FabSwingers.com forum: new and nervous

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Helpppp..

im new to the whole scene and not sure how to take my first step..... in fairness i do have to fancy you if im going to have fun n frolics..and there has to be a connection...godddd i so want to go out n play but im soooo bloomin nervous and horny all in the same breath..So if any one can help with advice please message me.....oh and i adore massage n pampering.....im also bi selfish curious....i want to receive but im not giving..lol

By *haunMan
over a year ago

Halton

Hello and welcome to the site.

I am sure by now you have been inundated with many messages from men & couples.

Some good, some bad and some (unfortunately) downright rude.

For me, one of the first places to start if you can make it? is a club.

Yes, I know they can appear daunting..

But check out the club reviews for anything local and you will get a good idea how they look after the single ladies.

In fairness, I am sure all clubs go out of their way to look after single ladies (especially if you let them know it is your first visit)

And/or... see if one if running a social event.

Normally a great way just to meet like minded people (from Fab) in a more relaxed event.

Trust your instincts.

Verifications can give an indicator if someone is more active (could be seen as genuine) But any meet with someone new is always a unique experience and just as in life, you won't always click with the person.

Take your time, don't rush.

Use your block button freely if needed.

And enjoy.

xxx

By *ady_CuntaliciousWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I agree, Your best best to get into the swing of things is a party or club, that way you have the choice to meet someone there and chat and if you want to play you can.

And if you don't meet anyone its the experience of being in those situations that will give you more confidence to go to other events.

Good Luck x

By *ick and FlickCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

We have only tried clubs for the same reason. It's a good way to meet people with less pressure. We have used advice from here too. The first visit we sat in our bubble but the 2nd we talked more. It gets more relaxing each visit and the fun is good too

By *iscomanMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Hi all I am fairly new to fab.

Have yet to meet with anyone.

I think that my profile might be too honest as to why I am on here