FabSwingers.com forum: Want first mmf experience with a couple

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Want to have my first couple experience with a couple but finding it hard to get a meet or anyone genuine any tips ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Still looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here is a tip for you.

Single guys on here are two a penny, and most seem to think it is a place just to get a fuck judging by the amount of guys who bother us.

You need to show that you have respect and intelligence. Respect what you see in profiles and only bother people who say they are interested in single guys, funny enough we find lots of single guys cannot read!!

If someone says they don't want single guys in their profile, and they don't like winks, you need to respect their choices and leave them alone.

Which comes to our question of why YOU bothered US?

You think that showed you in a good light?

Learning to respect others is a massive lesson to learn, not just on here, but in life.

Without that you will be looking for a VERY long time.

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By *ovincple1924Couple
over a year ago

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"Here is a tip for you.

Single guys on here are two a penny, and most seem to think it is a place just to get a fuck judging by the amount of guys who bother us.

If someone says they don't want single guys in their profile, and they don't like winks, you need to respect their choices and leave them alone.

Which comes to our question of why YOU bothered US?

You think that showed you in a good light?

Learning to respect others is a massive lesson to learn, not just on here, but in life.

Without that you will be looking for a VERY long time."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would add to that, dont be too old, do be good looking lol. Sense of humour and being polite doesn't seem to go too far. At the end of the day this site is about sex. Whilst most guys are happy to get a dip in anything available. Couples, generally where the lady has the last word, can afford to be very picky with so many males around. Ok sometimes the first pick is not so good but there's a heck of a lot left to choose from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Typical "moaners" post. From a single guy (ten a penny) with a 3 line profile and nowt but nob shots.... No wonder no success.

Effort in (zero) = results out (surprise surprise, also zero)

Get real dude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh....and your one verification from another man yet you say you are straight! Absolutely nothing could scream fake any louder than this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't say he was moaning so much really lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club on a single male night it's what most people who attend those nights are looking for.

Keep plugging away and have patience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go to a club on a single male night it's what most people who attend those nights are looking for.

Keep plugging away and have patience. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for advice people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You never answered our question.

Why did you bother us?

did you read our profile?

Did you think you are that special it doesn't apply to you?

Curious as to whether you have the manners to reply, or are you just another chancer single guy?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"You never answered our question.

Why did you bother us?

did you read our profile?

Did you think you are that special it doesn't apply to you?

Curious as to whether you have the manners to reply, or are you just another chancer single guy?"

very harsh. No need for it.

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By *ikki33Woman
over a year ago

Oxford

"You never answered our question.

Why did you bother us?

did you read our profile?

Did you think you are that special it doesn't apply to you?

Curious as to whether you have the manners to reply, or are you just another chancer single guy?"

Why be like that? Give the guy a break

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks Hun x

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

As said above, go to some clubs and make an effort to talk to couples. Don't make the mistake of only talking to one of them and FFS do not spend all night following people around, it gets really creepy and annoying!

You will soon get yourself known. Have fun.

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

And just to add, as pointed out above, read profiles before sending messages!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You never answered our question.

Why did you bother us?

did you read our profile?

Did you think you are that special it doesn't apply to you?

Curious as to whether you have the manners to reply, or are you just another chancer single guy?"

Good grief. Couples that think they are special......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples who think they are special no.

Couples who think you should respect their choices, definitely!!

Do you nor believe in good manners and respect? Is it good manners and respect to ignore people's wishes, or is it just plain old rude?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is totally irrelevant to us whether people think we are special or not.

All we expect is that people respect our wishes and if we make it perfectly clear that we have decided we do not want contact from certain types of people, well surely those types should not bother us??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is totally irrelevant to us whether people think we are special or not.

Some people don't read profiles. Some people still mail me. It's not worth getting irate over. It should be fun.

If guys get that annoying it might be easier to just block them all.

Yes I do feel your pain. But ranty profiles tend to attract idiots- they see you're pissed off and mail you just to piss you off more. Sad but true. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You never answered our question.

Why did you bother us?

did you read our profile?

Did you think you are that special it doesn't apply to you?

Curious as to whether you have the manners to reply, or are you just another

chancer single guy?

very harsh. No need for it."

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It is totally irrelevant to us whether people think we are special or not.

why don't you just block single men? It really is that easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it harsh to ask people why they do not read and respect profiles?

We don't think so.

After all, what is a profile for?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Couples who think they are special no.

Couples who think you should respect their choices, definitely!!

Do you nor believe in good manners and respect? Is it good manners and respect to ignore people's wishes, or is it just plain old rude?"

I'll be honest I thought your original post was plain old rude.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Is it harsh to ask people why they do not read and respect profiles?

We don't think so.

After all, what is a profile for?"

I think the way you asked was harsh yes, as I said the facility exists to block single men from messaging you it would save you a lot of pain if you use it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couples who think they are special no.

Couples who think you should respect their choices, definitely!!

Do you nor believe in good manners and respect? Is it good manners and respect to ignore people's wishes, or is it just plain old rude?"

I've just read your profile, out of curiosity, obviously

. Respect ? Good manners ?. . Is that how it reads to you ? ? ?

Pot, kettle . . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let us get this straight now, it is rude for us to speak out, but it isn't rude when a guy blatantly ignores our profile and choices?

So a guy can be rude to us and we are supposed to take it?

Are we sure on this guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our profile reads exactly as we wish it to thanks.

We are not rude to anyone in particular, just saying exactly what we want.

If it is not anyone's taste then please feel free not to read it, however we do expect that people respect our choices.

Not a lot to ask really is it?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Let us get this straight now, it is rude for us to speak out, but it isn't rude when a guy blatantly ignores our profile and choices?

So a guy can be rude to us and we are supposed to take it?

Are we sure on this guys?"

It is rude to openly address a problem in public yes. If you have a problem its best to either block or resolve it privately I think.

Two wrongs don't make a right.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Our profile reads exactly as we wish it to thanks.

We are not rude to anyone in particular, just saying exactly what we want.

If it is not anyone's taste then please feel free not to read it, however we do expect that people respect our choices.

Not a lot to ask really is it?"

By the way if you use the reply and quote button we will know who you're answering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let us get this straight now, it is rude for us to speak out, but it isn't rude when a guy blatantly ignores our profile and choices?

So a guy can be rude to us and we are supposed to take it?

Are we sure on this guys?"

Carry on the same. It's clearly working well for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let us get this straight now, it is rude for us to speak out, but it isn't rude when a guy blatantly ignores our profile and choices?

So a guy can be rude to us and we are supposed to take it?

Are we sure on this guys?"

BLOCK, SMILE, LAUGH . . . MOVE ON! . . . It makes life so much easier . . Honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It works EXACTLY as we want it to thanks very much!

Like we say time and time again. It is designed to suit us, no one else.

All we keep on asking is for people to show manners and respect our choices.

After all, every single person who puts a profile on here expects others to respect their profile, so why shouldn't we?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It works EXACTLY as we want it to thanks very much!

Like we say time and time again. It is designed to suit us, no one else.

All we keep on asking is for people to show manners and respect our choices.

After all, every single person who puts a profile on here expects others to respect their profile, so why shouldn't we?"

Of course you're entitled to respect, we all are. Are you going to block single men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It works EXACTLY as we want it to thanks very much!

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Then why are you so angry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is another choice we make.

Surely another sign of respect we all expect is that anyone, single or couples, actually read profiles before contacting people?

isn't that the polite thing to do?

In that case, blocking becomes irrelevant surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are not angry in the slightest, however we think that if someone blatantly ignores our profile, the least we can expect is an apology.

Unwanted attention face to face is totally unacceptable, what makes it any different here?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"This is another choice we make.

Surely another sign of respect we all expect is that anyone, single or couples, actually read profiles before contacting people?

isn't that the polite thing to do?

In that case, blocking becomes irrelevant surely?"

No. You say that you run your profile exactly as you want it which includes choosing NOT to use the facility that allows you to prevent single men from messaging you, from that I can only conclude that you want some of them to contact you...ego massage possibly?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We are not angry in the slightest, however we think that if someone blatantly ignores our profile, the least we can expect is an apology.

Unwanted attention face to face is totally unacceptable, what makes it any different here?"

We get messages from people who haven't read our profile daily, we don't expect an apology. We never get any messages from people outside our age range though....guess why? We blocked them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are not really concerned about anyone's opinions on how we choose to run our profile.

Unwanted attention is wrong and disrespectful.

If you conclude it is an ego massage then good for you.

However if you cannot see that people should respect other people's choices then we aren't going to get anywhere are we?

We don't get this, are you saying it is fine for others just to plainly ignore your wishes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have choices in this world, we do not ask others to agree with them, just to respect them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We are not really concerned about anyone's opinions on how we choose to run our profile.

Unwanted attention is wrong and disrespectful.

If you conclude it is an ego massage then good for you.

However if you cannot see that people should respect other people's choices then we aren't going to get anywhere are we?

We don't get this, are you saying it is fine for others just to plainly ignore your wishes?"

No, but I am saying that you have the answer right there at the touch of a button and instead of using it you're arguing with me about if I think its fine for someone to ignore your wishes. No, I don't think its fine for single men to message you when you make it so plain that you don't want them to but you aren't achieving anything at all by labouring the point here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bashing head against wall.

Ouch!

Bashing head against wall.

Ouch!

Bashing head against wall.

Ouch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are not angry in the slightest, however we think that if someone blatantly ignores our profile, the least we can expect is an apology.

Unwanted attention face to face is totally unacceptable, what makes it any different here?"

An apology . . Really ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are glad you kind of agree with us! There is no real need to disagree, you have your view and we have ours.

We have made it clear how we feel and we hope you can respect that.

Take it easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bashing head against wall.

Ouch!

Bashing head against wall.

Ouch!

Bashing head against wall.

Ouch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you ignored someone's wishes, then yes an apology would be the well mannered thing to do, wouldn't it?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We are glad you kind of agree with us! There is no real need to disagree, you have your view and we have ours.

We have made it clear how we feel and we hope you can respect that.

Take it easy."

Respect I find is a usually a two way street and of course I respect your views although I don't totally agree. I still can't understand why you refuse to block single males though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may not understand why we don't block them and we accept that no problem, but tell us this.

If you see people of interest on here, do you read the profile to see if there are common interests and likes? Then if there are make contact, or maybe not as the case maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you ignored someone's wishes, then yes an apology would be the well mannered thing to do, wouldn't it?

In the real world maybe , but sorry not on a site like this,

There's many 'triers' on here,. . Who will just about message anything to anyone. . A simple 'no thanks' doesn't hurt . .

Or as you've been advised . just block those you don't want to receive messages from. . Simple!

. . . And your problem solved

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"You may not understand why we don't block them and we accept that no problem, but tell us this.

If you see people of interest on here, do you read the profile to see if there are common interests and likes? Then if there are make contact, or maybe not as the case maybe?

Yes but we aren't discussing me. I think you have taken this too far and I think I may have encouraged it so I'll bid you good night and best wishes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We also wish you well.

Good night and take it easy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Still looking

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

"It is totally irrelevant to us whether people think we are special or not.

why don't you just block single men? It really is that easy. "
I was thinking the same lol

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By *UNkedSoulCouple
over a year ago

East

"We are not angry in the slightest, however we think that if someone blatantly ignores our profile, the least we can expect is an apology.

Unwanted attention face to face is totally unacceptable, what makes it any different here?

We get messages from people who haven't read our profile daily, we don't expect an apology. We never get any messages from people outside our age range though....guess why? We blocked them."

Nicecouple... you appear to be a perfect judge of character... "ego massage" #Block ... Easy really...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't single guys read our profile and respect our choices?

Even easier still!!

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