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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am an older bloke, am fit, employed and would like to think I was good company

I have been on for just over a month, but, so far, no luck. Surely there must be some women in my age bracket, attached or single, who need to find some fun?

Any suggestions? What am I doing wrong?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

You have no picture and not really anything on your profile that is any different from many other male profiles....

You need to advertise yourself better...

Your profile is your shop window and if I walk past it wouldn't catch my attention.

I mean this in a constructive way as you are asking for help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The profile may as well be blank for the little info it provides.

The picture is just weird, taken from a distance on a station. And the fact that you live in Birmingham but if the picture is of you, you appear to be wearing a works identification pass and judging by the tube map not taken near Brum. And while there is probably a perfectly good explanation, the slightest suspicion or inconsistency is enough for us to pass a profile by

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the helpful comment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Actually it is at a birmingham station... But I take your point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone puts 'fit' on their profile I would expect to see a fit looking body. No sure your photo is doing you any justice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would have to agree, but it am over 60, and I do consider myself fit. Maybe the question is: fit for what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have to agree, but it am over 60, and I do consider myself fit. Maybe the question is: fit for what?"

Bit like me: fit for the knackers yard

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Naw, not at all

Point is that there must be loads of women my age and in a similar physical state

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there is..take other peoples advice a write a decent profile. Take a look at a few of the other guys profiles on here. Put some decent photos up as well. There are loads of men on here so you have to prove your worth meeting. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yep I got the message about more details in the profile

Thing is, I really do feel fit for what this site is about... A bit too fit maybe, hence just feel horny all the time

Re photos, I hate all photos of myself and don't have a camera, have tried taking some on my iPad but they are dire

The pic I posted up was taken by my nephew who was passing thru the station and I was totally unaware it was being taken

Guess that is me.. Shambolic, overweight... But deffo fit !!!!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I wouldn't concentrate too much on debating if you are fit, just make an interesting profile, add more pics and send polite messages.

Be patient, maybe go to some socials,

Then you are doing what you can and hopefully you will get lucky.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Socials?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After all the advice to date you still have a 2 line profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn't Argos where you place an order and wait for delivery, YOU need to put the effort in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yep I have registered, just need a free moment to do the additions... I do have a day job lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

U sound like my boss at work haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Added some more, working the novel

By the way, loved g g Marques who just passed away.... Anyone else remember the day the Indians brought ice to the village?

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