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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hope everyone's ok and having a sexy fab time. Been a member for a couple of months and, all being well, will have my first meet in a couple of weeks. Found a few timewasters already but , hey, wouldn't life be boring if everything was perfect.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

In what way was your time wasted?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In what way was your time wasted? "

People who reply to my messages, respond positively to a request for a meet and then , for reasons best known to themselves, ignore me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In what way was your time wasted?

People who reply to my messages, respond positively to a request for a meet and then , for reasons best known to themselves, ignore me. "

How has that wasted your time? On chatting they may have found that you're not for them but didn't have the confidence to say. To me, your time is only wasted when you arrange a meet, spend time getting ready and travelling for them to no show with no notice. Chatting on here with someone who suddenly stops chatting or blocks is quite common, they've just changed their mind but you'd be on here chatting anyway so not sure how your time is wasted. All the best anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I agree the time at which your time has been seriously wasted is when you've organised a meet booked the hotel ,booked the night off work ,bought your train ticket and told night before can't make it ,that's happened a few times

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I agree the time at which your time has been seriously wasted is when you've organised a meet booked the hotel ,booked the night off work ,bought your train ticket and told night before can't make it ,that's happened a few times "

Sorry to hear that. Ok, timewasters may have been the wrong word. Ignorant or rude may be more appropriate. No problem with people not replying. I appreciate most women get hundreds of messages and so simply haven't got the time to reply.

However, having struck up a conversation then a simple "sorry I've changed my mind" or "thanks but no thanks" is not to much to ask for.

Anyway, a meet has been arranged. Hopefully be a good night

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

See? It all comes goo in the end!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Goo = good, another Freudian slip - they just don't fit!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just been blocked for no apparent reason after 10 days of chatting. was even talking last night. Another timewaster !

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"just been blocked for no apparent reason after 10 days of chatting. was even talking last night. Another timewaster !"

No apparent reason to you, but she/they obviously had a reason. Thats not a tinewaster tho, you didn't get yourself ready, drive a long way, sit in a bar on your own or book a hotel! Forget it and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"just been blocked for no apparent reason after 10 days of chatting. was even talking last night. Another timewaster !

No apparent reason to you, but she/they obviously had a reason. Thats not a tinewaster tho, you didn't get yourself ready, drive a long way, sit in a bar on your own or book a hotel! Forget it and move on "

No problem with her having a reason. She may have met someone else which is fair enough. A polite message only takes a few seconds. Obviously manners is something in short supply with some people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just been blocked for no apparent reason after 10 days of chatting. was even talking last night. Another timewaster !

A polite message only takes a few seconds. Obviously manners is something in short supply with some people on here"

or some people's skins too thin......depends which side you view it from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I agree the time at which your time has been seriously wasted is when you've organised a meet booked the hotel ,booked the night off work ,bought your train ticket and told night before can't make it ,that's happened a few times "

Really? That has happened? Something wrong with your radar I think!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"just been blocked for no apparent reason after 10 days of chatting. was even talking last night. Another timewaster !

A polite message only takes a few seconds. Obviously manners is something in short supply with some people on here

or some people's skins too thin......depends which side you view it from "

I've got a thick skin mate. Just dont like rude impolite people. If that makes me a poor person then so be it. I make no apologies for that

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"just been blocked for no apparent reason after 10 days of chatting. was even talking last night. Another timewaster !

A polite message only takes a few seconds. Obviously manners is something in short supply with some people on here

or some people's skins too thin......depends which side you view it from

I've got a thick skin mate. Just dont like rude impolite people. If that makes me a poor person then so be it. I make no apologies for that "

Dont think it makes you a poor person, you just seem to dwell on it too much. Why are you wasting your time talking about someone who doesn't want to meet you? Put your energy into finding someone who does!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

not dwelling on it at all. Just replying to peoples comments on here. I've just had a very good message from someone who's taken the time to give me a bit of advice which i shall act upon.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Well you started the thread 5 days ago and you're still on about it....so it is a bit of dwelling to be honest!

Anyway, good luck and hope that your new approach works for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

you're right, i did start the thread but only replying to comments on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just been blocked for no apparent reason after 10 days of chatting. was even talking last night. Another timewaster !"

They might have got bored of just chatting and thought action was no where near.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

meet had already been arranged.

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