. To suggest that someone is 'insane' for choosing unprotected sex, i think is a completely over the top reaction on a site such as this...now,if you were a daily mail reader,i could see where yr 'judgement' was coming from.. A number of people on sites like this will be hiv positive,it is a fact and with the comments i have read,they aint gonna tell you their status. happy swinging folks
I am not a Daily Mail reader. My _iew is that unprotected sex with a stranger is insane. So there! Aha now i get you,its all the fault of strangers,like child abuse...nothing to do with the family..Std,s nothing to do with 'real'relationships! Its spread by strangers.."Nope but the risk of an STD is increased by having unprotected sex with others. Is that not common sense? Again, another poster without "bareback sex" listed as an interest. And where on earth did I even mention child abuse? I thought I was being quite logical. If you want to take the risk then that is fine but please do not expose unknowing people to that risk. | |||
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"Sexually transmitted diseases have been around for a long time...some more serious than others.. We make choices and life is a gamble..sex drugs rock n roll.. To suggest that someone is 'insane' for choosing unprotected sex, i think is a completely over the top reaction on a site such as this...now,if you were a daily mail reader,i could see where yr 'judgement' was coming from.. A number of people on sites like this will be hiv positive,it is a fact and with the comments i have read,they aint gonna tell you their status. happy swinging folks
I am not a Daily Mail reader. My _iew is that unprotected sex with a stranger is insane. So there! Aha now i get you,its all the fault of strangers,like child abuse...nothing to do with the family..Std,s nothing to do with 'real'relationships! Its spread by strangers..
Nope but the risk of an STD is increased by having unprotected sex with others. Is that not common sense? Again, another poster without "bareback sex" listed as an interest. And where on earth did I even mention child abuse? I thought I was being quite logical. If you want to take the risk then that is fine but please do not expose unknowing people to that risk."People can defend others(barebackers)without necessarily practising the act themselves..Can you not see why some people dont want to declare their interest in barebacking or publicise hiv status???Its because of ignorance and prejudice..however if you take responsibility for yourself,it wont affect you. | |||
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"Sexually transmitted diseases have been around for a long time...some more serious than others.. We make choices and life is a gamble..sex drugs rock n roll.. To suggest that someone is 'insane' for choosing unprotected sex, i think is a completely over the top reaction on a site such as this...now,if you were a daily mail reader,i could see where yr 'judgement' was coming from.. A number of people on sites like this will be hiv positive,it is a fact and with the comments i have read,they aint gonna tell you their status. happy swinging folks
I am not a Daily Mail reader. My _iew is that unprotected sex with a stranger is insane. So there! Aha now i get you,its all the fault of strangers,like child abuse...nothing to do with the family..Std,s nothing to do with 'real'relationships! Its spread by strangers..
Nope but the risk of an STD is increased by having unprotected sex with others. Is that not common sense? Again, another poster without "bareback sex" listed as an interest. And where on earth did I even mention child abuse? I thought I was being quite logical. If you want to take the risk then that is fine but please do not expose unknowing people to that risk. People can defend others(barebackers)without necessarily practising the act themselves..Can you not see why some people dont want to declare their interest in barebacking or publicise hiv status???Its because of ignorance and prejudice..however if you take responsibility for yourself,it wont affect you.
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"Infact i wanna massive gang bang! 20 or so will do all bare back.....lovely!!!! Hope that pisses you off!!! Lmfao!" Mmmmm nice big creampie clean up there x | |||
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"Ive removed posts so if you have quoted them they have gone too sorry" Accepted, though mine wete reasonable, I thought. I do understand. | |||
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"I love fucking bare back! Infact i only do bare back! And if you don't like it, up yours! I don't go around telling others how to fuck! So keep your preaching to yourself! " If you're the male half making the "up yours'" statement, the point is you wont get it "up theirs'" if you're into bareback  | |||
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"Infact i wanna massive gang bang! 20 or so will do all bare back.....lovely!!!! Hope that pisses you off!!! Lmfao!" This does not piss me off, it just makes me feel sorry for you,and your extended family for when this kind of play catches up with you, it's like a game of Russian roulette with your life, I'm not judging it's just so heartbreaking to read  | |||
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"I'm into no condom sex, so if you are too, read my profile and if it is for you, send me a message. Thanks x" I don't want to take the risk but you have every right to do things the way you want The 'Church Brigade' here would make you believe that bareback sex is either illegal or that they possess hidden and highly specialised medical knowledge which people who want bareback sex do not have access to And the creeps who threaten other people with the 'blocks' have absolutely no idea how stupid and silly they sound | |||
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"Just read the profile why would you want to go bareback its so dangerous I've just had a friend diagnosed with HIV for going bare back " Well said guys...at least you've flagged up a note of the reality of playing bare. Sorry for your friend and anyone else who catches something they didn't want/expect. Its a free country (still) | |||
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"I'm into no condom sex, so if you are too, read my profile and if it is for you, send me a message. Thanks x I don't want to take the risk but you have every right to do things the way you want The 'Church Brigade' here would make you believe that bareback sex is either illegal or that they possess hidden and highly specialised medical knowledge which people who want bareback sex do not have access to And the creeps who threaten other people with the 'blocks' have absolutely no idea how stupid and silly they sound " Creeps? A bit strong isn't it? If you really take note of what you've written, it's hypocritical. You've told someone he has the right of choice, then insulted others for a differing _iew, and others again simply cos they've blocked or threatened to. Don't they have the right of choice without insult like the OP? | |||
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"I'm into no condom sex, so if you are too, read my profile and if it is for you, send me a message. Thanks x I don't want to take the risk but you have every right to do things the way you want The 'Church Brigade' here would make you believe that bareback sex is either illegal or that they possess hidden and highly specialised medical knowledge which people who want bareback sex do not have access to And the creeps who threaten other people with the 'blocks' have absolutely no idea how stupid and silly they sound Creeps? A bit strong isn't it? If you really take note of what you've written, it's hypocritical. You've told someone he has the right of choice, then insulted others for a differing _iew, and others again simply cos they've blocked or threatened to. Don't they have the right of choice without insult like the OP?" No, it is not strong nor hypocritical. It is my choice to think of them as that in _iew of their threats. As if anyone on this planet cares if they block someone or not | |||
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"I'm into no condom sex, so if you are too, read my profile and if it is for you, send me a message. Thanks x Also happy to help women get pregnant ?? ISSUES This is swinging not a friggin kindergarden.. Cant wait to see who your first meet is with " Are you always so rude? | |||
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"I'm into no condom sex, so if you are too, read my profile and if it is for you, send me a message. Thanks x. When were you last tested for STIs and how regularly are you tested if you are into bareback which is high risk. If you get someone pregnant will you also pay all the child maintenance for the next 18 years or do you expect the tax payer to fund this . What future will a child have as a result of this type of liaison. These are hardly the actions of a responsible citizen." If you aren't into it, don't pass judgement on others. It's frankly none of your business. | |||
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"It is useful when people put up threads like this.....I know who to block "Any when people pass judgement on others and are ignorant, I know who to block too | |||
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"There are some SAD people on here. " Couldn't agree more | |||
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"If someone is honest you know exactly where you are and can respond or not. There are many profiles that say one thing and mean something else I would rather complete honesty myself." Thank you | |||
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"If someone is honest you know exactly where you are and can respond or not. There are many profiles that say one thing and mean something else I would rather complete honesty myself. Nice to see some common sense posted in this thread. So many people bang on about others not being honest but then when they are they get slated... only if their a guy though because if this had been posted by a woman the replies would not have been the same." I'm being very clear about what I want. If people aren't interested, that's their choice too. | |||
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"I love fucking bare back! Infact i only do bare back! And if you don't like it, up yours! I don't go around telling others how to fuck! So keep your preaching to yourself! " Well said! Bareback is natural | |||
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"Oh sweet Jebus, willing to help women get pregnant? Who could refuse such an offer?
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"It is useful when people put up threads like this.....I know who to block
Any when people pass judgement on others and are ignorant, I know who to block too"Block me, block me, please No? Ok, I blocked you instead | |||
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"The more you guys shout and scream about responsibility /morals/ honesty etc the less likely people will be honest..We have no right to demand honesty from other swingers whether it be age/sexual identidy/size of dick etc How many of you honest folk are tellin yr partners/lovers what you do on here.. Barebackin is not uncommon(go to a gay sauna and observe)or even doggin/cruising sites and in some ways is more instinctive/natural than using protection. At least the op is putting his cards on the table,if it freaks you out,pass him by...simples" Thank you. The fact is I always get contacted by men on profiles who say they always practice safe sex, and they are happy to bareback with me. The amount of naivety here is incredible. | |||
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"I'm into no condom sex, so if you are too, read my profile and if it is for you, send me a message. Thanks x I don't want to take the risk but you have every right to do things the way you want The 'Church Brigade' here would make you believe that bareback sex is either illegal or that they possess hidden and highly specialised medical knowledge which people who want bareback sex do not have access to And the creeps who threaten other people with the 'blocks' have absolutely no idea how stupid and silly they sound " Not sure it is the Church Brigade. The Catholic Church is opposed to condom use. | |||
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"Hmmm. I find it highly amusing that some people here will publicly berate anyone who even mentions bareback sex but would happily admit to swallowing cum/fanny juice. Double standards much? And I've met with people who will state 'safe sex' in their profile yet don't even mention condoms during play meets. C'mon people. If you're gonna have a go at others be sure you're whiter than white! " Good points! | |||
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"i wonder how many of the sanctimonious people making comments have ever gone bareback in a moment of lust /passion /stupidity. " True...but they won't admit it. | |||
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"It is useful when people put up threads like this.....I know who to block
Any when people pass judgement on others and are ignorant, I know who to block too"Judgement in this case is totally permissible. The person hasn't condemned you but rather assessed that they wouldn't entertain your preferences, and therefore have made it impossible for contact to place. So why is this ignorant? | |||
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"i wonder how many of the sanctimonious people making comments have ever gone bareback in a moment of lust /passion /stupidity. " I can imagine theres a few and after their moment of passion they probably never went to their local clinic to get che ked out either. I am one of the ones that can honestly say ive never been in that situation. Only done BB with two men my ex husband n my current partner the father of my children. However in my years on this site every single one of my meets have attempted to go without its me thats told them wrap up or get out. If anyone wants to do BB its up to them, but its a risk im unwilling to take and thats my choice. | |||
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"When I started this thread, I was looking for responses for those who enjoyed the same kind of sex; i.e. as nature intended. I wasn't asking for anyone's approval. I have read widely on the subject and I weigh up the risks. I never get fucked myself, I am not a bottom, and I have been fucking without condoms for over 15 years. I get tested regularly. I am not unaware of risks or stupid. But I hate condoms and they turn me off. If you don't agree with me...move on. If you agree with me, message me privately. Nobody should put up with abuse." Abuse can be reported. | |||
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"It is useful when people put up threads like this.....I know who to block
Any when people pass judgement on others and are ignorant, I know who to block too
Judgement in this case is totally permissible. The person hasn't condemned you but rather assessed that they wouldn't entertain your preferences, and therefore have made it impossible for contact to place. So why is this ignorant?"They don't need to express their opinion if it is not for them. If they block me, all the better. They are not people I would be interested in anyway. "Ignorant" as they have rather outdated _iews as to the risks or otherwise of bareback sex. | |||
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"When I started this thread, I was looking for responses for those who enjoyed the same kind of sex; i.e. as nature intended. I wasn't asking for anyone's approval. I have read widely on the subject and I weigh up the risks. I never get fucked myself, I am not a bottom, and I have been fucking without condoms for over 15 years. I get tested regularly. I am not unaware of risks or stupid. But I hate condoms and they turn me off. If you don't agree with me...move on. If you agree with me, message me privately. Nobody should put up with abuse. Abuse can be reported." I agree, but in some ways it is better for other forum users to witness and then block those who make a habit of being abusive. | |||
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"It is useful when people put up threads like this.....I know who to block
Any when people pass judgement on others and are ignorant, I know who to block too
Judgement in this case is totally permissible. The person hasn't condemned you but rather assessed that they wouldn't entertain your preferences, and therefore have made it impossible for contact to place. So why is this ignorant?
They don't need to express their opinion if it is not for them. If they block me, all the better. They are not people I would be interested in anyway. "Ignorant" as they have rather outdated _iews as to the risks or otherwise of bareback sex."If you dont mind me asking why are their _iews "outdated"? | |||
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"i wonder how many of the sanctimonious people making comments have ever gone bareback in a moment of lust /passion /stupidity. I can imagine theres a few and after their moment of passion they probably never went to their local clinic to get che ked out either. I am one of the ones that can honestly say ive never been in that situation. Only done BB with two men my ex husband n my current partner the father of my children. However in my years on this site every single one of my meets have attempted to go without its me thats told them wrap up or get out. If anyone wants to do BB its up to them, but its a risk im unwilling to take and thats my choice. " Fair enough and I fully understand and respect your choice. | |||
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"It is useful when people put up threads like this.....I know who to block
Any when people pass judgement on others and are ignorant, I know who to block too
Judgement in this case is totally permissible. The person hasn't condemned you but rather assessed that they wouldn't entertain your preferences, and therefore have made it impossible for contact to place. So why is this ignorant?
They don't need to express their opinion if it is not for them. If they block me, all the better. They are not people I would be interested in anyway. "Ignorant" as they have rather outdated _iews as to the risks or otherwise of bareback sex."The forum is a free for all, albeit following site rules. Any member who thinks they can dictate how people should respond, should wake up and smell the coffee. As for ignorant... I can not for one moment believe a gum clinic would agree with you. Stick to your preferences but don't call those who wish to play safer, ignorant. | |||
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"It is useful when people put up threads like this.....I know who to block
Any when people pass judgement on others and are ignorant, I know who to block too
Judgement in this case is totally permissible. The person hasn't condemned you but rather assessed that they wouldn't entertain your preferences, and therefore have made it impossible for contact to place. So why is this ignorant?
They don't need to express their opinion if it is not for them. If they block me, all the better. They are not people I would be interested in anyway. "Ignorant" as they have rather outdated _iews as to the risks or otherwise of bareback sex.
If you dont mind me asking why are their _iews "outdated"?"I suggest anyone interested in the subject should read about the different findings of who is at risk in bareback encounters. Interestingly for men, someone who does not have hiv is at minimal risk if they fuck someone with hiv - if their viral load is undetectable due to being on medication. | |||
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"It is useful when people put up threads like this.....I know who to block
Any when people pass judgement on others and are ignorant, I know who to block too
Judgement in this case is totally permissible. The person hasn't condemned you but rather assessed that they wouldn't entertain your preferences, and therefore have made it impossible for contact to place. So why is this ignorant?
They don't need to express their opinion if it is not for them. If they block me, all the better. They are not people I would be interested in anyway. "Ignorant" as they have rather outdated _iews as to the risks or otherwise of bareback sex.
The forum is a free for all, albeit following site rules. Any member who thinks they can dictate how people should respond, should wake up and smell the coffee.
As for ignorant... I can not for one moment believe a gum clinic would agree with you. Stick to your preferences but don't call those who wish to play safer, ignorant."I think you have too much time on your hands then | |||
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"It is useful when people put up threads like this.....I know who to block
Any when people pass judgement on others and are ignorant, I know who to block too
Judgement in this case is totally permissible. The person hasn't condemned you but rather assessed that they wouldn't entertain your preferences, and therefore have made it impossible for contact to place. So why is this ignorant?"The 'assessment' needn't be public; they could just block 99% of the members here and move on without getting onto a soap-box But oooh nooo, they have to show what superior intellect they possess Afterall, this is THEIR moment to shine | |||
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"It is useful when people put up threads like this.....I know who to block
Any when people pass judgement on others and are ignorant, I know who to block too
Judgement in this case is totally permissible. The person hasn't condemned you but rather assessed that they wouldn't entertain your preferences, and therefore have made it impossible for contact to place. So why is this ignorant?
They don't need to express their opinion if it is not for them. If they block me, all the better. They are not people I would be interested in anyway. "Ignorant" as they have rather outdated _iews as to the risks or otherwise of bareback sex.
The forum is a free for all, albeit following site rules. Any member who thinks they can dictate how people should respond, should wake up and smell the coffee.
As for ignorant... I can not for one moment believe a gum clinic would agree with you. Stick to your preferences but don't call those who wish to play safer, ignorant.
I think you have too much time on your hands then "That's like saying 2+3= an oak tree. | |||
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"It is useful when people put up threads like this.....I know who to block
Any when people pass judgement on others and are ignorant, I know who to block too
Judgement in this case is totally permissible. The person hasn't condemned you but rather assessed that they wouldn't entertain your preferences, and therefore have made it impossible for contact to place. So why is this ignorant?
They don't need to express their opinion if it is not for them. If they block me, all the better. They are not people I would be interested in anyway. "Ignorant" as they have rather outdated _iews as to the risks or otherwise of bareback sex.
If you dont mind me asking why are their _iews "outdated"?
I suggest anyone interested in the subject should read about the different findings of who is at risk in bareback encounters. Interestingly for men, someone who does not have hiv is at minimal risk if they fuck someone with hiv - if their viral load is undetectable due to being on medication."Im not interested i know the score, was just curious as to your level of education on the matter. Its good to at least know you are well informed and have weighed your options before running the risk you do. Just be aware that a minimal risk is still a risk though it only takes once. Having said thats there are still risks even playing safely as i do (condoms dont stop the spread on genital warts to name one STD) but the risks are drastically reduced. | |||
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"It is useful when people put up threads like this.....I know who to block
Any when people pass judgement on others and are ignorant, I know who to block too
Judgement in this case is totally permissible. The person hasn't condemned you but rather assessed that they wouldn't entertain your preferences, and therefore have made it impossible for contact to place. So why is this ignorant?
They don't need to express their opinion if it is not for them. If they block me, all the better. They are not people I would be interested in anyway. "Ignorant" as they have rather outdated _iews as to the risks or otherwise of bareback sex.
The forum is a free for all, albeit following site rules. Any member who thinks they can dictate how people should respond, should wake up and smell the coffee.
As for ignorant... I can not for one moment believe a gum clinic would agree with you. Stick to your preferences but don't call those who wish to play safer, ignorant.
I think you have too much time on your hands then
That's like saying 2+3= an oak tree."2+3 = 5 when I was at school. | |||
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"and the 18yrs of child support???...... just curious since you think you can get someone pregnant no strings...." I think that might be difficult to dodge. It is a fair point though, and a child deserves to be financially supported. | |||
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"If someone is honest you know exactly where you are and can respond or not. There are many profiles that say one thing and mean something else I would rather complete honesty myself." | |||
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"Also,I see the poster is a Bi guy .Nothing wrong with that,but unprotected Bi guy sex? .. Alot of Bi guys will be having sex with gay guys (perhaps without realising) and gay guys are notoriously promiscious .. So how many Bi guys+CHEATING Bi guys into unprotected are gonna be spreading alot more than their ` love `about? The answer will NOT be zero,methinks ""gay guys are notoriously promiscuous" erm...unlike straight guys.... wakey wakey | |||
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"If someone is honest you know exactly where you are and can respond or not. There are many profiles that say one thing and mean something else I would rather complete honesty myself. "Thank you | |||
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"Also,I see the poster is a Bi guy .Nothing wrong with that,but unprotected Bi guy sex? .. Alot of Bi guys will be having sex with gay guys (perhaps without realising) and gay guys are notoriously promiscious .. So how many Bi guys+CHEATING Bi guys into unprotected are gonna be spreading alot more than their ` love `about? The answer will NOT be zero,methinks
"gay guys are notoriously promiscuous" erm...unlike straight guys....
wakey wakey "in all fairness the OP as a point There! | |||
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"All i hear is the deafening click of block buttons......" Did you hear that one | |||
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"All i hear is the deafening click of block buttons...... Did you hear that one "lol | |||
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"All i hear is the deafening click of block buttons...... Did you hear that one
lol "It's a wonderful sound
It means I don't have to have contact with narrow-minded, judgemental people who seem to forget they are having sex with married people who are breaking their wedding vows...LOL | |||
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"All i hear is the deafening click of block buttons...... Did you hear that one
lol
It's a wonderful sound
It means I don't have to have contact with narrow-minded, judgemental people who seem to forget they are having sex with married people who are breaking their wedding vows...LOL"There is one thing id take issue with here, and that is people calling BB blockers judgemental because they have blocked you for your preferences. Personally Ive blocked the OP (and a few others) not because i believe hes wrong for making the personal choice he as, but because I feel ive done him a favour. I wouldnt meet him because I like to play safe, so if he had have possibly liked the look of my profile enough to message me, he now doesnt have to waste his time doing so, he can spend it finding people that also enjoy BB instead. That seems logical to me, not judgemental | |||
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"All i hear is the deafening click of block buttons...... Did you hear that one
lol
It's a wonderful sound
It means I don't have to have contact with narrow-minded, judgemental people who seem to forget they are having sex with married people who are breaking their wedding vows...LOL
There is one thing id take issue with here, and that is people calling BB blockers judgemental because they have blocked you for your preferences.
Personally Ive blocked the OP (and a few others) not because i believe hes wrong for making the personal choice he as, but because I feel ive done him a favour. I wouldnt meet him because I like to play safe, so if he had have possibly liked the look of my profile enough to message me, he now doesnt have to waste his time doing so, he can spend it finding people that also enjoy BB instead.
That seems logical to me, not judgemental"You could have blocked him using the same 'logic' but without posting your decision on this or any other thread May I enquire as to why you felt the need to share your 'block' decision with the entire world? Did you expect to be congratulated for your insight into STIs which only a few, like yourself, are privy to? | |||
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"and the 18yrs of child support???...... just curious since you think you can get someone pregnant no strings.... I think that might be difficult to dodge. It is a fair point though, and a child deserves to be financially supported." And it's only the financial part of the support that matters? 
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"Also,I see the poster is a Bi guy .Nothing wrong with that,but unprotected Bi guy sex? .. Alot of Bi guys will be having sex with gay guys (perhaps without realising) and gay guys are notoriously promiscious .. So how many Bi guys+CHEATING Bi guys into unprotected are gonna be spreading alot more than their ` love `about? The answer will NOT be zero,methinks
"gay guys are notoriously promiscuous" erm...unlike straight guys....
wakey wakey "I have gay friends and straight friends and id bet everything i own gay guys are BETTER at pulling and out doing it more often,succesfully, then their straight,promiscious counterpart.. When a guys better groomed,funnier and can dance its a no brainer.. Wake up.. | |||
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"and the 18yrs of child support???...... just curious since you think you can get someone pregnant no strings.... I think that might be difficult to dodge. It is a fair point though, and a child deserves to be financially supported. And it's only the financial part of the support that matters?
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"All i hear is the deafening click of block buttons...... Did you hear that one
lol
It's a wonderful sound
It means I don't have to have contact with narrow-minded, judgemental people who seem to forget they are having sex with married people who are breaking their wedding vows...LOL
There is one thing id take issue with here, and that is people calling BB blockers judgemental because they have blocked you for your preferences.
Personally Ive blocked the OP (and a few others) not because i believe hes wrong for making the personal choice he as, but because I feel ive done him a favour. I wouldnt meet him because I like to play safe, so if he had have possibly liked the look of my profile enough to message me, he now doesnt have to waste his time doing so, he can spend it finding people that also enjoy BB instead.
That seems logical to me, not judgemental
You could have blocked him using the same 'logic' but without posting your decision on this or any other thread
May I enquire as to why you felt the need to share your 'block' decision with the entire world? Did you expect to be congratulated for your insight into STIs which only a few, like yourself, are privy to?"Not at all, im just merely saying its not judgemental to block anyone that doesnt match your needs for whatever reason, its a time saver, for both parties. | |||
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"All i hear is the deafening click of block buttons...... Did you hear that one
lol
It's a wonderful sound
It means I don't have to have contact with narrow-minded, judgemental people who seem to forget they are having sex with married people who are breaking their wedding vows...LOL
There is one thing id take issue with here, and that is people calling BB blockers judgemental because they have blocked you for your preferences.
Personally Ive blocked the OP (and a few others) not because i believe hes wrong for making the personal choice he as, but because I feel ive done him a favour. I wouldnt meet him because I like to play safe, so if he had have possibly liked the look of my profile enough to message me, he now doesnt have to waste his time doing so, he can spend it finding people that also enjoy BB instead.
That seems logical to me, not judgemental
You could have blocked him using the same 'logic' but without posting your decision on this or any other thread
May I enquire as to why you felt the need to share your 'block' decision with the entire world? Did you expect to be congratulated for your insight into STIs which only a few, like yourself, are privy to?
Not at all, im just merely saying its not judgemental to block anyone that doesnt match your needs for whatever reason, its a time saver, for both parties."And I agree with you on blocking people for whatever reason What I do not agree with is then making a public proclamation | |||
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