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looking for first meet its way to hard to get one any offers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi finding it very hard to get my first meet so i can get my profile verified as think that might help to get me meets so anyone got any tips or hints that might help or anyone wanna meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit like the chicken and the egg. Can't get verified without a meet. Can't get a meet if not verified?

But seriously look at your profile.

Don't mean to sound harsh but:

Your text is short, poor and sounds a bit desperate. You are not selling yourself well.

Your pics are just rather poor selfies of your cock.

You can't accommodate (most will therefore assume you are cheating/being dishonest about being single)

When you message people. IF your message is worth reading then before they reply people ALWAYS check your profile. Currently I reckon this would be an immediate delete.....

Read the many hundreds of other lists on profile advice. You will see loads backing this up. If you are attached...then think long and hard about WHY you are on here. And if you stay....be honest about it.

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By *erseyridersCouple
over a year ago

wallasey

as other person has sed ,,,,also u cud go on cam n get sum 1 there 2 verify u ,or u cud take pic of u holdin piece of paper with username n ask admin 2 photo verify u ,,go to socials, clubs,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for ur comments i have been photo verified by site already so that has been taken care of and not the best at writting profiles either as i find it hard to sell myself to strangers and laptop dont have a cam on it cheers tho

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By *erseyridersCouple
over a year ago

wallasey

u cud get a clip on cam so im told ,, but best of luk any how ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi finding it very hard to get my first meet so i can get my profile verified as think that might help to get me meets so anyone got any tips or hints that might help or anyone wanna meet "

You might find it easier if you acted in a less entitled way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi finding it very hard to get my first meet so i can get my profile verified as think that might help to get me meets so anyone got any tips or hints that might help or anyone wanna meet

You might find it easier if you acted in a less entitled way."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

not sure what u mean flicky

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By *ornybi1965Couple
over a year ago

Guildford

It puts people off, when a profile is so badly written, with no punctuation, spelling mistakes, etc. On this site, single guys far outnumber couples and single women, so your profile needs to be really good to stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not sure what u mean flicky "

I think your tone in your thread could be misinterpreted as not helping yourself.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Plus I always think putting various contact details comes across as desperate to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks for ur comments i have been photo verified by site already so that has been taken care of and not the best at writting profiles either as i find it hard to sell myself to strangers and laptop dont have a cam on it cheers tho "

There are hundreds of posts in the forums to give hints and tips on writing a good profile. You dont need to be a Dickens or a Shakespeare. Just include bits about you, what you like, what you are looking for and what you could offer at a meet with the people you are looking. Just my humble opinion. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and having cock pic as your profile pic doesnt help.

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