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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, I recently found someone on here who I work with on this site (albeit she hasn't logged in for a few months) and this got me thinking of what I should do, so I have taken the plunge and messaged her on here hoping she cones back on.

This got me thinking, whilst you have been browsing profiles have you found someone you know or started chatting to people only to find out you know them.

If so what did you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you send a face pic, will she know who you are? I'd be mortified if someone from work messaged me on here. I've seen a few people I know on here over the years, I block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

work & fabs is a massive no go for me ~ I'd freak out 1st & then block them if a colleague messaged me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have blocked her and not messaged her! Work is work and fun is fun, they should be kept separate. However, if she hasn't logged on for a few months, chances are she's not using the site anymore so you'll have a long wait for a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think personally, I would worry if someone from work messaged me as, I feel, it's still very much a world where, it's ok for the guys to be on here saying they have a high sex drive etc, but, us women don't always get treated fair when we say the same unfortunately x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have left that one well alone! Imagine how it would make her feel ???????

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By *arteeneWoman
over a year ago

aylesbury


"I think personally, I would worry if someone from work messaged me as, I feel, it's still very much a world where, it's ok for the guys to be on here saying they have a high sex drive etc, but, us women don't always get treated fair when we say the same unfortunately x

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I surpose I am lucky as the chances of been spotted are I would say very low if I spotted anyone I know I would 100% not say anything to them it is unfair too ,as what they do on this or any other site should say on the site because all you will do is make them feel uneasy xx

And that is not fair xxx

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I would have blocked her and not messaged her! Work is work and fun is fun, they should be kept separate. However, if she hasn't logged on for a few months, chances are she's not using the site anymore so you'll have a long wait for a reply."

One of the Golden rules.......NEVER fuck the payroll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why couldn't you just ask her out for a drink at work?

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By *uds1Couple
over a year ago

lanark

we did,a local guy who drinks in one off the pubs we go 2,was a laugh,ended up having a 3some with him

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By *enuineAndyMan
over a year ago

Aroundabouts

Was checking my "looked at me" list and saw that a couple had looked at my profile. Took a look at theirs and recognised the wife as being someone that I know from work. They had actually left the day before but I still would not contact them. Don't want everyone at work knowing what I get up to So glad my face pic is private!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would die if someone from work messaged me.... But yesterday found out my sister hubby to be is on here... NOT GOOD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah..I got chatting to a bloke on here only to find out it was my neighbour lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was me you messaged id be mortified my private life us just that private! and i dont get involved with anyone from work in a sexual way tge old saying of dont shit wgere you eat comes to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recognise a couple on here! They are family friends, only looking for couples though!! She does have great tits!!

I also recognise a couple of guys, both looking for girls too, we all serve and work on the same base!! I haven't mentioned it to them but reading the profiles makes me smile as I know the true stories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would die if someone from work messaged me.... But yesterday found out my sister hubby to be is on here... NOT GOOD"

Now that is an awkward one

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By *girljaneTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Quite a few years ago I did some temporary taxi driving.. anyway. I'd met this guy on another site and went round to his one evening... he got me wearing his wife's lingerie etc etc.. So a few weeks later whilst driving the mini cab I picked up this very lovely lady and we chatted all the way to her home and only when I watched in disbelief as she walked into the very same house did I realise I had been wearing her panties only a few days before!! She tipped well and I felt awful.

The moral of the story is don't cheat on your partner and make other people feel bad!

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By *ickomxxxMan
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

Just a friendly comment--Do not fish off the company pier--it always comes back and bites you! I know from experience!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Help" in the wales forum. A young lady got a msg off her future brother in law. Dont dump on your own doorstep people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never and would dread to find someone from work on here. But I have found a few I would love to get to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that would be such a turn on for us lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Help" in the wales forum. A young lady got a msg off her future brother in law. Dont dump on your own doorstep people"

Yes me ... I think she should know.. But I'm not telling her gonna tell him a friend told me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does your mother in law count ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why couldn't you just ask her out for a drink at work? "

This, should treat her as you know her in real world, so to speak.

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

First person to view our profile was a client id worked for the day before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met and played with my butcher ... good meat all round ...lol

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By *uds1Couple
over a year ago

lanark

well it was fun

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