FabSwingers.com forum: Struggling to meet ppl

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all,I'm struggling to meet people on here.I've tried the chat rooms and also sending nice messages and winks.

What am I doing wrong ?

Take care

Bid

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Don't want to appear negative but you've asked so..........

f*****ing as one of your 1st words in a profile doesn't seem to go down well, saying that your wife knows you're here but isn't happy about it will also probably not win you many admirers - you may be surprised but the majority of swingers also have morals and won't just shag any one - whinging about not getting replies is also pretty negative - well - I'll stop there but you probably get the idea? Z

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I appreciate your honesty and you've given me food for thought so thanks for that.

Take care

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By *issbehaveCouple
over a year ago

wrexham

Ive got to say, I agree, not many folks want to be involved with a situation where someone isnt happy with whats going on. Although your honesty is refreshing! Your profile seems a bit confusing and abrupt to me calling someone a fat waster maybe not such a good idea? You say your straight but your only verification is off a guy? But otherwise, very genuine pics. I think with a few little tweeks you'll be off and running. Hope this helps, its meant to be helpful and not a criticism

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

just because your on an adult site with people of a broad minded outlook, don,t expect to get what you want in fast order, the single male is a plentiful beast on this site and needs to earn the trust and respect of the female site member before he will ever get to meet one, respecting other's is prime on here, and showing respect get's more merit points,so having a profile that ouse's respect can't do you any harm at all, and as they say all good thing are worth that wait

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've noticed that most woman on here don't like bi guys so I put down staight. I should probably be honest.

Theit about fat waster was only tongue in cheek but maybe I should word it a littl differently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done for making the changes others have suggested.

Also kudos for being honest.

Yes, there will be those that wont play with married or bi men but there are those that do. Anyone reading your profile knows what to expect so can take it from there.

This site is diverse: someone for every taste: you just need to be patient!

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the responses. It's much appreciated.

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By *appycouple69Couple
over a year ago

southport

hi guy,s n dolls just remember there are a lots of nice folks out there so dont be rushed in to any thing you dont want to do. j n r x

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By *appycouple69Couple
over a year ago

southport

hi guy,s n dolls just remember there are a lots of nice folks out there so dont be rushed in to any thing you dont want to do. j n r x

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Your profile seems better now. Yes be honest. In my opinion always be honest.

Some people wont play with married men who are bi but then there are deffinately those who do. Just dont assume you will get a meet for the first 6 months and then if it happens it is a total bonus.

Some men are on many months before getting a meet.

Good luck

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