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By *umtofuck OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Was wondering if there are any fems or cpls in my area looking for a dom .

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

You may struggle on here.

I'd never trust a casual meet to be a Dom, its earned and built up over time.

There are perhaps more suitable sites to search for the fet side of life

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By *umtofuck OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"You may struggle on here.

I'd never trust a casual meet to be a Dom, its earned and built up over time.

There are perhaps more suitable sites to search for the fet side of life

"

Point taken but i was thinking along the lines of meeting and building the trust factor up. But well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You may struggle on here.

I'd never trust a casual meet to be a Dom, its earned and built up over time.

There are perhaps more suitable sites to search for the fet side of life

"

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You may struggle on here.

I'd never trust a casual meet to be a Dom, its earned and built up over time.

There are perhaps more suitable sites to search for the fet side of life

Agreed "

Completely agree, although some "dom"men aassume they can play that way on a first meet and don't like the idea of waiting, or seem to understand amber and red phrases.

Hmmph

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You may struggle on here.

I'd never trust a casual meet to be a Dom, its earned and built up over time.

There are perhaps more suitable sites to search for the fet side of life

Agreed

Completely agree, although some "dom"men aassume they can play that way on a first meet and don't like the idea of waiting, or seem to understand amber and red phrases.

Hmmph"

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"You may struggle on here.

I'd never trust a casual meet to be a Dom, its earned and built up over time.

There are perhaps more suitable sites to search for the fet side of life

Agreed

Completely agree, although some "dom"men aassume they can play that way on a first meet and don't like the idea of waiting, or seem to understand amber and red phrases.

Hmmph"

Some dom men are just bullies, and have a sadistic twist which is fine if you trust and have worked out the boundaries in advance. Any guy tries that with me on a fab meet is likely to find himself without a playmate. I don't sub to anyone I do not trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All what's been said above and to add, just from this lowly subs opinion

If I was looking for a dom, your name would put me off straight away

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By *umtofuck OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"All what's been said above and to add, just from this lowly subs opinion

If I was looking for a dom, your name would put me off straight away "

Ok thanks for the feedback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with what the ladies have said you have to earn that right to sub the perfect lady

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By *nttake2Couple
over a year ago

South

Me thinks too many folk read "that book" and then they are Dom, sub etc. Leave Ds and bdsm to those who get it, and did it before it was cool. Free advice go to a munch and talk about it. Enter the dungeons at your peril

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes get to some munches,

Its not much easier finding good doms/M

Online has some advantages, also many disadvantages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes that bloody book it's not like that and when that film comes out oh dear turkey it will be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes that bloody book it's not like that and when that film comes out oh dear turkey it will be"

That book has caused so many problems! So many people think being dom is just rough sex/spanking hence why a lot of the time people who say they are dom can often put off those who may be sub/interested in exploring that side of things - well in my opinion anyway.

Dom/Sub is to be built up over time, trust is the main factor, as without it, how can you push boundaries etc.

That said, the dom/sub relationship if between 2 people that click that way can be a wonderful thing. having had similar relationships in the past i can vouch for just how satisfying they can be, but they are also rare.

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By *umtofuck OP   Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Again thanks for all your comments. But i do have some experience so not a novice.

Anyway topic closed and thanks again.

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