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By *rSteve6 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bolton and Pattaya,Thailand

I've sent loads of polite messages on here and either get the reply that I'm not their type or message is just read and deleted?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many men; too few couples and women interested in them. As a result they get overwhelmed and can't reply to all.

Posting in the forums is a good start though; get noticed and try and stand out.

Be patient and try not to seem desperate and I mean that kindly.

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By *rSteve6 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bolton and Pattaya,Thailand

Not desperate.I've met a few off here but the majority don't really seem interested!! Just playing a game???!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not desperate.I've met a few off here but the majority don't really seem interested!! Just playing a game???!!"

They're not playing a game, they're just not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not desperate.I've met a few off here but the majority don't really seem interested!! Just playing a game???!!

They're not playing a game, they're just not interested."

that seems to be difficult for some to understand so then they have to blame others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As new person myself to site i was advised to be patient. If not interested then block. Seems a lot do not want single men. Always read profile as some are a bit confusing and just be yourself when you message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your in the same boat as me then.....stick to the good old wanking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm 25 verifications!

And not happy????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to play games...my favoutite is Naked Twister x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about strip poker followed by naked twister... Sounds like a fun filled evening

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

your post and your profile dont add up .all those verifications and your complaining about not getting meets ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" your post and your profile dont add up .all those verifications and your complaining about not getting meets ??"

There's no pleasing some people is there?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a sunday morning piss take

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

If they don't fancy you, they don't fancy you....nothing to do with playing games....but, come on, 25 verifications and youre COMPLAINING??!! Get a grip! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to say I should be asking Mr Steve advice.. 25 verifications.. well done !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think it has to be..or bragging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fake veri's I reckon

We all have to play the waiting game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fake veri's I reckon

We all have to play the waiting game "

Pretty sure you can't fake that many!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He could wasily make that many fake profiles and verify himself to try and meet more women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in same boat mate I've not had a female meet yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in same boat mate I've not had a female meet yet"

Same here mate but I keep the faith lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is what it is, although you have met more than me. I'm not complaining, theres a wonderful select few who I enjoy chatting too anyways, if it goes further then that's all good, if not it's still all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He could wasily make that many fake profiles and verify himself to try and meet more women"

Seriously???!! And how would he do that? Have 25 different e-mail addresses and 25 different IP addresses as if you don't, you can't do it. You'd have to be pretty sad and have no life to do that!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It is what it is, although you have met more than me. I'm not complaining, theres a wonderful select few who I enjoy chatting too anyways, if it goes further then that's all good, if not it's still all good."

Good attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes to many men here, its a cock fest for women lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in the same boat aswell but haven't got 25 verifications!!

Can I just throw something out there?? When people say please don't contact us with 'hi how are you?? ' or something like that??

Be imagative etc??? How can you greet someone politely with out that basis?? Or am I a unimaginative twat?? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in the same boat aswell but haven't got 25 verifications!!

Can I just throw something out there?? When people say please don't contact us with 'hi how are you?? ' or something like that??

Be imagative etc??? How can you greet someone politely with out that basis?? Or am I a unimaginative twat?? Lol "

lol I'm sure you're not but you need to add something with the Hi how are you, like Read your profile and I see that you.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in the same boat aswell but haven't got 25 verifications!!

Can I just throw something out there?? When people say please don't contact us with 'hi how are you?? ' or something like that??

Be imagative etc??? How can you greet someone politely with out that basis?? Or am I a unimaginative twat?? Lol

lol I'm sure you're not but you need to add something with the Hi how are you, like Read your profile and I see that you....... "
lol my fun line is, hi nice profile and pics, would like to give you a good seeing to this week, how does your schedule look like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He could wasily make that many fake profiles and verify himself to try and meet more women"

Bull

I have met one of the women that has verified him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in the same boat aswell but haven't got 25 verifications!!

Can I just throw something out there?? When people say please don't contact us with 'hi how are you?? ' or something like that??

Be imagative etc??? How can you greet someone politely with out that basis?? Or am I a unimaginative twat?? Lol

lol I'm sure you're not but you need to add something with the Hi how are you, like Read your profile and I see that you....... lol my fun line is, hi nice profile and pics, would like to give you a good seeing to this week, how does your schedule look like? "

lol behave yourself ST

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in the same boat aswell but haven't got 25 verifications!!

Can I just throw something out there?? When people say please don't contact us with 'hi how are you?? ' or something like that??

Be imagative etc??? How can you greet someone politely with out that basis?? Or am I a unimaginative twat?? Lol

lol I'm sure you're not but you need to add something with the Hi how are you, like Read your profile and I see that you....... lol my fun line is, hi nice profile and pics, would like to give you a good seeing to this week, how does your schedule look like?

lol behave yourself ST"
lol I know, wonder tho how many might copy and paste it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in the same boat aswell but haven't got 25 verifications!!

Can I just throw something out there?? When people say please don't contact us with 'hi how are you?? ' or something like that??

Be imagative etc??? How can you greet someone politely with out that basis?? Or am I a unimaginative twat?? Lol

lol I'm sure you're not but you need to add something with the Hi how are you, like Read your profile and I see that you....... lol my fun line is, hi nice profile and pics, would like to give you a good seeing to this week, how does your schedule look like?

lol behave yourself STlol I know, wonder tho how many might copy and paste it "

ha ha too many probably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in the same boat aswell but haven't got 25 verifications!!

Can I just throw something out there?? When people say please don't contact us with 'hi how are you?? ' or something like that??

Be imagative etc??? How can you greet someone politely with out that basis?? Or am I a unimaginative twat?? Lol

lol I'm sure you're not but you need to add something with the Hi how are you, like Read your profile and I see that you....... lol my fun line is, hi nice profile and pics, would like to give you a good seeing to this week, how does your schedule look like?

lol behave yourself STlol I know, wonder tho how many might copy and paste it

ha ha too many probably "
Yes think so to, as my favourite quote from Skype groups I am in..... "Copy and paste is, life" lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks legs x I'm am usually pretty good with setting my message out but doesn't seem to cut any ice ? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you're doing alright. I meet a couple of people over and over again and occasionally send messages if someone catches my attention. As with most of us guys, 99% of the messages I send end up in the bin. Admittedly, I'm shit at taking selfies, so they don't always get how damn handsome I am. I pity the people that don't meet me as I worry that they're not getting fucked properly.

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By *rSteve6 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bolton and Pattaya,Thailand

Thanks for all the feedback. Just wondered about other peoples feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is what it is, although you have met more than me. I'm not complaining, theres a wonderful select few who I enjoy chatting too anyways, if it goes further then that's all good, if not it's still all good."

aw x well said x hope youre having fun x

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"Not desperate.I've met a few off here but the majority don't really seem interested!! Just playing a game???!!"

Of course the majority of people aren't interested in you. It would be fucking ridiculous if almost everyone i.e. the majority wanted to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He could wasily make that many fake profiles and verify himself to try and meet more women"

Most are from clubs. Gangbangs etc. So easy to get 25 veri's like that. One on one meets are the once in a blue moon meet on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most are from clubs. Gangbangs "

Possibly the reason no one wants to meet him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is what it is, although you have met more than me. I'm not complaining, theres a wonderful select few who I enjoy chatting too anyways, if it goes further then that's all good, if not it's still all good.

aw x well said x hope youre having fun x "

ye I'm enjoying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reason most men complains its fake is cos he got more them them lol and are jelous.

And as well if it was a woman with so many veris they wouldn't say they were not fake ones.. single men thing again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This title needs to be banned lol

Her

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By *uicylucy76Woman
over a year ago

thornton cleveleys

I'm guessing nearly all your veris like writing " gb" ?... Just an observation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He could wasily make that many fake profiles and verify himself to try and meet more women

Most are from clubs. Gangbangs etc. So easy to get 25 veri's like that. One on one meets are the once in a blue moon meet on here "

Generalising much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He could wasily make that many fake profiles and verify himself to try and meet more women

Most are from clubs. Gangbangs etc. So easy to get 25 veri's like that. One on one meets are the once in a blue moon meet on here

Generalising much?"

Not really. The veri's comfirm the above

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