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why don't larger guys get as much attention

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am a larger guy I have been trying for ages to try and meet some one but every time I try I get turned away or put down I am still a very sexy and attractive person and wondered is any of u lady's would like to meet up I can travel and accommodat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your profile states you cannot accommodate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All in the eye of the beholder, some women like overweight men, not all do though so will take time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good to see your confident in yourself.

Unfortunately it's down to over supply on here. It's on you to stand out and if you are sexy and attractive then perhaps get yourself to a social and start making a name for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get to some social nights.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know it's in the eye of the beholder but when I say a larger chap I am not massively large just a little bit and does it say I cant accommodat I will have to change that but just wish some one or any one would take a interest in me

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By *arlock69Man
over a year ago

Batley... (near Leeds)

As a big bloke I know you've really got to stand out from the crowd and confidence is everything...just keep on trying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as us 6pack guys, its hard lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a big bloke I know you've really got to stand out from the crowd and confidence is everything...just keep on trying.

"
+ 1 .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I keep on trying and trying but with my work life it is very differcult to go to socials but I have had a few messages but no one wanting to meet me or even give me a chance all I want is a chance but when I do finally get a chance my god they r in for a surprise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your profile states you cannot accommodate"

It does now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bigger guys don't bother me but in your case, your age does, don't lose faith though

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

I can't imagine why you don't get meets.

Oh, maybe it's the remote control pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't imagine why you don't get meets.

Oh, maybe it's the remote control pic."

At least it's not a sky remote though!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

because some people don't want to shag bigger guys..., but some do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep on trying and trying but with my work life it is very differcult to go to socials but I have had a few messages but no one wanting to meet me or even give me a chance all I want is a chance but when I do finally get a chance my god they r in for a surprise "
Not doing yourself any favours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not down to size weight looks etc everyone is looking for different types the only unfortunate thing is that you fall into the "man" category so your dooooooomed lol trust me it's not just you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not down to size weight looks etc everyone is looking for different types the only unfortunate thing is that you fall into the "man" category so your dooooooomed lol trust me it's not just you "

Sadly this

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By *allen MadonnaWoman
over a year ago

In my own little world

Pity you're so far away Warlock xx

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By *arlock69Man
over a year ago

Batley... (near Leeds)


"Pity you're so far away Warlock xx"

It is a pity but if you are ever up in Yorkshire give me a shout x

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

I'm only large because every time I get a meet I treat myself to a cake...

Or is it when I don't get a meet - I get confused...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

There's a thread about ladies wanting to meet bigger men in the lounge.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford


" I am still a very sexy and attractive person a "

dont wish to be rude and im sure your lovely but thats for other people to decide ..not you

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By *olly RogererMan
over a year ago

Braintree


" I am still a very sexy and attractive person a

dont wish to be rude and im sure your lovely but thats for other people to decide ..not you"

Im not so sure it is. As a chubby chap myself i think im attractive and feel sexy. How is that any different from bigger women putting BBW on their profile? Who decides they are beautiful? Just a thought not a criticism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not down to size weight looks etc everyone is looking for different types the only unfortunate thing is that you fall into the "man" category so your dooooooomed lol trust me it's not just you "

What? Are we all doomed then? Doomed to what? Because I don't feel that way! I'm loving it and having mucho fun....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I am still a very sexy and attractive person a

dont wish to be rude and im sure your lovely but thats for other people to decide ..not you

Im not so sure it is. As a chubby chap myself i think im attractive and feel sexy. How is that any different from bigger women putting BBW on their profile? Who decides they are beautiful? Just a thought not a criticism"

Sexy and attractive you maybe but you should be aware that your sexy and attractive action photo is on several porn sites already.

thought you should know

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By *ranthamThroatMan
over a year ago

Grantham.


"I am a larger guy I have been trying for ages to try and meet some one but every time I try I get turned away or put down I am still a very sexy and attractive person and wondered is any of u lady's would like to meet up I can travel and accommodat "

This should tell you why...you aren't for everyone, although are for some..

"I am a larger guy I have been trying for ages to try and meet some one but every time I try I get turned away"

Happy swinging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby is 22stone a big lad. And my god does he tick my boxes. Hes a gentleman and confident, we are all looking for different things. Don't see it as the world against you. Just be yourself and fun will come your way. I have plus one fun with hubby, we go to chams and he has a couple of fem friends himself. So the fun is out there no matter what build you are its all in the person inside the shell. Xx

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By *intinzMan
over a year ago

sourh west

I guess I'm just lucky but my overweightness or looks have never stopped me getting a meet.

It's the fact that I'm a douchbag that's stopped me !! Ha. I've sorted all that out now though. I'm not looking to meet ! Would you believe it, 100% success rate so far.

For the rest of you, keep at it.

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