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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Newbie from the south just saying hello,

Looking to make and meets friend along this long path,

Can some tell me why are all single newbies pasted with the same brush, we are all not the same !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newbie from the south just saying hello,

Looking to make and meets friend along this long path,

Can some tell me why are all single newbies pasted with the same brush, we are all not the same !! "

With what brush are you being tarred?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey, your first thread and your whingeing that's gotta be a record

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newbie from the south just saying hello,

Looking to make and meets friend along this long path,

Can some tell me why are all single newbies pasted with the same brush, we are all not the same !! "

Pasted with the same brush?

Maybe a bit paranoid because you are married and a lot of people seem to frown on that here?

Maybe it would make it easier if you clarified whether your other half knows, or you are cheating. Let's be fair, you aren't truly single are you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's not a winge just a comment as quite 90% of the females/couples in my area don't want any contact/meet from newbies.

So have decided to set up a social meet myself, let's see what happens ? Hope to finds some new friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not a winge just a comment as quite 90% of the females/couples in my area don't want any contact/meet from newbies.

So have decided to set up a social meet myself, let's see what happens ? Hope to finds some new friends "

Did you get that figure about newbies from here, or do you think that maybe females/couples stay clear of newbies who appear to be cheating?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is freindship classed as cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is freindship classed as cheating "
this is fabswingers not fabfriends though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is freindship classed as cheating "

Is having sex with others without telling your wife classed as cheating?

That is what you are looking for, otherwise why mention your oral sex skills?

And having fun with women? Word games?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have/are setting up a social. That's a good start. You may meet some real people, get yourself verified and get up and running.

Many fems/couples on here will not meet someone who is seen as cheating, but you have done the right thing in being open about it. A far worse view is taken of cheating liars!

However, those who will meet a married guy can see you for who you are....so good luck, and welcome to fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remind us about that bit where you said that 'we are not all the same'.

What did you mean by that?

We do agree not all newbies are cheating, a lot of them are genuinely single.

Is that what you meant?

This site isn't anti-newbie, lots of newbies will agree that they got somewhere on here, and usually by being honest and showing respect to others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have/are setting up a social. That's a good start. You may meet some real people, get yourself verified and get up and running.

Many fems/couples on here will not meet someone who is seen as cheating, but you have done the right thing in being open about it. A far worse view is taken of cheating liars!

However, those who will meet a married guy can see you for who you are....so good luck, and welcome to fab!"

We agree with that fully.

At least he isn't a cheating liar.

However saying that 90% of newbies get treated badly, what is that based on after one week??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome op. By the way being married is a hot topic of fab lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome op. By the way being married is a hot topic of fab lol."

Being married is a hot topic we totally agree, but being married and cheating is even hotter.

Swinging and cheating aren't the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome op. By the way being married is a hot topic of fab lol.

Being married is a hot topic we totally agree, but being married and cheating is even hotter.

Swinging and cheating aren't the same thing."
Thats right. I gues everyone uses the site that suits them more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome aboard fella.

Nope, I can't tell you why some new folk are tarred with the same brush, but I know a lot of them take the road of asking not to be tarred with the same brush so your inadvertantly putting yourself right under the brush your trying to avoid.

Just be yourself on here dude, some will accept you, some will not as the whole married thing on here can be an opinion splitter and they'll come at you with their holier than though moral stick looking to tell you what's right and what's wrong so be prepared for that one.

That said, its a bloody good giggle on here, there's more drama than the BBC and more laughs than live at the Apollo so stick around, arm yourself, get yer chuckle muscles ready and enjoy it for what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blimey, your first thread and your whingeing that's gotta be a record"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome aboard fella.

Nope, I can't tell you why some new folk are tarred with the same brush, but I know a lot of them take the road of asking not to be tarred with the same brush so your inadvertantly putting yourself right under the brush your trying to avoid.

Just be yourself on here dude, some will accept you, some will not as the whole married thing on here can be an opinion splitter and they'll come at you with their holier than though moral stick looking to tell you what's right and what's wrong so be prepared for that one.

That said, its a bloody good giggle on here, there's more drama than the BBC and more laughs than live at the Apollo so stick around, arm yourself, get yer chuckle muscles ready and enjoy it for what it is

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It has never been about being holier than thou or about a moral stick.

It is about being honest to the person who is supposed to be closest to you and knowing what is right and wrong.

Nobody needs anyone else to tell them that.

Maybe if the roles were reversed the ones doing the cheating would see it in a different light?

We know someone that exact thing happened to and guess what? He felt totally betrayed!!

It never entered his mind about just how much and for how long he had messed about on sites like this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that went downhill pretty quickly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never get why guys who are cheating have to put themselves in the limelight by moaning.

We are not saying women don't cheat just as much, but they tend to be a little more discreet.

Cannot understand why these guys aren't discreet as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, doesn't really make much sense, I guess some guys feel more comfortable being up front with it though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think we are going to have agreed to disagree on the as it seams to be a very sore subject with some,

And also I'm off on a 12 hour night shift so will catch up tomorrow afternoon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newbie from the south just saying hello,

Looking to make and meets friend along this long path,

Can some tell me why are all single newbies pasted with the same brush, we are all not the same !! "

Welcome. .

Enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome aboard fella.

Nope, I can't tell you why some new folk are tarred with the same brush, but I know a lot of them take the road of asking not to be tarred with the same brush so your inadvertantly putting yourself right under the brush your trying to avoid.

Just be yourself on here dude, some will accept you, some will not as the whole married thing on here can be an opinion splitter and they'll come at you with their holier than though moral stick looking to tell you what's right and what's wrong so be prepared for that one.

That said, its a bloody good giggle on here, there's more drama than the BBC and more laughs than live at the Apollo so stick around, arm yourself, get yer chuckle muscles ready and enjoy it for what it is

It has never been about being holier than thou or about a moral stick.

It is about being honest to the person who is supposed to be closest to you and knowing what is right and wrong.

Nobody needs anyone else to tell them that.

Maybe if the roles were reversed the ones doing the cheating would see it in a different light?

We know someone that exact thing happened to and guess what? He felt totally betrayed!!

It never entered his mind about just how much and for how long he had messed about on sites like this!

"

Wonderful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Um anyway welcome to the site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think we are going to have agreed to disagree on the as it seams to be a very sore subject with some,

And also I'm off on a 12 hour night shift so will catch up tomorrow afternoon "

Of course we will agree to disagree.

You will go on regardless, and maybe even get some success.

Can't see what we are disagreeing on though, are you saying cheating is ok? Would it be the same if you found out your wife was cheating like this?

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