FabSwingers.com forum: 25 essex male

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey all.

Pretty new to the site thought I'd pop by and say hi.

I'm a friendly genuine guy but must admit sometimes find it hard to know how women on a nsa site would like to be approached any tips guys and girls x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice bum

Welcome. Approach women on here as you would in any situation would be my advice. Be polite, respectful and fun! All the best.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

As above!

A man's attitude to women will be evident in their approach (usually) and the women on here are no different to other women if you bear that in mind you'll be ok......unless you have a bad attitude

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice guys I suppose my confusion lies in that the site is nsa so I don't want to ask to many questions and appear clingy for want of a better word I like to chat lol I guess what your saying is just be yourself so that shouldn't be to hard

thanks people xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thanks for the advice guys I suppose my confusion lies in that the site is nsa so I don't want to ask to many questions and appear clingy for want of a better word I like to chat lol I guess what your saying is just be yourself so that shouldn't be to hard

thanks people xx"

It's a really difficult thing to balance. We were having this conversation a couple of days ago, I (f) am very friendly and chatty by nature and it can lead men to think that I'm willing to give what we call "the girlfriend experience" and I'm quite wary now because we'd hate to lead anyone on. Yes, just be yourself but if it looks like being yourself could mislead someone or cause problems, step back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo be yourself, everyone else is taken so no point being someone you're not, plenty on here pretend to be something they're not to get a shag! I think the mistake some guys make is to talk dirty or think because its an adult site where people meet for sex, they must always make references to sex and be dirty. This often back fires and can be taken the wrong way in written text. Some first messages I've had are just beyond belief. No I don't want my pussy destroyed, I don't fancy a fuck and I don't wish to be spoken to as a piece of meet! Just be polite and you'll probably get a preferable response. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol I'm sorry but that has actually made me laugh out loud as if someone asked "do you want your pussy destroyed" thanks for taking the time out to talk appreciate it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol I'm sorry but that has actually made me laugh out loud as if someone asked "do you want your pussy destroyed" thanks for taking the time out to talk appreciate it x"

I told him I'd report him to the RSPCA, they lock up people who destroy pussies!! No worries.

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By *ensualcouple99Couple
over a year ago

Colchester

Be honest about what you want and be respectful to anyone you approach unless their profile suggests they want you otherwise.

The fact that you've had three meets already means your doing something right

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