FabSwingers.com forum: I think that answers that, lol

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all ... Put a post out of which a wonderful lass from Yorkshire has been most generous in her reply. Yes, I'm married with a wife that doesn't enjoy or participate in the joys of sex and it would appear that this is frowned upon in such circles as this. Teach me for being honest about my situation whilst being naive in my search for what I originally thought were like minded people, lol.

Thanks for those that viewed my profile (quite a few actually) and if there's anyone in the southern hemisphere of the UK that doesn't object to married men ... give us a nod

Have fun out there girls and boys xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define 'like minded people'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like minded, unfortunately for you, does not mean we're all cheating on our partners.

Swinging is all about mutual enjoyment where everyone involved (that includes your wife) is happy with what we do. Swinging, for many, is an enhancement of our sex lives.

If you just want sex because you're not getting it at home then, as many have suggested, you probably should sort things out at home first.

Think worst case; you catch an sti and give it to her. Just imagine how she'll feel then. I assume you loved her at some point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a point in starting another thread? Or did you think you'd get different answers on this one?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Well they were hardly keeping to the question asked in his other one so maybe he thought he would try again.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP....there are like minded people about who play with married men and women, so good luck in finding what you want.

I am going to shut your other thread for you.

Good luck

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Oh and welcome to the forum, try not to be put off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I answered the original question!

Anyway, there's someone out there for everyone it's just a matter of finding them, but I do think if you're not getting any interest than my original suggestion of tweaking your profile text applies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just learned the u.k has hemispheres! Chuffed with that........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The original question was to seek help,so people looked at profile and mentioned what is in the profile text that maybe not helping him to find meets,

Now this thread will get more conflict as it about what we all pointed out

Being married and partner unaware,accommodating if timing right - woman Do not want to be Caught if wife comes Home unexpectedly,i would be mortified if that happened,hence gave example of my own experience

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By *iggerooooCouple
over a year ago

Conwy

Married or not, that's your business.

It's not important to anyone so don't mention it.

Yes there are people on here who we frown upon your actions... But it's your business, it's not ours or any other members place to expect you to behave in your marriage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marriage? In name only.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

Cheats and swingers are not like minded, they are very different things, however on this you will find other cheats and people that will meet you, its open membership so it attracts all sorts.

The common misunderstanding of like minded people, as you put it, is that they think a swingers site is an easy lay so they join it thinking it to be somekind of instashag site, but the truth is swinging has nothing to do with cheating, yet like I said you will find a very small minority of swingers that will play with cheats, but you may do better targeting your other fellow cheats for one on ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Married or not, that's your business.

It's not important to anyone so don't mention it.

Yes there are people on here who we frown upon your actions... But it's your business, it's not ours or any other members place to expect you to behave in your marriage. "

What twaddle, of course it's important.

People have a right to make an informed decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Married or not, that's your business.

It's not important to anyone so don't mention it.

Yes there are people on here who we frown upon your actions... But it's your business, it's not ours or any other members place to expect you to behave in your marriage.

What twaddle, of course it's important.

People have a right to make an informed decision."

Too right, I don't meet married men and its clear on my profile so would want people to be upfront and honest if they are. I've had my time wasted before by a couple of people who weren't upfront with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find it hard to get verified . Have had meets . People will not talk to u unless u r verifed ! Can someone help ?

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

"Find it hard to get verified . Have had meets . People will not talk to u unless u r verifed ! Can someone help ?"

if you have had meets, get one of them to verify you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I answered his original question too. If you ignore the helpful answers and only concentrate on the bad ones you will get a bad impression.

For the record I advised him to be honest about his marital status but the things he had put in his profile were disrespectful to his wife......not sure why I bothered now.

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