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"Indeed, very rare on here but ever better when one discovers it " ouch! An exclusive club then | |||
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"well it's like most specialist interests not to everyone's taste..but plenty of room for it on here with such a large number of memebers and a wide variety of interests..." just as long as it's sapiophilia that you find rare and not intelligence | |||
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"Indeed, very rare on here but ever better when one discovers it ouch! An exclusive club then " One which I will be happy not to be a member of | |||
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"Indeed, very rare on here but ever better when one discovers it ouch! An exclusive club then One which I will be happy not to be a member of " now banana cake neither of us wants to be a member of any club that would admit us | |||
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"Indeed, very rare on here but ever better when one discovers it ouch! An exclusive club then One which I will be happy not to be a member of now banana cake neither of us wants to be a member of any club that would admit us " I wouldn't lower myself | |||
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"Indeed, very rare on here but ever better when one discovers it ouch! An exclusive club then One which I will be happy not to be a member of now banana cake neither of us wants to be a member of any club that would admit us I wouldn't lower myself " It's a limbo dancing club? | |||
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"..after popping off and on Fab for about 5 years I realised I never did post on here..think I've learnt a lot but have much more too learn So a quick question 5 years too late..should their be a section for sapiophiles on here do you think?" Absolutely... you can all then congratulate yourselves on how terribly clever you are...you could have a little mensa type test to guarantee quality... Intelligence floats my boat on many levels but good grace, modesty and a general sense of inclusivity is what I tend to look for in my swinging life...I often find those who self identify as intelligent by using a word designed to exclude people tend to be a bit smug and rather dull on other levels... Still, as they say...Each to their own | |||
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"..after popping off and on Fab for about 5 years I realised I never did post on here..think I've learnt a lot but have much more too learn So a quick question 5 years too late..should their be a section for sapiophiles on here do you think? Absolutely... you can all then congratulate yourselves on how terribly clever you are...you could have a little mensa type test to guarantee quality... Intelligence floats my boat on many levels but good grace, modesty and a general sense of inclusivity is what I tend to look for in my swinging life...I often find those who self identify as intelligent by using a word designed to exclude people tend to be a bit smug and rather dull on other levels... Still, as they say...Each to their own " A sapiophile is not necessarily saying they're intelligent, they're saying they're turned on by intelligence. | |||
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"..after popping off and on Fab for about 5 years I realised I never did post on here..think I've learnt a lot but have much more too learn So a quick question 5 years too late..should their be a section for sapiophiles on here do you think? Absolutely... you can all then congratulate yourselves on how terribly clever you are...you could have a little mensa type test to guarantee quality... Intelligence floats my boat on many levels but good grace, modesty and a general sense of inclusivity is what I tend to look for in my swinging life...I often find those who self identify as intelligent by using a word designed to exclude people tend to be a bit smug and rather dull on other levels... Still, as they say...Each to their own A sapiophile is not necessarily saying they're intelligent, they're saying they're turned on by intelligence." I understand the inference thank you... | |||
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"I think the problem arose from the suggestions that intelligence was rare on here an implication bound to raise hackles and quite ironic since there are spelling and grammatical errors in the opening posts." Good point. | |||
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"..are you sure Banana Cake..even if asked nicely??;-) " will there be nudity and sexual gratification? | |||
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"..are you sure Banana Cake..even if asked nicely??;-) will there be nudity and sexual gratification? " Anything with "ilia" at the end involves nudity and sexual gratification, you should attend the AGM of my Francophile club | |||
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"Sapiophilia is a sexual preference just like any other and since it's legal those expressing that preference shouldn't be insulted for doing so. Sapiophiles don't have to be intelligent themselves any more than people who find black people a sexual turn in have to be black. I think the problem arose from the suggestions that intelligence was rare on here an implication bound to raise hackles and quite ironic since there are spelling and grammatical errors in the opening posts." I took that comment about it being rare as tongue in cheek | |||
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"Sapiophilia is a sexual preference just like any other and since it's legal those expressing that preference shouldn't be insulted for doing so. Sapiophiles don't have to be intelligent themselves any more than people who find black people a sexual turn in have to be black. I think the problem arose from the suggestions that intelligence was rare on here an implication bound to raise hackles and quite ironic since there are spelling and grammatical errors in the opening posts. I took that comment about it being rare as tongue in cheek " It might have been I didn't read it that way but it is possible | |||
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"Hmm, I was expressing my dislike of the suggestion that intelligence is rare here and mean no disrespect at all to anyones legal sexual turn ons. I find intelligence, quick wittedness and the ability to hold ones own in an argument without descending to insult extremely sexy that would describe A." This | |||
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"..are you sure Banana Cake..even if asked nicely??;-) will there be nudity and sexual gratification? Anything with "ilia" at the end involves nudity and sexual gratification, you should attend the AGM of my Francophile club " will there be gateau and Chablis? | |||
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" I came across the term 'sapiophile' on a profile recently so thought I would see if there were others who shared that interest. It seems that there are and its stimulated a interesting debate...and it's not just about where to stick an apostrophe " One woman's intelligent man is another woman's thicko | |||
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" I came across the term 'sapiophile' on a profile recently so thought I would see if there were others who shared that interest. It seems that there are and its stimulated a interesting debate...and it's not just about where to stick an apostrophe " you're right it isn't.... | |||
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"..are you sure Banana Cake..even if asked nicely??;-) will there be nudity and sexual gratification? Anything with "ilia" at the end involves nudity and sexual gratification, you should attend the AGM of my Francophile club will there be gateau and Chablis? " natch! | |||
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"..are you sure Banana Cake..even if asked nicely??;-) will there be nudity and sexual gratification? Anything with "ilia" at the end involves nudity and sexual gratification, you should attend the AGM of my Francophile club will there be gateau and Chablis? natch! " Save me a seat at the front | |||
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"Sapiophilia is not something I'm dying to try. Opps the wrong "philia" " | |||
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"A very effective weapon..incidentally very much enjoyed the play scenario in your profile guys..tried that yet? " who are you talking to? | |||
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"A woman with intelligence is the hight of arousal for me, I find that the lack of intellect can be a frustrating and more than often a huge turn off. I wouldn't class myself as highly intelligent but I'm very capable of holding my own in an intellectual conversation. " Lots of men find a quick witted, intelligent woman a threat mores the pity, it's why so many otherwise intelligent women and young girls behave in that silly giggly "ooo look at me aren't I silly" way around men..get's on my nerves that does | |||
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"Let me get this right......if I'm a bibliophile does that mean I find books a sexual turn on? Or a Francophile mean I lust after the French? Oenophile meaning I get moist when I have a glass of wine (I do actually!!) the suffix Phile just means having a liking for something I've always thought, nothing particularly sexual " No it doesn't really have a sexual connotation in every case, I was joking | |||
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"Let me get this right......if I'm a bibliophile does that mean I find books a sexual turn on? Or a Francophile mean I lust after the French? Oenophile meaning I get moist when I have a glass of wine (I do actually!!) the suffix Phile just means having a liking for something I've always thought, nothing particularly sexual No it doesn't really have a sexual connotation in every case, I was joking " Okay dokes | |||
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"I reserve the right to fight condescension with insults and mockery " A very effective weapon..incidentally very much enjoyed the play scenario in your profile guys..tried that yet? | |||
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"I reserve the right to fight condescension with insults and mockery A very effective weapon..incidentally very much enjoyed the play scenario in your profile guys..tried that yet? " Is this groundhog day????? | |||
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"I reserve the right to fight condescension with insults and mockery A very effective weapon..incidentally very much enjoyed the play scenario in your profile guys..tried that yet? Is this groundhog day????? " Well it isn't 'Nightmare of Elm Street' | |||
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"If sapio from Latin means to have good judgement or to be discerning then aren't we all lovers of good taste especially in regards to sex " Yes! | |||
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"I reserve the right to fight condescension with insults and mockery A very effective weapon..incidentally very much enjoyed the play scenario in your profile guys..tried that yet? Is this groundhog day????? Well it isn't 'Nightmare of Elm Street'" Why, is that repetitive too? | |||
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"Sapiophilia is a sexual preference just like any other and since it's legal those expressing that preference shouldn't be insulted for doing so. Sapiophiles don't have to be intelligent themselves any more than people who find black people a sexual turn in have to be black. I think the problem arose from the suggestions that intelligence was rare on here an implication bound to raise hackles and quite ironic since there are spelling and grammatical errors in the opening posts." ouch!! | |||
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"There aren't many of is around hunny...intelligence can be very attractive don't you think? " Is this where I am going wrong? | |||
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"Well, there's a thing, intelligence isn't necessarily measured by the number or quality of degrees you have. Having a good memory will get you a degree. There are a lot of extremely intelligent people who aren't very good at information retention, therefore struggle with formal qualifications. In just the same way that MENSA and IQ tests don't rely on knowledge to measure intelligence, one cannot assume good qualifications is a sign of great intelligence." A good memory is not a good way to get a degree. To get a good degree one needs to be articulate, be able to spell and use grammar. One needs to be able discuss intelligently, give examples, be widely read on the subject. One needs to be able to analyse and extrapolate, offer theories, possible solutions. A good memory will get you none of these. | |||
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"one needs to be articulate, be able to spell and use grammar Not for an Engineering degree...... The inverse is true I'm my humble....lol It's coz speeeling ain't logikal...or summat X" Yeah, I did say a good degree, not a dressed up City & Guilds, no offence | |||
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