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verified at last!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To all you fab FABS members...at last verification. Maybe my luck will change now.

I look forward to maikng contact!!!!!

Anyone interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to me this is one of probs with fab.....verifications should be graded....i mean by webcam??

jason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to me this is one of probs with fab.....verifications should be graded....i mean by webcam??

jason"

You can see it's by webcam. If you don't hold much store by them then that's for you to judge.

Have fun Niall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my point is by seeing a person on webcam does that verify that they turn up for meets,are not just pic collectors etc?

nothing against niall but i just feel that being veified on webcam or phone is not a true verification.but hey its only an opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my point is by seeing a person on webcam does that verify that they turn up for meets,are not just pic collectors etc?

nothing against niall but i just feel that being veified on webcam or phone is not a true verification.but hey its only an opinion"

I agree, a web cam verification is a good start but this site is littered with 'dubious' profiles with web cam verifications, but good luck to you mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK I ve been on this site for around 3 months...NOTHING!!!! Verification by pic could be anyone.....you don't need to show your face......one to one on web cam means you see the person..Some people only get verified after they have a meet.

Very difficult for guys on here...So what is a true verification? A meet!!!!!!!

I m happy at last someone verified me especially as I m attached....and require discretion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK I ve been on this site for around 3 months...NOTHING!!!! Verification by pic could be anyone.....you don't need to show your face......one to one on web cam means you see the person..Some people only get verified after they have a meet.

Very difficult for guys on here...So what is a true verification? A meet!!!!!!!

I m happy at last someone verified me especially as I m attached....and require discretion

"

If you are attached why dont you mention it on your profile?

Also,what does a verifacation have to do with discretion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

verification by webcam proves u have a webcam that works....by photo proves u have a camera that works.

the only verification that we take any notice of is by meeting.and before the single(or married) guys say its hard on here they could easily go to a social etc and get a verification from meeting in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP.. You say you dont need to show your face,thats probably where you are going wrong! Of course people want to see a face pic,ther are not many people on here who do blind swing dates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont think ppl should be able 2 be

verifyed by webcam or fone..anybody

can go on cam or chat on a fone i agree

with janda1 on this 1 xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont think ppl should be able 2 be

verifyed by webcam or fone..anybody

can go on cam or chat on a fone i agree

with janda1 on this 1 xx"

Us too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the verification system is just fine. If you don't hold much store in photo/cam/phone veris then that's your perogative, just ignore and move on.

Others may choose to think that the photo/cam/phone verifications are just fine and a good start.

The poor op only posted as he was so pleased to have been verified and hoping that someone out there might believe that he's worthy of a meet.

No need to shoot the guy down in flames. Everybody has to start somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

soz wasnt aware i was shooting him

down in flames..ppl put up posts

an ppl have they'll say..thats wat i

was doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To us Webcam and Phone verifications are worthless, we say as such on our profile! The only true verifcation is a meeting, and then more than one is generally our rule.

Dont assume we are anti Single Guys, as we have met about a Dozen off Fab so we do our bit for you guys ! lol

However, experience and let downs has made us selective and sceptical until proven wrong!

And as for being attached...OP put it on ur profile! Some cpls prefer att guys!

D&J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my point is by seeing a person on webcam does that verify that they turn up for meets,are not just pic collectors etc?

nothing against niall but i just feel that being veified on webcam or phone is not a true verification.but hey its only an opinion"

A verification isnt supposed to say they will turn up for meets.

Just because someone turns up for the first meet doesn't mean they will for a second or subsequent meets.

The verification is simply supporting that if the profile is of a 20 year old blonde boy that that is what you saw on cam ...

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Well we all have to start somewhere, and I will be honest speaking as a single female who has been let down in the past herself (not by a newbie may I add!!), I will not meet a newbie unless verifed, so I do know where the OP is coming from.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

honesty is the best policy.anyone can put a false pic up on their profile we have all seen them

if your attached,,,say your attached that way no one is getn mislead and cant come back with oh,,,you never said???

i know its hard for single guys to get meets no matter where your from but as my hubby did say,,,get to a social or even just out 1 night for a drink to say,,hey look this is me

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have met verified, non verified newbies ect, we do like to see feedback but we normally judge by our own instict. we tend to think the verified by cam or phone is more to verify a female present in couples and single female profiles. Good luck to the op on fab, and we agree its best to be honest on profile if attached as some mind and some dont but it saves wasting others time and yours by making other members aware before hand.

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"soz wasnt aware i was shooting him

down in flames..ppl put up posts

an ppl have they'll say..thats wat i

was doing "

You can shoot me down any day...as for flames, even better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"soz wasnt aware i was shooting him

down in flames..ppl put up posts

an ppl have they'll say..thats wat i

was doing

You can shoot me down any day...as for flames, even better "

What a lovely ass

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"soz wasnt aware i was shooting him

down in flames..ppl put up posts

an ppl have they'll say..thats wat i

was doing

You can shoot me down any day...as for flames, even better

What a lovely ass"

Have seen yours, would love to grab it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my point is by seeing a person on webcam does that verify that they turn up for meets,are not just pic collectors etc?

nothing against niall but i just feel that being veified on webcam or phone is not a true verification.but hey its only an opinion"

i have to agree to be honest unless your a woman i cant see the point in web cam and phone verifications, to me all they are good for is for people to say, seen this woman shes not a man pretending lol i mean noone pretends to be a single guys who why do they need verifying by cam?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to web cam veri's on my profile just to show I'm not really a 25stone truck driver called Trevor lol but hav'nt met anyone yet because I've only been here a week but I would'nt meet anyone who didn't have veri's from meet's as they prove the person is genuine and not some axe weilding maniac lol but do understand how hard it must be for some new men without meet veri's on there profile.

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By *hattyman80Man
over a year ago

stockport

I was verified on cam and phone but I didn't consider myself verified until I had my first meet. I prefer meeting in person verifications personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why dont you get your wife to verify you, sure weve met her from here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my point is by seeing a person on webcam does that verify that they turn up for meets,are not just pic collectors etc?

nothing against niall but i just feel that being veified on webcam or phone is not a true verification.but hey its only an opinion

A verification isnt supposed to say they will turn up for meets.

Just because someone turns up for the first meet doesn't mean they will for a second or subsequent meets.

The verification is simply supporting that if the profile is of a 20 year old blonde boy that that is what you saw on cam ... "

You may think like that but to most people I bet that a verification means a lot more when it says "turned up and was the person they say they are".

Which is why so few people put faith in nonmeet verifications and, I say, rightly so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day (about Midnight) each person has to decide for themselves wether to treat any verification as valid or not.

For us Webcam or Phone verifications mean nothing, but to others they do and that's how it works.

Nobody forces you to meet anyone, if you do it is your choice, so the verification system is for you to use or ignore as you wish.

Personally speaking a "meeting in person" verification that simply says, "met them had great sex all night, fantastic tits and lovely cock" is no better than a cam or phone verification.

We like to read that a person is genuine ie like thier pictures, honest, good to spend time with socially, not pushy, doesn't smell etc.

I don't care if you had great sex with them that doesn't guarantee the sex will be as good for us as we all have different likes and dislikes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol @ dosnt smell ...hahahah

brilliant lol

auds xx

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By *ickens CiderMan
over a year ago

taunton


"I have to web cam veri's on my profile just to show I'm not really a 25stone truck driver called Trevor lol but hav'nt met anyone yet because I've only been here a week but I would'nt meet anyone who didn't have veri's from meet's as they prove the person is genuine and not some axe weilding maniac lol but do understand how hard it must be for some new men without meet veri's on there profile. "

Hello Trevor! Your axe looks so big & sharp! lol

Nice to find you in the forums Roxy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Personally speaking a "meeting in person" verification that simply says, "met them had great sex all night, fantastic tits and lovely cock" is no better than a cam or phone verification.

"

But surely, despite saying "nothing" really, it at least shows that the person is a)who they say they are and b) turns up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to web cam veri's on my profile just to show I'm not really a 25stone truck driver called Trevor lol but hav'nt met anyone yet because I've only been here a week but I would'nt meet anyone who didn't have veri's from meet's as they prove the person is genuine and not some axe weilding maniac lol but do understand how hard it must be for some new men without meet veri's on there profile. "

But with all due respect you have no meet verification so how can you say you wouldnt meet a none verified person? we all start on here as newbies with no verification and everyone has to have their first meet, you included

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to say even though im a newbie i,ve now been verified by my 1st

meet !!!Cant wait to get more !!!

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