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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi,

I am having problems trying to work out how I am going to get verified.

I cannot go to swingers clubs out of fear.

I am shy and need to gently break out of it.

Any experienced helpers out there to show me the ropes and guide me in the right direction.

Thanks,

Sam

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By *erseyridersCouple
over a year ago

wallasey

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Even just a coffee with someone....

Don't have to rate you between the sheets, just that you're genuine...

Good luck

Ruby x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on webcam with your cam and mic working and you can be verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, on a side note. GENUINE.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

You've met people.

Can you not ask one of them?

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've met people.

Can you not ask one of them?

A"

I'm always very suspicious of profiles that say I am sooooo genuine and then go on to say they've met people but have no veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says you are part of the swinging scene and you have met some nice people. Ask them for veris if you are genuine. If not why not??

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By *eaven and Hell 69Couple
over a year ago

HULL

Grow a pair, enjoy the pleasure and experience they will leave you a verification.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi All,

Thanks for the tips. It was just two people I met briefly several years ago long before I joined Fabswingers. Whilst they were nice, I was new to this and felt too shy to take things further.

Sam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even just a coffee with someone....

Don't have to rate you between the sheets, just that you're genuine...

Good luck

Ruby x"

agreed

Max x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will have to overcome that shyness to have any success on the swinging scene, socials are a good place to go and meet people and its just the same as going to a pub.

If you can't do that because your too shy then you will be hampered with meets. You have met people before but were too shy to take things further is a statement that may come to haunt you. Many women are here to have good fun confident sex and not have to hold someone's hand to teach them.

Overcome your confidence issues and you will be most of the way there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting for a coffee is always a good first step. You will find it very difficult if you can not overcome shyness. You do need to be confident....and ...believe in yourself. When you do others will see that confidence. Should you meet, people will read body language. Learn what body language NOT to display. Good luck.....smile, be confident and be positive.

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