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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all new to this site not sure how to get started here but very keen. Any ladies in the same boat as me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

search forum for 'profile advice'....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should say why you can't accommodate and give some info about yourself. good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should say why you can't accommodate and give some info about yourself. good luck "

why should he say why he cant accommodate I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should say why you can't accommodate and give some info about yourself. good luck

why should he say why he cant accommodate I don't"

Just giving my opinion. he can ignore it if he wishes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should say why you can't accommodate and give some info about yourself. good luck

why should he say why he cant accommodate I don't"

He doesn't have to but most people will just assume he's married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should say why you can't accommodate and give some info about yourself. good luck

why should he say why he cant accommodate I don't"

A lot of couples,and from what I have read single ladies,make the assumption,that the so called single guy may well have a wife or girlfriend at home.

We as a couple,and many like us,are not keen to entertain guys with unknowing partners.

So,given a reason why he can't accommodate may well increase his chances of finding a playmate(s).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should say why you can't accommodate and give some info about yourself. good luck

why should he say why he cant accommodate I don't

A lot of couples,and from what I have read single ladies,make the assumption,that the so called single guy may well have a wife or girlfriend at home.

We as a couple,and many like us,are not keen to entertain guys with unknowing partners.

So,given a reason why he can't accommodate may well increase his chances of finding a playmate(s)."

Very well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard work as a single guy here.

My advice is attend parties and organized socials .

See if a local swinging or naturist club exists and go . don't worry about meeting people you know , they are there for the same thing as you , people don't end up accidentally in a swingers or naturist club , and not realize what it is

It will cost you money but more chance of meeting someone , don't be afraid to approach them in clubs . And the women or couples that go Put in a lot of effort a lot more than they would sitting on the toilet checking their fab messages .

I don't even bother messaging people any more. Sometimes I will have a look at the pictures , and have a nose round , have a look ate the forum etc etc

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Hi all new to this site not sure how to get started here but very keen. Any ladies in the same boat as me "

You would improve your chances of a meet with photos and more information in your profile. As above, do a search for similar profile improvement requests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should say why you can't accommodate and give some info about yourself. good luck

why should he say why he cant accommodate I don't"

Because the assumption will then be "married"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should say why you can't accommodate and give some info about yourself. good luck

why should he say why he cant accommodate I don't

Because the assumption will then be "married""

It would seem only men that cannot accommodate are married and women who can't aren't!! He could be in a flat share, live with parents, have kids at home or simply doesn't want strangers around his house. The difference between men and women on here and people's assumptions of them are amazing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should say why you can't accommodate and give some info about yourself. good luck

why should he say why he cant accommodate I don't

Because the assumption will then be "married"

It would seem only men that cannot accommodate are married and women who can't aren't!! He could be in a flat share, live with parents, have kids at home or simply doesn't want strangers around his house. The difference between men and women on here and people's assumptions of them are amazing!"
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I do not accommodate simply because I don't want my close neighbours, who are also my friends & were very supportive during my recent divorce, knowing what I'm up to. This part of my life "FAB" is private. So everyone has their genuine reasons. I do not think people on here should make assumptions. So I say yes the above post, Well said !!

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By *ill1948Man
over a year ago

lincoln

You get what you put in just keep looking you will get there good luck I get some meets now and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Understand people shouldnt make assumptions but the weight of evidence proves it to be correct in the main.

We dislike hotels and prefer Bev to meet guys at their own home.

We get a huge amount of mails from guys asking to meet and state they cant accomodate and to date when weve asked is it as they are married they have all said yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Understand people shouldnt make assumptions but the weight of evidence proves it to be correct in the main.

We dislike hotels and prefer Bev to meet guys at their own home.

We get a huge amount of mails from guys asking to meet and state they cant accomodate and to date when weve asked is it as they are married they have all said yes!"

Agree totally, although the guys in question wouldn't.

There is a reoccurring theme among genuine swingers that they will not help others cheat, however the cheaters do not seem to like this.

We had a single lady contact us only yesterday. She couldn't accommodate, and when we asked why it was due to having children at home. She was not offended, nor did she mind us asking.

This site is rightly called Fabswingers, not Fabcheaters and we are sure all the genuine people on here will agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up to the individual, but a short sentence to explain that you are not another cheating partner would mean that more people are attracted to your profile, therefore more chance of meeting someone.

Let's be honest you single guys out there, it is hard enough for you just taking account the ratios! Single ladies don't seem to have that problem, but we guess that is just how it is.

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By *arkedMan
over a year ago

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By *arkedMan
over a year ago

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"Understand people shouldnt make assumptions but the weight of evidence proves it to be correct in the main.

We dislike hotels and prefer Bev to meet guys at their own home.

We get a huge amount of mails from guys asking to meet and state they cant accomodate and to date when weve asked is it as they are married they have all said yes!

Agree totally, although the guys in question wouldn't.

There is a reoccurring theme among genuine swingers that they will not help others cheat, however the cheaters do not seem to like this.

We had a single lady contact us only yesterday. She couldn't accommodate, and when we asked why it was due to having children at home. She was not offended, nor did she mind us asking.

This site is rightly called Fabswingers, not Fabcheaters and we are sure all the genuine people on here will agree."

I've only been asked once and didn't mind at all, and yes it's because I'm minding my Mother. But having read this post, I'll put a line in my profile to explain why. Any advice is always appreciated, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should say why you can't accommodate and give some info about yourself. good luck

why should he say why he cant accommodate I don't

Because the assumption will then be "married"

It would seem only men that cannot accommodate are married and women who can't aren't!! He could be in a flat share, live with parents, have kids at home or simply doesn't want strangers around his house. The difference between men and women on here and people's assumptions of them are amazing!"

The VERY point I was making. Not that he US married ... But that many will assume it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor profile. No pics, no info, no effort no meets. It's a simple formula. Effort in results out. Sell yourself, be unique and stand out from the crowd. The majority of woman get bombarded with mail daily. Tailor your messages to suit the recipient, this will show you never read and understood their requirements. Avoid copy and paste messages they will catch you out. Expect nothing in return anything else is a bonus.

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