FabSwingers.com forum: Newbie

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am new to this but been on this site for about 2-3 weeks now have had a couple of meets.

I am not sure i like the idea that if you send a message to someone that they dont have to reply if they dont like you.

Surely it would be polite to tell the person this information rather than just ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to think that single females and couples may get 100s of messages a week they carnt reply to every one of them.. All they have to do is look at a profile and delete if its not wat they are looking for ( there choice) you only been on a few weeks and already a few meets so you doing well. If some one deletes your message just move on

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"I am new to this but been on this site for about 2-3 weeks now have had a couple of meets.

I am not sure i like the idea that if you send a message to someone that they dont have to reply if they dont like you.

Surely it would be polite to tell the person this information rather than just ignore them.

It's not an idea it's in the FAQ's and clearly shows no reply means not interested and no one is compelled to reply to a message.

Considering you have had meets in a short while of being on the site your doing very much better than many males on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not sure i like the idea that if you send a message to someone that they dont have to reply if they dont like you.

I am not sure I like the idea of new guys posting threads that have been talked about a thousand times already.

I am not sure I like the idea of people not using the site search function to see if anythings been said about a subject before posting.

I am not sure I like the idea of new members not possibly reading the FAQ's.

Have a nice day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to FabSwingers

Best of Luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am new to this but been on this site for about 2-3 weeks now have had a couple of meets.

I am not sure i like the idea that if you send a message to someone that they dont have to reply if they dont like you.

Surely it would be polite to tell the person this information rather than just ignore them.

Do you respond to all the unsolicited mail you receive? Ring up every PPI company that texts you to say - not interested? If not - why not? Sit down and think about it for a moment. If you dont like it, and it is clearly stated in the faq, then this is not the site for you.

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By *amamanMan
over a year ago

Inverness and around. ...

Well in a couple of weeks you have had 2meets ....

think a lot of guys want to know how you did it. ...

and I certainly wouldn't be complaining about much.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Welcome and enjoy!

Personally I read all messages (but I'll admit that I don't get many due to filtering single men out) but as my profile states, if I don't respond I'm not interested. I look at profile first and single men who do not display their veris don't get a second look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

workinv full time and being single mum, if i responded to every message i got just to be polite id never have any time to meet. plus a lot of men cant handle the rejection an get nasty

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

My female friends averages 30 messages a day that she's not interested in in the slightest (many are downright disgusting!).

Would you reply to 30 messages? Honestly?

Even typing no thanks, or cutting and pasting a message that many times would be a right pain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am new to this but been on this site for about 2-3 weeks now have had a couple of meets.

I am not sure i like the idea that if you send a message to someone that they dont have to reply if they dont like you.

Surely it would be polite to tell the person this information rather than just ignore them.

How would an inbox full of "no thanks" help your cause? It wouldn't so deal with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am new to this but been on this site for about 2-3 weeks now have had a couple of meets.

I am not sure i like the idea that if you send a message to someone that they dont have to reply if they dont like you.

Surely it would be polite to tell the person this information rather than just ignore them.

Do you still feel the same OP ?????

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