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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good evening everybody.

I'm a single guy, new to the site and would really appreciate a little help.

Being a new member, this is the first post I've been permitted to add, but I've been reading the forums to try to get a feel for it and have noticed a familiar topic crop up of single guys getting a bit of a hard time. I completely understand that this is a swingers site and that it's probably not the ideal place for somebody like myself to consider being a member, but like my profile mentions, I've never been involved in swinging before and the thought of it fascinates me, so now that I'm single (have been for 6 months) it's the perfect opportunity for me to (hopefully) realise that fascination.

For the small amount of time that I HAVE been one here, most people appear to be honest and up front, so I feel it's worth spending some time to see if I can be lucky enough to eventually meet some of you.

I guess what I'm really hoping for is if anyone can spare a bit of time to have a read through my profile and give me a bit of feedback, good or bad, I'd really appreciate it.

There may be a long road ahead of me before I do eventually get to meet people, but patience is a virtue as they say, and to coin yet another phrase, nothing ventured....

Hope to hear from you soon!

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

the singleton be it male or female is always going to find it hard on the swing scene, as it by it's very nature it is predominately a couple's thing.

there are three key things to bare in mind at all time, politeness, respect and honesty, coupled with a good sense of humour, for the male on here it's a good idea not to appear pushy, hard nosed, or arrogant.

the best way to set out in this lifestyle is to attend any social event you can or to go to the club's and post in the forums, that way people can get to know you get a feel for who you are and what your like, there have been some good posts in the forums on the single male and swinging and I'm sure that someone will point you to them eventually.

Remember to read profiles fully, and when contacting people make it apparent that you have at least read their profile by mentioning some of the things contained within their profile.

Otherwise have fun enjoy and stay patient like they say " all good things will come to those who wait"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same you are so far away, im sure i could help

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Aw, thanks Greykitten that's lovely of you to say that. xx

And Touvak, thanks for the sound advice, it's very much appreciated.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Good profile - you don't need any more 'advice' - I'll sure you'll have a lot of fun! Z

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Good profile - you don't need any more 'advice' - I'll sure you'll have a lot of fun! Z"

I agree with Z. Nice to see a decent profile and Im sure youll have some fun out there.

Enjoy.

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

i want to steal his profile lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wanted to say thanks to everyone for their kind words of encouragement, I'm enjoying this site already!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, good profile and nice introductory email.

Stay in the forums and you will do ok. Try to get along to the Fab socials.

Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Jack, I'll look into the Fab socials, it's all new to me so I have much to learn! Exciting stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi,

Feck with a profile like that (what an introduction) I have no doubt you'll be popular.

Welcome, you've made a great step by posting here.

Welcome.

Paddy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the warm welcome and positive comments Paddy.

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By *lackboaWoman
over a year ago

greenock

forget nicking his profile.......I want to nick HIM

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm flattered Blackboa

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I agree, good profile. Maybe get some torso pics on in a nice pair of pants. Not sure if you already have that in your private gallery as yet.

Aside from that your profile would be the one to reply to.

Remember to ALWAYS read a profile before mailing the person and see if you are what they are looking for or not.

If it states they only meet under 40s then maybe best not too. Or if they have a keyword in their profile, make sure you have read it.

Good luck tho x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Fruit, good advice.

I don't have any torso shots in my gallery as yet, maybe I should get a few up there!

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By *-nackMan
over a year ago

birmingham

I have to agree. Very nice open profile, offers much more than "Hi Im ... tall, dark blah blah blah..."

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By *-nackMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"i want to steal his profile lol "

I meant to quote. I'm new here too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the singleton be it male or female is always going to find it hard on the swing scene, as it by it's very nature it is predominately a couple's thing.

there are three key things to bare in mind at all time, politeness, respect and honesty, coupled with a good sense of humour, for the male on here it's a good idea not to appear pushy, hard nosed, or arrogant.

the best way to set out in this lifestyle is to attend any social event you can or to go to the club's and post in the forums, that way people can get to know you get a feel for who you are and what your like, there have been some good posts in the forums on the single male and swinging and I'm sure that someone will point you to them eventually.

Remember to read profiles fully, and when contacting people make it apparent that you have at least read their profile by mentioning some of the things contained within their profile.

Otherwise have fun enjoy and stay patient like they say " all good things will come to those who wait"

"

A single female finds it difficult ? I got to hear the rest of that ..... you sure ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the singleton be it male or female is always going to find it hard on the swing scene, as it by it's very nature it is predominately a couple's thing.

there are three key things to bare in mind at all time, politeness, respect and honesty, coupled with a good sense of humour, for the male on here it's a good idea not to appear pushy, hard nosed, or arrogant.

the best way to set out in this lifestyle is to attend any social event you can or to go to the club's and post in the forums, that way people can get to know you get a feel for who you are and what your like, there have been some good posts in the forums on the single male and swinging and I'm sure that someone will point you to them eventually.

Remember to read profiles fully, and when contacting people make it apparent that you have at least read their profile by mentioning some of the things contained within their profile.

Otherwise have fun enjoy and stay patient like they say " all good things will come to those who wait"

A single female finds it difficult ? I got to hear the rest of that ..... you sure ?"

PMSL!!! Exactly what I thought when I read that Granny!

If I had the time and inclination I could meet three times a day, every day and I'm an acquired taste!

To the OP, loved the profile, well written, amusing and just the right tone: you don't need to change a thing.

Excellent first post too: not a whine in sight!

I'm sure the ladies will soon seek you out: hold onto your boots and good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Aw thank you Sassymissuk, that's very kind of you.

This is SUCH a cool website, everyone has been so kind and welcoming to me, I'm actually a bit overawed and humbled to be honest, I really didn't expect this kind of reaction, what a cool bunch of people you are.

Respect x

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Aw thank you Sassymissuk, that's very kind of you.

This is SUCH a cool website, everyone has been so kind and welcoming to me, I'm actually a bit overawed and humbled to be honest, I really didn't expect this kind of reaction, what a cool bunch of people you are.

Respect x"

lol - not everyone agrees with you about us lot! Have a toot about! Z

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah fair point, I'm sure there'll be quite a few who'll second that, that's the way things go these days, I'm just going by what I've experienced so far, which has been fantastic! Even if I don't get to meet anyone, it's been a pleasure just chatting to those who have responded to me.

What's the saying? You only get out what you put in (quite an apt phrase in fact!) and I wouldn't mind betting those that give negative feedback haven't given enough effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi we new to forum too have read a few of the categories quite a lively an witty bunch he he sure we slip in cheers rab an val xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good evening everybody.

I'm a single guy, new to the site and would really appreciate a little help.

Being a new member, this is the first post I've been permitted to add, but I've been reading the forums to try to get a feel for it and have noticed a familiar topic crop up of single guys getting a bit of a hard time. I completely understand that this is a swingers site and that it's probably not the ideal place for somebody like myself to consider being a member, but like my profile mentions, I've never been involved in swinging before and the thought of it fascinates me, so now that I'm single (have been for 6 months) it's the perfect opportunity for me to (hopefully) realise that fascination.

For the small amount of time that I HAVE been one here, most people appear to be honest and up front, so I feel it's worth spending some time to see if I can be lucky enough to eventually meet some of you.

I guess what I'm really hoping for is if anyone can spare a bit of time to have a read through my profile and give me a bit of feedback, good or bad, I'd really appreciate it.

There may be a long road ahead of me before I do eventually get to meet people, but patience is a virtue as they say, and to coin yet another phrase, nothing ventured....

Hope to hear from you soon!"

I agree with what alot of others have said. Your profile is perfect. It tells us about you and also what you're looking for.

Also loving your banter on the forum and not to mention what's been happening since we 'got a room' as we were politely told a few days ago LOL.

To coin another phrase.... make hay while the sun shines!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good evening everybody.

I'm a single guy, new to the site and would really appreciate a little help.

Being a new member, this is the first post I've been permitted to add, but I've been reading the forums to try to get a feel for it and have noticed a familiar topic crop up of single guys getting a bit of a hard time. I completely understand that this is a swingers site and that it's probably not the ideal place for somebody like myself to consider being a member, but like my profile mentions, I've never been involved in swinging before and the thought of it fascinates me, so now that I'm single (have been for 6 months) it's the perfect opportunity for me to (hopefully) realise that fascination.

For the small amount of time that I HAVE been one here, most people appear to be honest and up front, so I feel it's worth spending some time to see if I can be lucky enough to eventually meet some of you.

I guess what I'm really hoping for is if anyone can spare a bit of time to have a read through my profile and give me a bit of feedback, good or bad, I'd really appreciate it.

There may be a long road ahead of me before I do eventually get to meet people, but patience is a virtue as they say, and to coin yet another phrase, nothing ventured....

Hope to hear from you soon!

I agree with what alot of others have said. Your profile is perfect. It tells us about you and also what you're looking for.

Also loving your banter on the forum and not to mention what's been happening since we 'got a room' as we were politely told a few days ago LOL.

To coin another phrase.... make hay while the sun shines!! "

Why thank you Devil's Angel, may I say that the room we got has been soooo much fun and that fridge with the 'bear' in it? ... completely unexpected!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with what alot of others have said. Your profile is perfect. It tells us about you and also what you're looking for.

Also loving your banter on the forum and not to mention what's been happening since we 'got a room' as we were politely told a few days ago LOL.

To coin another phrase.... make hay while the sun shines!!

Why thank you Devil's Angel, may I say that the room we got has been soooo much fun and that fridge with the 'bear' in it? ... completely unexpected! "

well, personally, i think you've just been watching too many fish finger adverts. Do you have added omega 3 too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For what its worth we think you've cracked it. Just keep doing what your doing. We've found the peeps on FAB to be warm kind and welcoming too. We think you'll be just fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For what its worth we think you've cracked it. Just keep doing what your doing. We've found the peeps on FAB to be warm kind and welcoming too. We think you'll be just fine. "

Aw thanks, thats really nice of you to say so.

Have fun guys

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