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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ello i havnt been on here long yes i get that but ive messaged a few women and got a couple of replies but nothing major seems to be happening!

So much for all the women gagging for cock lol is there something wrong on my profile or somethin i cant see!

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Women may be gagging for cock, but they aren't desperate. We can pick and choose who we want to meet.

Your profile doesn't stand out any. It's bland and the same as 100's of others. You are quite young, reflected in your narrow age range (which also narrows down potential meets), and unable to accomodate. All unfortunately go against you.

You'll just have to keep plugging away, go to clubs and socials, get yourself known in vhat and or forums. Swinging is as much about networking as it is fucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So much for all the women gagging for cock lol"

That's not generally how it works - you still need to knock them off their feet and show them why they should pick you over the thousands of other guys vying for their attention also.

If you are frustrated after a week, this may not end well for you! Just relax and have a bit of fun.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Actually, fuck it, I take it all back, if that's your attitude after a week, then maybe try an escort site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miaow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 20/05/14 09:21:24]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said redangel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It looks to me as though you have come on site with the wrong attitude and expectations ?

The women on site are not just bits of meat who will jump on you at your say so ? They actually have the ability to choose who they like which means that effort has to be put in by all single males ( it's the best profile or attitude wins !)

It takes time and effort then the rewards for both parties will be worth the time ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another single man whingeing zzzzzzzzzzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we just had first meet with guy, but he spent ages just talking to emma like she was a normal woman, telling her how nice she was and enjoyed talking with her about life in general. spend some time and effort talking to people and they will respond, rather than join the many others who just ask do you wana fuck. anybody who makes an effort with us will always stand more chance than a guy who doesnt..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We aren't a piece of meat you can pick up from your local tesco it take time and effect to stand out from the other single guys. I just simple block guys if getting pushy to meet its a big turn off and no respect. Have some fun and relax on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We aren't a piece of meat you can pick up from your local tesco it take time and effect to stand out from the other single guys. I just simple block guys if getting pushy to meet its a big turn off and no respect. Have some fun and relax on here."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We aren't a piece of meat you can pick up from your local tesco it take time and effect to stand out from the other single guys. I just simple block guys if getting pushy to meet its a big turn off and no respect. Have some fun and relax on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we just had first meet with guy, but he spent ages just talking to emma like she was a normal woman, telling her how nice she was and enjoyed talking with her about life in general. spend some time and effort talking to people and they will respond, rather than join the many others who just ask do you wana fuck. anybody who makes an effort with us will always stand more chance than a guy who doesnt.."

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know when I joined I thought great like minded people like me that just want NSA and friendship well I was so wrong. This place is for the desperate men that will fuck anything with a pulse bombarded woman with cock pics and stupid chat up lines only to destroy our chances as some of us are genuine guys. Treat your profile as you would your business if you don't get out there and shout from the roof tops no one will know you exist forums are a good place well what you just did by opening a topic was a way forward. Never message a girl and say wanna fuck love here is my cock pic. They are not programmed like that. You need charm and a sense of humour a woman's smile is a gate way to her heart or knickers how ever you want to look at it

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

With that attitude, a sex site rather than a swinging site would suit you better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ello i havnt been on here long yes i get that but ive messaged a few women and got a couple of replies but nothing major seems to be happening!

So much for all the women gagging for cock lol is there something wrong on my profile or somethin i cant see! "

Nothing wrong with your profile or your post above. Looks like they reflect your attitude to swinging and the women on this site, therefore you will get the results you deserve.

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Women may be gagging for cock, but they aren't desperate. We can pick and choose who we want to meet.

Your profile doesn't stand out any. It's bland and the same as 100's of others. You are quite young, reflected in your narrow age range (which also narrows down potential meets), and unable to accomodate. All unfortunately go against you.

You'll just have to keep plugging away, go to clubs and socials, get yourself known in vhat and or forums. Swinging is as much about networking as it is fucking."

Here here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who told you all the women on here were "gagging for cock"?

The ratio to men to women is around 200 men to each woman....we can be as picky as we like and we coins all still be getting Cock every day & twice on Sunday.

You're in the majority on this site & are going to find you need to put the effort in.

As for your profile....it's generic, it no different the thousands of other profiles on here and in no way stands out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who told you all the women on here were "gagging for cock"?

The ratio to men to women is around 200 men to each woman....we can be as picky as we like and we coins all still be getting Cock every day & twice on Sunday.

You're in the majority on this site & are going to find you need to put the effort in.

As for your profile....it's generic, it no different the thousands of other profiles on here and in no way stands out.

"

But what about the woman's profiles some are proper shit and I think a profile is a gateway to the persons mentality. Now me personally I like my woman to have a gsoh and can take banter and give banter. Us men on here dominate this site but if on your profile you could have a negative feed back system then I'm sure the men would be thinned out and also the woman as utter time wasters. There is a lot of woman that just seek attention and prick tease its in there DNA. Now I'll hide cause going to bet scorned but remember BANTER

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"Gagging for cock" .....we might be on a swingers site but we still deserve respect. To be honest, with that attitude towards the ladies on here you will never get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who told you all the women on here were "gagging for cock"?

The ratio to men to women is around 200 men to each woman....we can be as picky as we like and we coins all still be getting Cock every day & twice on Sunday.

You're in the majority on this site & are going to find you need to put the effort in.

As for your profile....it's generic, it no different the thousands of other profiles on here and in no way stands out.

But what about the woman's profiles some are proper shit and I think a profile is a gateway to the persons mentality. Now me personally I like my woman to have a gsoh and can take banter and give banter. Us men on here dominate this site but if on your profile you could have a negative feed back system then I'm sure the men would be thinned out and also the woman as utter time wasters. There is a lot of woman that just seek attention and prick tease its in there DNA. Now I'll hide cause going to bet scorned but remember BANTER "

Your avatar makes you look like you have just pee'd in the sink pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who told you all the women on here were "gagging for cock"?

The ratio to men to women is around 200 men to each woman....we can be as picky as we like and we coins all still be getting Cock every day & twice on Sunday.

You're in the majority on this site & are going to find you need to put the effort in.

As for your profile....it's generic, it no different the thousands of other profiles on here and in no way stands out.

But what about the woman's profiles some are proper shit and I think a profile is a gateway to the persons mentality. Now me personally I like my woman to have a gsoh and can take banter and give banter. Us men on here dominate this site but if on your profile you could have a negative feed back system then I'm sure the men would be thinned out and also the woman as utter time wasters. There is a lot of woman that just seek attention and prick tease its in there DNA. Now I'll hide cause going to bet scorned but remember BANTER

Your avatar makes you look like you have just pee'd in the sink pmsl "

And your avatar make u look like a baboons arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who told you all the women on here were "gagging for cock"?

The ratio to men to women is around 200 men to each woman....we can be as picky as we like and we coins all still be getting Cock every day & twice on Sunday.

You're in the majority on this site & are going to find you need to put the effort in.

As for your profile....it's generic, it no different the thousands of other profiles on here and in no way stands out.

But what about the woman's profiles some are proper shit and I think a profile is a gateway to the persons mentality. Now me personally I like my woman to have a gsoh and can take banter and give banter. Us men on here dominate this site but if on your profile you could have a negative feed back system then I'm sure the men would be thinned out and also the woman as utter time wasters. There is a lot of woman that just seek attention and prick tease its in there DNA. Now I'll hide cause going to bet scorned but remember BANTER

Your avatar makes you look like you have just pee'd in the sink pmsl

And your avatar make u look like a baboons arse "

Is that where you prefer to shove your wee sausage ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who told you all the women on here were "gagging for cock"?

The ratio to men to women is around 200 men to each woman....we can be as picky as we like and we coins all still be getting Cock every day & twice on Sunday.

You're in the majority on this site & are going to find you need to put the effort in.

As for your profile....it's generic, it no different the thousands of other profiles on here and in no way stands out.

But what about the woman's profiles some are proper shit and I think a profile is a gateway to the persons mentality. Now me personally I like my woman to have a gsoh and can take banter and give banter. Us men on here dominate this site but if on your profile you could have a negative feed back system then I'm sure the men would be thinned out and also the woman as utter time wasters. There is a lot of woman that just seek attention and prick tease its in there DNA. Now I'll hide cause going to bet scorned but remember BANTER

Your avatar makes you look like you have just pee'd in the sink pmsl

And your avatar make u look like a baboons arse

Is that where you prefer to shove your wee sausage ? "

Wow a question mark I will have to answer now. Not in to animals but in your case I'd fuck ya as long as I can come dressed as micheal Jackson and call you bubbles

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By *uggarbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Ladies if your gagging for it why didn't you just say.....I'll get kettle on. Who's for tea and who's for coffee? ? Cake??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies if your gagging for it why didn't you just say.....I'll get kettle on. Who's for tea and who's for coffee? ? Cake?? "

Tea and a nice muffin any day. Make sure its Yorkshire tea thou or I'd spit it over the shag pile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who told you all the women on here were "gagging for cock"?

The ratio to men to women is around 200 men to each woman....we can be as picky as we like and we coins all still be getting Cock every day & twice on Sunday.

You're in the majority on this site & are going to find you need to put the effort in.

As for your profile....it's generic, it no different the thousands of other profiles on here and in no way stands out.

But what about the woman's profiles some are proper shit and I think a profile is a gateway to the persons mentality. Now me personally I like my woman to have a gsoh and can take banter and give banter. Us men on here dominate this site but if on your profile you could have a negative feed back system then I'm sure the men would be thinned out and also the woman as utter time wasters. There is a lot of woman that just seek attention and prick tease its in there DNA. Now I'll hide cause going to bet scorned but remember BANTER

Your avatar makes you look like you have just pee'd in the sink pmsl

And your avatar make u look like a baboons arse

Is that where you prefer to shove your wee sausage ?

Wow a question mark I will have to answer now. Not in to animals but in your case I'd fuck ya as long as I can come dressed as micheal Jackson and call you bubbles "

Hmmm. Are you inviting yourself round to fuck a 'monkey' ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who told you all the women on here were "gagging for cock"?

The ratio to men to women is around 200 men to each woman....we can be as picky as we like and we coins all still be getting Cock every day & twice on Sunday.

You're in the majority on this site & are going to find you need to put the effort in.

As for your profile....it's generic, it no different the thousands of other profiles on here and in no way stands out.

But what about the woman's profiles some are proper shit and I think a profile is a gateway to the persons mentality. Now me personally I like my woman to have a gsoh and can take banter and give banter. Us men on here dominate this site but if on your profile you could have a negative feed back system then I'm sure the men would be thinned out and also the woman as utter time wasters. There is a lot of woman that just seek attention and prick tease its in there DNA. Now I'll hide cause going to bet scorned but remember BANTER

Your avatar makes you look like you have just pee'd in the sink pmsl

And your avatar make u look like a baboons arse

Is that where you prefer to shove your wee sausage ?

Wow a question mark I will have to answer now. Not in to animals but in your case I'd fuck ya as long as I can come dressed as micheal Jackson and call you bubbles

Hmmm. Are you inviting yourself round to fuck a 'monkey' ? "

Your words not mine self demoralisation tut tut you can do better than that you sexy swinger

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


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So much for all the women gagging for cock lol is there something wrong on my profile or somethin i cant see! "

no offence.. if that is your perception of swinging... i think you are in the wrong place....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who told you all the women on here were "gagging for cock"?

The ratio to men to women is around 200 men to each woman....we can be as picky as we like and we coins all still be getting Cock every day & twice on Sunday.

You're in the majority on this site & are going to find you need to put the effort in.

As for your profile....it's generic, it no different the thousands of other profiles on here and in no way stands out.

But what about the woman's profiles some are proper shit and I think a profile is a gateway to the persons mentality. Now me personally I like my woman to have a gsoh and can take banter and give banter. Us men on here dominate this site but if on your profile you could have a negative feed back system then I'm sure the men would be thinned out and also the woman as utter time wasters. There is a lot of woman that just seek attention and prick tease its in there DNA. Now I'll hide cause going to bet scorned but remember BANTER

Your avatar makes you look like you have just pee'd in the sink pmsl

And your avatar make u look like a baboons arse

Is that where you prefer to shove your wee sausage ?

Wow a question mark I will have to answer now. Not in to animals but in your case I'd fuck ya as long as I can come dressed as micheal Jackson and call you bubbles

Hmmm. Are you inviting yourself round to fuck a 'monkey' ?

Your words not mine self demoralisation tut tut you can do better than that you sexy swinger "

I know I can and do.......regularly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im going to stop hijacking this thread now .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who told you all the women on here were "gagging for cock"?

The ratio to men to women is around 200 men to each woman....we can be as picky as we like and we coins all still be getting Cock every day & twice on Sunday.

You're in the majority on this site & are going to find you need to put the effort in.

As for your profile....it's generic, it no different the thousands of other profiles on here and in no way stands out.

But what about the woman's profiles some are proper shit and I think a profile is a gateway to the persons mentality. Now me personally I like my woman to have a gsoh and can take banter and give banter. Us men on here dominate this site but if on your profile you could have a negative feed back system then I'm sure the men would be thinned out and also the woman as utter time wasters. There is a lot of woman that just seek attention and prick tease its in there DNA. Now I'll hide cause going to bet scorned but remember BANTER

Your avatar makes you look like you have just pee'd in the sink pmsl

And your avatar make u look like a baboons arse

Is that where you prefer to shove your wee sausage ?

Wow a question mark I will have to answer now. Not in to animals but in your case I'd fuck ya as long as I can come dressed as micheal Jackson and call you bubbles

Hmmm. Are you inviting yourself round to fuck a 'monkey' ?

Your words not mine self demoralisation tut tut you can do better than that you sexy swinger

I know I can and do.......regularly lol "

What let micheal Jackson take off come round and call you bubbles. By the size of that arse they can moon walk too bwhahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im going to stop hijacking this thread now . "

Open a new one we will call it banter or go to mine called changing names

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, one last effort but only because you appear to have an unheathly fasination with a man who is a: dead. B: questionable around children. C : shagged a primate (according to you). The size of my arse seems quite tame looking at fet list .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all about respect and don't show the nice women on here your cock they don't tend to like that I enjoy chatting to women and couples its good fun, I've yet to have a meet and had loads of rejections or no reply but it doesn't stop me trying and I take into account that I haven't been on here for long, its not an escort agency

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fuck me wernt expecting to cause this much shit lmao take it easy ladys ok i apologise for the way i put the post just saying it pisses me off how a good lookin woman deletes your post after your just trying to be friendly!

I dont send cock pictures to women anyway but yeah suppose il keep trying and yeah i have a thing with pissing in the sink lol nice comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck me wernt expecting to cause this much shit lmao take it easy ladys ok i apologise for the way i put the post just saying it pisses me off how a good lookin woman deletes your post after your just trying to be friendly!

I dont send cock pictures to women anyway but yeah suppose il keep trying and yeah i have a thing with pissing in the sink lol nice comment "

Lol you chicken.... And as for the sink you seen cowboy plumbers you should see my header tank trick lol

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By *ez247Man
over a year ago

rochdale

Well said Essex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ello i havnt been on here long yes i get that but ive messaged a few women and got a couple of replies but nothing major seems to be happening!

So much for all the women gagging for cock lol is there something wrong on my profile or somethin i cant see! "

Profile looks ok,but us women are not all gagging for Cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ello i havnt been on here long yes i get that but ive messaged a few women and got a couple of replies but nothing major seems to be happening!

So much for all the women gagging for cock lol is there something wrong on my profile or somethin i cant see!

Profile looks ok,but us women are not all gagging for Cock "

Wtf happened to you ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ello i havnt been on here long yes i get that but ive messaged a few women and got a couple of replies but nothing major seems to be happening!

So much for all the women gagging for cock lol is there something wrong on my profile or somethin i cant see!

Profile looks ok,but us women are not all gagging for Cock

Wtf happened to you ?? "

What do you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It looks to me as though you have come on site with the wrong attitude and expectations ?

The women on site are not just bits of meat who will jump on you at your say so ? They actually have the ability to choose who they like which means that effort has to be put in by all single males ( it's the best profile or attitude wins !)

It takes time and effort then the rewards for both parties will be worth the time ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It looks to me as though you have come on site with the wrong attitude and expectations ?

The women on site are not just bits of meat who will jump on you at your say so ? They actually have the ability to choose who they like which means that effort has to be put in by all single males ( it's the best profile or attitude wins !)

It takes time and effort then the rewards for both parties will be worth the time ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site is "full of cock hungry women" however it's also full of cocks who have no idea what swinging is about!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually, fuck it, I take it all back, if that's your attitude after a week, then maybe try an escort site."
a whole week omg haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A week may be a long time in politics but from what I've learned not in Fab terms. The girls are inundated daily, even hourly by not only the single men but also the married men. My GF who has been on here a while was swamped with dull, unimaginative mails till she set her filters & only has time to reply to the ones which catch her attention. So don't beat yourself up that you're not getting many replies, just ask what you can do to appeal to the profiles you find interesting. Take your time to discover what works for you & what doesn't. Be as unique as you can be, remember you're one in a vast sea of men vying for the ladies attention, & don't see it as InstaShag. Swinging is a lifestyle which the seasoned (genuine) swingers are passionate about & take their swinging seriously. Learn about the lifestyle, be enthusiastic to learn from established swingers & don't expect to be everyone's cup of tea, or them to be yours. Relax, learn, ask questions & be genuine. Folk can sense desperate & that won't win swingers over. Good luck & hope you enjoy the Fabswinging time. It can get really fun if you are willing to learn how to enjoy it.

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