FabSwingers.com forum: An introduction and a couple of questions

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thought I'd drop a message here to introduce myself. From North of the border originally, professional and university educated, athletic when time allows! Recently single after a long term relationship and although my profile is old, I haven't actually used it until now. I do know someone who uses the site but not in my neck of the woods. Looks like trying to get to a meet is the best way to get fully verified (already photo verified) and hopefully provide reassurance to single women, I am who I say I am. This seems like it may be easier in London than elsewhere in the country.

However I've got a couple of question: I've put face pics in my friends only section but I'd prefer not to have any at all in the interests of discretion, is that a daft move? Secondly any advice or feedback on the profile (good or bad) much appreciated. Ta!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile reads quite well and shows you've made an effort but personally, I'd lose the warning bit at the end, its pointless. As to face pics, I can't understand why anyone would not have any on here to at least send privately as for me, I wouldn't give personal contact details away to someone I'd not agreed to meet just to see a face pic. Finally, get yourself to some social meets, look in the meets and events section, there's usually a fair few organised ones to attend and get verified. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks pretty decent. Agree with flame but would add one thing.

You don't accommodate.... May need to make it clear why not?

Some people assume (sometimes right sometimes wrongly) that that means a married/attached guy playing away.....

Probably not the case for you but may help if you explain.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies, you're probably right about the warning just seemed a pretty popular addendum looking at other profiles! I'll also add why not accommodating, so tricky to put yourself on the other side of the profile sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks pretty decent. Agree with flame but would add one thing.

You don't accommodate.... May need to make it clear why not?

Some people assume (sometimes right sometimes wrongly) that that means a married/attached guy playing away.....

Probably not the case for you but may help if you explain.

Good luck"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave face pictures as private as personally i wouldn't meet anyone without seeing what they look like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your profile, it's well written and shows personslity. I also like that you've listened to advice.

But in all honesty I would read ypur profile and think you were cheating. The combination of how long you've been on here, the fact that you admit you were on here while in your last relationship, the reason for nit accomodating and the need to hide face pics simply sets too many alarm bells ringing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah it's a good point and one I've certainly thought about. Not sure how to overcome that without starting all over again? But then maybe that's the best solution?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah it's a good point and one I've certainly thought about. Not sure how to overcome that without starting all over again? But then maybe that's the best solution?"

Maybe consider rewriting your profile and starting from scratch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah it's a good point and one I've certainly thought about. Not sure how to overcome that without starting all over again? But then maybe that's the best solution?

Maybe consider rewriting your profile and starting from scratch"

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