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By *ottydot OP   Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Hi I'm new to the whole thing swinging etc.... Really want to get into it. Been thinking about it for ages just a little shy ish haha.... I've messaged females asking to chat or meet.but get no replies or jus deleted messages can someone help me or at least open a door so I can get my young boots kicking I don't have a preference females come on all shapes and sizes.... And I would like to go to a club in Wales or around if there's any invitations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe its your profile or lack of it your post is longer than your profile you need to sell yourself much more.. and the fact you carnt accomm will hinder your chances

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Your profile is shockingly bad. And your photos make you look like a backyard gangster!

Sort those out and you may have more luck.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I have to agree with the above comments.

Your post here is longer than your profile: the place to sell you. What is there is poorly written text speak. You're trying to attract ladies who are surrounded by tall, handsome, single men who are articulate, witty and able to accommodate.

Photos of you looking like a gangster just doesn't cut it I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile needs sorting lose the baseball cap. And having 2 lines one of which is "im no good at this" not helping you

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Neither will contradicting yourself.

You're either shy or tor not.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Class up man... Stand out from the other 25yo's, find some interests study them, gain knowledge and experience and want to be a better man.

And travel, every other month visit a new European city for the weekend, on your own.

Slowly start to fix your flaws.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol this is an introduction thread, it would better if you started with introducing yourself instead for being too negative lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Class up man... Stand out from the other 25yo's, find some interests study them, gain knowledge and experience and want to be a better man.

And travel, every other month visit a new European city for the weekend, on your own.

Slowly start to fix your flaws.

Good luck!"

Oh and have a bottomless wallet and join a gentlemans club.

Class is everything to swingers

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

with respect for what others have said, don't change yourself for other people. if people have a problem with what you say or how you dress, fuck em! value yourself! you will find somebody who appreciates you.

some people find it hard to sell themselves with some writing and few pics, i am one of those people...

iv been coming on this site on and off for a few years.. this is probably my 9th or 10th profile and i have only ever had 6 meets off here in around 4 years(on and off)

In person i don't struggle to woo a female and its a lot easier to sell yourself with yourself in person.

Unless you have a body like a spartan, face like a movie star and a 25 inch penis, you have to be a really good writer to tempt them in.

But if more meets is what you want, DO NOT listen to me as on here im about as popular as a the Bubonic plague.

just be happy!

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Just a bit of spare cash, not hard to come by just work a little harder.

And I'm sure he doesn't want to just attract "swingers".

Hit the hotels and Tinder, plenty of mid 30s blue chip stock waiting to be shown some fun.

And I'm sure there are classy "swingers" about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a bit of spare cash, not hard to come by just work a little harder.

And I'm sure he doesn't want to just attract "swingers".

Hit the hotels and Tinder, plenty of mid 30s blue chip stock waiting to be shown some fun.

And I'm sure there are classy "swingers" about."

Oh there sure are.

One good start for him would be to be able to type English instead of the words he's written, contains no vowels.

Totally agree with what you're saying. If he smartened himself up and did things you recommend he would perhaps find a nice young woman and therefore wouldn't need or want this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

exactly you have to put some effort into not only your profile..BUT text speak dont seem to get single guys too far!!!!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Wagwannnn! Carry on keepin it real! Simples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sell yourself.

Change those dreadful pictures.

Be proud if yourself without being smug.

Type words not shortened text talk. Make it look as if you actually care.

Be able to string enough words together to form an actual sentance that makes sense without swearing,

Shorten your interests box, It looks as if you've gone through and ticked them all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't understand why you aren't successful. Especially with that last pic of you flippin the bird. Class!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Class up man... Stand out from the other 25yo's, find some interests study them, gain knowledge and experience and want to be a better man.

And travel, every other month visit a new European city for the weekend, on your own.

Slowly start to fix your flaws.

Good luck!"

Omg this is a swinging/sex for free site not University bloody Challenge lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are your pictures ironic? Or are you really just looking to attract the Waynetta Slob and Vicky Pollard types?

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By *ottydot OP   Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Ok thank you to all your honest opinions I'll update my profile add a few more pics and see where it gets me sorry but can't change the way I dress

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Hmmmmm I use sites like these because I need or want sex...

It's the experience, it's for a different taste or style & I might learn something...

Everyone has a story to tell.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

Horses for courses man...

I dress like you too, for the gym...

But at the pub different, the horse races different again...

You wouldn't wear a baseball cap to a wedding?

So that's how you dress... But dress or er undress to impress...?

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By *ottydot OP   Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Cheers mate thanks for that and yeah different attire for different settings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile reads better now.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Cheers mate thanks for that and yeah different attire for different settings"
Be you! And you will attract those who actually like real people and not false players! Enjoy!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Are your pictures ironic? Or are you really just looking to attract the Waynetta Slob and Vicky Pollard types? "
oh my!!!! Thats propa rude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe its something for the Admin to think about in the Future, Preferences based on the Class system, Blue or white Collar, Those can afford extensive european Travel and those that cant, Oxford/Cambridge...jeeeez

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The pics would put me off straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The picture of you giving the finger with a fag hanging out of your mouth is just a bit for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way you dress is irrelevant. Just dont go for the gangster look flicking the bird with the fag in your mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The picture of you giving the finger with a fag hanging out of your mouth is just a bit for me"

Don't think it's a fag looks like a joint so that would be a definate no for us but each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's better photos portray the real person, rather than "sunday best" type pics. Leave them on, someone will like them, then you'll have fun and you can be yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those pics are brilliant! What's your rapper name?

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