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"I've been to clubs before and the whole experience is so much more fun with a friend. Id love to meet a lovely lady with whom I can have a laugh and share the club experience. Playing together isn't necessary nor is it the point" Is the point to allow you in on a night that is couples only? Or maybe to get in for couples price? | |||
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"I've been to clubs before and the whole experience is so much more fun with a friend. Id love to meet a lovely lady with whom I can have a laugh and share the club experience. Playing together isn't necessary nor is it the point Is the point to allow you in on a night that is couples only? Or maybe to get in for couples price?" Every one likes a bargain  | |||
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"I've been to clubs before and the whole experience is so much more fun with a friend. Id love to meet a lovely lady with whom I can have a laugh and share the club experience. Playing together isn't necessary nor is it the point Is the point to allow you in on a night that is couples only? Or maybe to get in for couples price? Every one likes a bargain "Neither, I'd happily meet in the club. Its more to have a friend to chat with once there. Someone to share the experience with | |||
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"I've been to clubs before and the whole experience is so much more fun with a friend. Id love to meet a lovely lady with whom I can have a laugh and share the club experience. Playing together isn't necessary nor is it the point Is the point to allow you in on a night that is couples only? Or maybe to get in for couples price? Every one likes a bargain
Neither, I'd happily meet in the club. Its more to have a friend to chat with once there. Someone to share the experience with "So it could be a fella then lol  | |||
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"I've been to clubs before and the whole experience is so much more fun with a friend. Id love to meet a lovely lady with whom I can have a laugh and share the club experience. Playing together isn't necessary nor is it the point Is the point to allow you in on a night that is couples only? Or maybe to get in for couples price? Every one likes a bargain
Neither, I'd happily meet in the club. Its more to have a friend to chat with once there. Someone to share the experience with
So it could be a fella then lol"I much prefer the company of women to men. I appreciate that guys ask for this as either an easy meet or as a cheap way of getting into a club. I realise that a lot of people will be cynical about my motives however I'm looking for a friend first and foremost | |||
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"Just go by yourself! Call the club and they'll show you around. Be smiley and chatty and you'll be fine. People don't want to be responsible for others on a night out" I've been to clubs before and I know the ropes, I know the ins and outs (no pun intended) and I'm happy chatting to people. Its more the solo guy in a club stigma. I'd like to have a friend there to chat with, someone who I can chill out with and touch base with. | |||
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"Just go by yourself! Call the club and they'll show you around. Be smiley and chatty and you'll be fine. People don't want to be responsible for others on a night out I've been to clubs before and I know the ropes, I know the ins and outs (no pun intended) and I'm happy chatting to people. Its more the solo guy in a club stigma. I'd like to have a friend there to chat with, someone who I can chill out with and touch base with. " That does fall into the 'being responsible for' bit. Why do you think there's a stigma attached to single guys in a club??!! If they didn't go neither would I!! Its only guys that act like idipts that people have a problem with | |||
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"Just go by yourself! Call the club and they'll show you around. Be smiley and chatty and you'll be fine. People don't want to be responsible for others on a night out I've been to clubs before and I know the ropes, I know the ins and outs (no pun intended) and I'm happy chatting to people. Its more the solo guy in a club stigma. I'd like to have a friend there to chat with, someone who I can chill out with and touch base with. That does fall into the 'being responsible for' bit. Why do you think there's a stigma attached to single guys in a club??!! If they didn't go neither would I!! Its only guys that act like idipts that people have a problem with " That's not being responsible for that's being a friend. I think there's a stigma attached to singles in a club because there is! I'm a gentle polite respectful person who is articulate and friendly. But single guys get a 'look.' Maybe I need to try new clubs lol. I just enjoy it when I've got a friend to share it with | |||
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"Just go by yourself! Call the club and they'll show you around. Be smiley and chatty and you'll be fine. People don't want to be responsible for others on a night out I've been to clubs before and I know the ropes, I know the ins and outs (no pun intended) and I'm happy chatting to people. Its more the solo guy in a club stigma. I'd like to have a friend there to chat with, someone who I can chill out with and touch base with. That does fall into the 'being responsible for' bit. Why do you think there's a stigma attached to single guys in a club??!! If they didn't go neither would I!! Its only guys that act like idipts that people have a problem with That's not being responsible for that's being a friend. I think there's a stigma attached to singles in a club because there is! I'm a gentle polite respectful person who is articulate and friendly. But single guys get a 'look.' Maybe I need to try new clubs lol. I just enjoy it when I've got a friend to share it with" Can I ask what nights you've attended ? | |||
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"Just go by yourself! Call the club and they'll show you around. Be smiley and chatty and you'll be fine. People don't want to be responsible for others on a night out I've been to clubs before and I know the ropes, I know the ins and outs (no pun intended) and I'm happy chatting to people. Its more the solo guy in a club stigma. I'd like to have a friend there to chat with, someone who I can chill out with and touch base with. That does fall into the 'being responsible for' bit. Why do you think there's a stigma attached to single guys in a club??!! If they didn't go neither would I!! Its only guys that act like idipts that people have a problem with That's not being responsible for that's being a friend. I think there's a stigma attached to singles in a club because there is! I'm a gentle polite respectful person who is articulate and friendly. But single guys get a 'look.' Maybe I need to try new clubs lol. I just enjoy it when I've got a friend to share it with Can I ask what nights you've attended ?" So far I've just been to couple of nights at the attic | |||
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"Just go by yourself! Call the club and they'll show you around. Be smiley and chatty and you'll be fine. People don't want to be responsible for others on a night out I've been to clubs before and I know the ropes, I know the ins and outs (no pun intended) and I'm happy chatting to people. Its more the solo guy in a club stigma. I'd like to have a friend there to chat with, someone who I can chill out with and touch base with. That does fall into the 'being responsible for' bit. Why do you think there's a stigma attached to single guys in a club??!! If they didn't go neither would I!! Its only guys that act like idipts that people have a problem with That's not being responsible for that's being a friend. I think there's a stigma attached to singles in a club because there is! I'm a gentle polite respectful person who is articulate and friendly. But single guys get a 'look.' Maybe I need to try new clubs lol. I just enjoy it when I've got a friend to share it with Can I ask what nights you've attended ? So far I've just been to couple of nights at the attic" What I meant was it a mixed night with unlimited single males or limited, what I'm trying to get at perhaps try another night or another club and focus on those who are receptive to you | |||
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"Is there a specific couples night at the attic? We have never been" No, but its not about the couples per say. | |||
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"Just go by yourself! Call the club and they'll show you around. Be smiley and chatty and you'll be fine. People don't want to be responsible for others on a night out I've been to clubs before and I know the ropes, I know the ins and outs (no pun intended) and I'm happy chatting to people. Its more the solo guy in a club stigma. I'd like to have a friend there to chat with, someone who I can chill out with and touch base with. That does fall into the 'being responsible for' bit. Why do you think there's a stigma attached to single guys in a club??!! If they didn't go neither would I!! Its only guys that act like idipts that people have a problem with That's not being responsible for that's being a friend. I think there's a stigma attached to singles in a club because there is! I'm a gentle polite respectful person who is articulate and friendly. But single guys get a 'look.' Maybe I need to try new clubs lol. I just enjoy it when I've got a friend to share it with Can I ask what nights you've attended ? So far I've just been to couple of nights at the attic What I meant was it a mixed night with unlimited single males or limited, what I'm trying to get at perhaps try another night or another club and focus on those who are receptive to you" That's what I'm thinking, I'm going to try a new club in the new year but still I'm thinking making a friend to go with would be nice | |||
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"Just go by yourself! Call the club and they'll show you around. Be smiley and chatty and you'll be fine. People don't want to be responsible for others on a night out I've been to clubs before and I know the ropes, I know the ins and outs (no pun intended) and I'm happy chatting to people. Its more the solo guy in a club stigma. I'd like to have a friend there to chat with, someone who I can chill out with and touch base with. That does fall into the 'being responsible for' bit. Why do you think there's a stigma attached to single guys in a club??!! If they didn't go neither would I!! Its only guys that act like idipts that people have a problem with That's not being responsible for that's being a friend. I think there's a stigma attached to singles in a club because there is! I'm a gentle polite respectful person who is articulate and friendly. But single guys get a 'look.' Maybe I need to try new clubs lol. I just enjoy it when I've got a friend to share it with Can I ask what nights you've attended ? So far I've just been to couple of nights at the attic What I meant was it a mixed night with unlimited single males or limited, what I'm trying to get at perhaps try another night or another club and focus on those who are receptive to you That's what I'm thinking, I'm going to try a new club in the new year but still I'm thinking making a friend to go with would be nice" I think most people hoot clubs to make friends not the other was round but good luck | |||
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"I've been to clubs before and the whole experience is so much more fun with a friend. Id love to meet a lovely lady with whom I can have a laugh and share the club experience. Playing together isn't necessary nor is it the point Is the point to allow you in on a night that is couples only? Or maybe to get in for couples price? Every one likes a bargain
Neither, I'd happily meet in the club. Its more to have a friend to chat with once there. Someone to share the experience with "You can chat with anyone in clubs. Sounds a bit needy to me. Id only want to spend the whole night with established friends or people I intended playing with. | |||
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"Just go by yourself! Call the club and they'll show you around. Be smiley and chatty and you'll be fine. People don't want to be responsible for others on a night out I've been to clubs before and I know the ropes, I know the ins and outs (no pun intended) and I'm happy chatting to people. Its more the solo guy in a club stigma. I'd like to have a friend there to chat with, someone who I can chill out with and touch base with. That does fall into the 'being responsible for' bit. Why do you think there's a stigma attached to single guys in a club??!! If they didn't go neither would I!! Its only guys that act like idipts that people have a problem with That's not being responsible for that's being a friend. I think there's a stigma attached to singles in a club because there is! I'm a gentle polite respectful person who is articulate and friendly. But single guys get a 'look.' Maybe I need to try new clubs lol. I just enjoy it when I've got a friend to share it with Can I ask what nights you've attended ? So far I've just been to couple of nights at the attic" The attic is a big place.... Maybe go on a social night where its really busy, easier to talk to people then | |||
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"I've been to clubs before and the whole experience is so much more fun with a friend. Id love to meet a lovely lady with whom I can have a laugh and share the club experience. Playing together isn't necessary nor is it the point Is the point to allow you in on a night that is couples only? Or maybe to get in for couples price? Every one likes a bargain
Neither, I'd happily meet in the club. Its more to have a friend to chat with once there. Someone to share the experience with
You can chat with anyone in clubs. Sounds a bit needy to me. Id only want to spend the whole night with established friends or people I intended playing with. "If that's how it sounds to you then fair enough. All I'm saying is that I'd like to meet people to befriend. | |||
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"I've been to clubs before and the whole experience is so much more fun with a friend. Id love to meet a lovely lady with whom I can have a laugh and share the club experience. Playing together isn't necessary nor is it the point Is the point to allow you in on a night that is couples only? Or maybe to get in for couples price? Every one likes a bargain
Neither, I'd happily meet in the club. Its more to have a friend to chat with once there. Someone to share the experience with
You can chat with anyone in clubs. Sounds a bit needy to me. Id only want to spend the whole night with established friends or people I intended playing with.
If that's how it sounds to you then fair enough. All I'm saying is that I'd like to meet people to befriend. "I think the point she's trying to make is is that's what you do in clubs xx | |||
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"I've been to clubs before and the whole experience is so much more fun with a friend. Id love to meet a lovely lady with whom I can have a laugh and share the club experience. Playing together isn't necessary nor is it the point Is the point to allow you in on a night that is couples only? Or maybe to get in for couples price? Every one likes a bargain
Neither, I'd happily meet in the club. Its more to have a friend to chat with once there. Someone to share the experience with
You can chat with anyone in clubs. Sounds a bit needy to me. Id only want to spend the whole night with established friends or people I intended playing with.
If that's how it sounds to you then fair enough. All I'm saying is that I'd like to meet people to befriend.
I think the point she's trying to make is is that's what you do in clubs xx"I do get that thanks. I'll try a different club next time. Thanks for the input | |||
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"I've been talking to this guy for a couple of weeks now and he's a total gentleman, never once even bringing up sex. It was in fact my idea (as we live too far apart to meet) that he should put up a meet as I'm sure there are women who would prefer to be accompanied than to go on their own, with no expectations to play, just chat, relax and have fun. I did suggest maybe a man also and as he's bi he's not apposed to that but he right in saying two men are less likely to be approached. I personally would not go anywhere alone even down to my local, and although some are happy doing this, others aren't and I don't think he should be chastised for that. He's asked a polite question and if nobody is interested then fine, but as the old saying goes if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all." great to hear it, but has anyone said anything out of order? | |||
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"I've been talking to this guy for a couple of weeks now and he's a total gentleman, never once even bringing up sex. It was in fact my idea (as we live too far apart to meet) that he should put up a meet as I'm sure there are women who would prefer to be accompanied than to go on their own, with no expectations to play, just chat, relax and have fun. I did suggest maybe a man also and as he's bi he's not apposed to that but he right in saying two men are less likely to be approached. I personally would not go anywhere alone even down to my local, and although some are happy doing this, others aren't and I don't think he should be chastised for that. He's asked a polite question and if nobody is interested then fine, but as the old saying goes if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all." Sorry I didn't mean to offend | |||
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"I've been talking to this guy for a couple of weeks now and he's a total gentleman, never once even bringing up sex. It was in fact my idea (as we live too far apart to meet) that he should put up a meet as I'm sure there are women who would prefer to be accompanied than to go on their own, with no expectations to play, just chat, relax and have fun. I did suggest maybe a man also and as he's bi he's not apposed to that but he right in saying two men are less likely to be approached. I personally would not go anywhere alone even down to my local, and although some are happy doing this, others aren't and I don't think he should be chastised for that. He's asked a polite question and if nobody is interested then fine, but as the old saying goes if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all. great to hear it, but has anyone said anything out of order?" Reading through it yes I felt the comments were unnecessary. | |||
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"I've been talking to this guy for a couple of weeks now and he's a total gentleman, never once even bringing up sex. It was in fact my idea (as we live too far apart to meet) that he should put up a meet as I'm sure there are women who would prefer to be accompanied than to go on their own, with no expectations to play, just chat, relax and have fun. I did suggest maybe a man also and as he's bi he's not apposed to that but he right in saying two men are less likely to be approached. I personally would not go anywhere alone even down to my local, and although some are happy doing this, others aren't and I don't think he should be chastised for that. He's asked a polite question and if nobody is interested then fine, but as the old saying goes if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all. great to hear it, but has anyone said anything out of order? Reading through it yes I felt the comments were unnecessary." Why though? I didnt mean to upset your friend but I stand by what I said. I have lots of friends to meet in clubs but I didn't when I first went, I've been to clubs with men as friends and ive always felt like I've got to make sure they're OK even if they said not to because that's the kind of person I am and I'm guessing most people would be the same. I realise some people arent all that confident but there does come a time when you've just got to stop relying on others and just get on with it because otherwise you'll never do anything!! | |||
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"I've been talking to this guy for a couple of weeks now and he's a total gentleman, never once even bringing up sex. It was in fact my idea (as we live too far apart to meet) that he should put up a meet as I'm sure there are women who would prefer to be accompanied than to go on their own, with no expectations to play, just chat, relax and have fun. I did suggest maybe a man also and as he's bi he's not apposed to that but he right in saying two men are less likely to be approached. I personally would not go anywhere alone even down to my local, and although some are happy doing this, others aren't and I don't think he should be chastised for that. He's asked a polite question and if nobody is interested then fine, but as the old saying goes if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all. great to hear it, but has anyone said anything out of order? Reading through it yes I felt the comments were unnecessary." ??? read s similar thread that doesn't involve anyone you know and unbiasedly ask again if this one was harsh, all the advice, questions and banter have been given and taken in a decent adult way as far as we can see?? | |||
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"I've been talking to this guy for a couple of weeks now and he's a total gentleman, never once even bringing up sex. It was in fact my idea (as we live too far apart to meet) that he should put up a meet as I'm sure there are women who would prefer to be accompanied than to go on their own, with no expectations to play, just chat, relax and have fun. I did suggest maybe a man also and as he's bi he's not apposed to that but he right in saying two men are less likely to be approached. I personally would not go anywhere alone even down to my local, and although some are happy doing this, others aren't and I don't think he should be chastised for that. He's asked a polite question and if nobody is interested then fine, but as the old saying goes if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all. Sorry I didn't mean to offend" I don't think you were offensive at all hun, I don't know they guy he may or may not be confident, I just know he's very respectful and therefore deserves respect in return. I do like the fact that you apologized though, although not needed, its nice to know some people on here also have respect for others. Xx | |||
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