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"Ahhh... so you're looking for someone to cheat on your wife with?" I know it sounds bad and i haven't done anything about it yet Ideally irregular meets with someone in a similar situation to myself Does this make me a bad man? | |||
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"OP Welcome to the site, yes I'm sure you'll find what you are looking for in here just watch out for the judgemental types. As long as you are honest about your situation people can choose if they want to get to know you or not. Hope you find what you are looking for." Thank you  | |||
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"welcome to the site, you have your status on your profile, that allows for an informed choice to be made. your business, is your business. " | |||
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"Ahhh... so you're looking for someone to cheat on your wife with? I know it sounds bad and i haven't done anything about it yet Ideally irregular meets with someone in a similar situation to myself Does this make me a bad man?" Yep! Otherwise you would've left her before coming on here I'd rather my partner tell me and let me decide if I want to join in or not rather than cheat and hurt the partner and kids | |||
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"Keeping this as short as possible I live happily with my family. But for the last 3years there has been no sex I would like to know if fs is the place to meet someone for discreet nsa fun? I don't want an affair or to just get my rocks off with as many women as possible I love women with curves and think a body confident woman = a sexy woman" Im on here as a married female. cheating. I don't blame my other half for the lack of sex in our marriage. But I'm starting to think I'm in the wrong place and I don't mean my marriage but that's my issue. | |||
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"Personally I have more "respect" for married people who just get on with it. Justifying being on here by blaming their spouse is pretty poor form in my _iew. Then again, as least they're consistent! "I don't want to justify myself to you.You don't know the circumstances of my relationship not married. I do love her and will never leave. Should i bullshit and say i'm single? I don't want to get emotionally involved and don't want to hurt anyone especially the ones I love. Should i stick to my right hand and box of tissue? | |||
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"Personally I have more "respect" for married people who just get on with it. Justifying being on here by blaming their spouse is pretty poor form in my _iew. Then again, as least they're consistent!
I don't want to justify myself to you.You don't know the circumstances of my relationship not married. I do love her and will never leave. Should i bullshit and say i'm single? I don't want to get emotionally involved and don't want to hurt anyone especially the ones I love.
Should i stick to my right hand and box of tissue? "That is a decision that only you can make. Welcome aboard but please don't ask others to take the responsibility of making the decision for you. If you are going to do it have the backbone to stand by it. Good luck | |||
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"Personally I have more "respect" for married people who just get on with it. Justifying being on here by blaming their spouse is pretty poor form in my _iew. Then again, as least they're consistent!
I don't want to justify myself to you.You don't know the circumstances of my relationship not married. I do love her and will never leave. Should i bullshit and say i'm single? I don't want to get emotionally involved and don't want to hurt anyone especially the ones I love.
Should i stick to my right hand and box of tissue? "No one should have to justify why they are on here. We all have different reasons for doing what we do and its not anyone's business. Everyone has choices and personal preferences and I'm sure married/attached people don't take the decision to come on here lightly. I never met married/attached men so as long as people are upfront about it then that's fine. You may find your personal situation goes against you (as you have probably worked out) but there are many people who are not worried about it. Best of luck. | |||
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"The guy's being honest, give him a break." Not sure if i should have been now inevitably someone going to say " he's not being honest to his missus" Cheers anyway | |||
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"Personally I have more "respect" for married people who just get on with it. Justifying being on here by blaming their spouse is pretty poor form in my _iew. Then again, as least they're consistent!
I don't want to justify myself to you.You don't know the circumstances of my relationship not married. I do love her and will never leave. Should i bullshit and say i'm single? I don't want to get emotionally involved and don't want to hurt anyone especially the ones I love.
Should i stick to my right hand and box of tissue? "why bullshit? You'll get caught out eventually anyway how can you say you don't want to hurt anyone but yet you're on here and wanting to meet women for sex??!! That's hurting the ones you love! Yes you should stick to your hand and a box of tissues  | |||
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"Your circumstances your life your business. There are plenty who will judge you, they'll throw the cheat label at you but in reality they know nothing about you and are in no position to judge even though they will do that without hesitation. You do what's right for you and your conscience there are plenty of open minded non judgemental folk on here too. " This!  | |||
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"Personally I have more "respect" for married people who just get on with it. Justifying being on here by blaming their spouse is pretty poor form in my _iew. Then again, as least they're consistent!
I don't want to justify myself to you.You don't know the circumstances of my relationship not married. I do love her and will never leave. Should i bullshit and say i'm single? I don't want to get emotionally involved and don't want to hurt anyone especially the ones I love.
Should i stick to my right hand and box of tissue? "So on this thread you "love her and will never leave", but your profile says that you are staying for your son. If you are going to lie at least be consistent.
As for whether you are on the right site, maybe, maybe not. But it's not easy for single men on here and being married creates two considerable hurdles Firstly a huge percentage of the site will dismiss you on a purely moral stance - who wants an angry wife at the door. And secondly even for those that don't the fact that your married, the fact that your availability to meet is limited makes you far less appealing on a logistical basis - single men are much more flexible and don't have to clock watch.
that said if you think that this site is an easy source of sex then you probably are on the wrong site. | |||
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"Personally I have more "respect" for married people who just get on with it. Justifying being on here by blaming their spouse is pretty poor form in my _iew. Then again, as least they're consistent!
I don't want to justify myself to you.You don't know the circumstances of my relationship not married. I do love her and will never leave. Should i bullshit and say i'm single? I don't want to get emotionally involved and don't want to hurt anyone especially the ones I love.
Should i stick to my right hand and box of tissue?
So on this thread you "love her and will never leave", but your profile says that you are staying for your son. If you are going to lie at least be consistent.
As for whether you are on the right site, maybe, maybe not. But it's not easy for single men on here and being married creates two considerable hurdles Firstly a huge percentage of the site will dismiss you on a purely moral stance - who wants an angry wife at the door. And secondly even for those that don't the fact that your married, the fact that your availability to meet is limited makes you far less appealing on a logistical basis - single men are much more flexible and don't have to clock watch.
that said if you think that this site is an easy source of sex then you probably are on the wrong site."Ha ha ha!! You seem to have all the answers!! | |||
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"Personally I have more "respect" for married people who just get on with it. Justifying being on here by blaming their spouse is pretty poor form in my _iew. Then again, as least they're consistent!
I don't want to justify myself to you.You don't know the circumstances of my relationship not married. I do love her and will never leave. Should i bullshit and say i'm single? I don't want to get emotionally involved and don't want to hurt anyone especially the ones I love.
Should i stick to my right hand and box of tissue?
So on this thread you "love her and will never leave", but your profile says that you are staying for your son. If you are going to lie at least be consistent.
As for whether you are on the right site, maybe, maybe not. But it's not easy for single men on here and being married creates two considerable hurdles Firstly a huge percentage of the site will dismiss you on a purely moral stance - who wants an angry wife at the door. And secondly even for those that don't the fact that your married, the fact that your availability to meet is limited makes you far less appealing on a logistical basis - single men are much more flexible and don't have to clock watch.
that said if you think that this site is an easy source of sex then you probably are on the wrong site.
Ha ha ha!! You seem to have all the answers!! "Why "ha ha ha"? | |||
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"Personally I have more "respect" for married people who just get on with it. Justifying being on here by blaming their spouse is pretty poor form in my _iew. Then again, as least they're consistent!
I don't want to justify myself to you.You don't know the circumstances of my relationship not married. I do love her and will never leave. Should i bullshit and say i'm single? I don't want to get emotionally involved and don't want to hurt anyone especially the ones I love.
Should i stick to my right hand and box of tissue?
So on this thread you "love her and will never leave", but your profile says that you are staying for your son. If you are going to lie at least be consistent.
As for whether you are on the right site, maybe, maybe not. But it's not easy for single men on here and being married creates two considerable hurdles Firstly a huge percentage of the site will dismiss you on a purely moral stance - who wants an angry wife at the door. And secondly even for those that don't the fact that your married, the fact that your availability to meet is limited makes you far less appealing on a logistical basis - single men are much more flexible and don't have to clock watch.
that said if you think that this site is an easy source of sex then you probably are on the wrong site."Excellent post... Saves me typing  | |||
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"Personally I have more "respect" for married people who just get on with it. Justifying being on here by blaming their spouse is pretty poor form in my _iew. Then again, as least they're consistent!
I don't want to justify myself to you.You don't know the circumstances of my relationship not married. I do love her and will never leave. Should i bullshit and say i'm single? I don't want to get emotionally involved and don't want to hurt anyone especially the ones I love.
Should i stick to my right hand and box of tissue?
So on this thread you "love her and will never leave", but your profile says that you are staying for your son. If you are going to lie at least be consistent.
As for whether you are on the right site, maybe, maybe not. But it's not easy for single men on here and being married creates two considerable hurdles Firstly a huge percentage of the site will dismiss you on a purely moral stance - who wants an angry wife at the door. And secondly even for those that don't the fact that your married, the fact that your availability to meet is limited makes you far less appealing on a logistical basis - single men are much more flexible and don't have to clock watch.
that said if you think that this site is an easy source of sex then you probably are on the wrong site.
Ha ha ha!! You seem to have all the answers!!
Why "ha ha ha"? "You seem to have worked a lot out about me from a few v.short lines of text | |||
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"Hire a hooker. " I have thought about it but would much rather meet with someone who wants the same as me Not someone who's there because im paying them | |||
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"Personally I have more "respect" for married people who just get on with it. Justifying being on here by blaming their spouse is pretty poor form in my _iew. Then again, as least they're consistent!
I don't want to justify myself to you.You don't know the circumstances of my relationship not married. I do love her and will never leave. Should i bullshit and say i'm single? I don't want to get emotionally involved and don't want to hurt anyone especially the ones I love.
Should i stick to my right hand and box of tissue? "My post wasn't gender specific or aimed at you. This is a site where people meet for sex. Meet! Get on with it. Why draw attention...aaah, looking for a pity shag: gotcha! | |||
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"Personally I have more "respect" for married people who just get on with it. Justifying being on here by blaming their spouse is pretty poor form in my _iew. Then again, as least they're consistent!
I don't want to justify myself to you.You don't know the circumstances of my relationship not married. I do love her and will never leave. Should i bullshit and say i'm single? I don't want to get emotionally involved and don't want to hurt anyone especially the ones I love.
Should i stick to my right hand and box of tissue?
That is a decision that only you can make.
Welcome aboard but please don't ask others to take the responsibility of making the decision for you.
If you are going to do it have the backbone to stand by it.
Good luck "My point! | |||
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"The guy's being honest, give him a break." Honest?!! To a bunch of strangers?!! If you say so! | |||
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"Hire a hooker.
But isn't that still cheating? "of course it is!! | |||
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"welcome to the site, you have your status on your profile, that allows for an informed choice to be made. your business, is your business. " | |||
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"The guy's being honest, give him a break. X "As far as we can see he is not being honest with the person he professes to love. So why would anyone think he is being honest on his profile or in this thread? | |||
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"OP Welcome to the site, yes I'm sure you'll find what you are looking for in here just watch out for the judgemental types. As long as you are honest about your situation people can choose if they want to get to know you or not. Hope you find what you are looking for." Totally agree. Just be honest always and you will find the right fun your looking for | |||
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"OP Welcome to the site, yes I'm sure you'll find what you are looking for in here just watch out for the judgemental types. As long as you are honest about your situation people can choose if they want to get to know you or not. Hope you find what you are looking for. Totally agree. Just be honest always and you will find the right fun your looking for" | |||
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