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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had dis account for a while, never really used it till ni, but was expecting a bit more tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you expect more?

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

If you have not used it until recently, what were you expecting to happen. We are having a great time but regularly use the functions of the site e.g. Send messages, fab photos etc.

Improve your profile, put some effort in and you might start to enjoy it.

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By *utterflywingsWoman
over a year ago

Creswell Derbyshire

can someone de cypher

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Maybe if you made more of an effort.

Maybe fill in your profile a bit more, get some more photos. Sell yourself a bit more.

Text speak and 1 liners don't tend to get women wet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok i get improving my profile could help, but in what way like adding more pics is that all. Would b greatful for help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had dis account for a while, never really used it till ni, but was expecting a bit more tbh."
..A bit more what??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Llf i know but like i said im new to this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok i get improving my profile could help, but in what way like adding more pics is that all. Would b greatful for help"

Text typing is soooo off putting too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Like this, this is the most communication iv had from iv started using fab.

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By *utzzCouple
over a year ago

wrexham

Think he was expecting to come back to an inbox full of hotties saying pick me, pick me!

But life just ain't like that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you are so right... you seem to have put so much effort into attracting people...

I am surprised you are not reaping the benefits..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well mabey i was expecting a bit much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not exactly selling yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Honestley im looking a bit of help here mate, you obviously just wanna be a dick and make cocky comments, dont really need that i wasnt layn into anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well mabey i was expecting a bit much."

If this is the most interaction you have had maybe that is a sign to use the forums a bit more as a start.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah mate wasnt really puttin in the effort, starting to see the community here.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

sell yourself on your profile, what you seek, what you will bring to a meet and what makes you stand out from the rest of the guys on here.

there will be people for you on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First thing is get rid of the blurry cock pic and put a few better pics up of torso, arose etc, secondly write a profile selling yourself with what your all about, as your profile is we would just delete any message you sent s would many many others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First thing is get rid of the blurry cock pic and put a few better pics up of torso, arose etc, secondly write a profile selling yourself with what your all about, as your profile is we would just delete any message you sent s would many many others"

Arose should be arse

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers mate, starting to get the picture now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to everyone who got back to me you have all been a great help.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

You get one chance to make a first impression. If it's not good, you'll get nowhere.

Just like a lot of things in life, no effort = very disappointing results.

Expectation is the mother of disappointment.

Imagine applying for a job by writing, "I want dis job". Think you'd get an inter_iew?

Ok, this isn't a job site but the idea is the same. There are lots of people here, all looks looking for meets and the ones who've made the effort are more likely to be successful.

Look at your profile and imagine it was a woman's. One blurry photo of a part of her body, and a single line saying she's here for fun. Would you message her if there were a lot of better profiles to chose from?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah its been pointed out to me that i need to get my profile sorted, but thanks for the feedback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah its been pointed out to me that i need to get my profile sorted, but thanks for the feedback."

OP hide your profile for a while and take time to look and a read the profiles of other men on here who are successful. Take a few more pics but better quality ones and not just of your todger!

Joining in the Forums is a good way to get noticed though. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imagine applying for a job by writing, "I want dis job". Think you'd get an inter_iew?

Ok, this isn't a job site but the idea is the same. There are lots of people here, all looks looking for meets and the ones who've made the effort are more

likely to be successful. "

Exactly what we where going to say

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No point in being cheeky, iv updated my profile abit gonna change the pic aswell, all i was looking was help not attitude.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

looking better already

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, but some people said about the quality of my pic, i never got a cover for my phone and the camera is pretty scraped, yeah ill change the pic but the quality wont improve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks, but some people said about the quality of my pic, i never got a cover for my phone and the camera is pretty scraped, yeah ill change the pic but the quality wont improve"

Ok but try taking different ones, torso, back, bum

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah i will

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

face one if you can too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maby just for friends lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you expect anything in life, you usually don't get it.

Expect nothing, then everything you do get is a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you expect anything in life, you usually don't get it.

Expect nothing, then everything you do get is a bonus "

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

i would say if i went into my garden and flapped my arms , id have more chance of flying to the moon than you getting a meet on here with that profile as it is

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, didnt think this would've ended up being a self help forum but it really is helpful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

spellcheck.

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By *iceguy25Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

I love this site it can be hard work.sometimes but its worth it im getting a fair few meets and have made alot of naughty friends so must be doing something right lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had dis account for a while, never really used it till ni, but was expecting a bit more tbh."
no offence but if I was you id want a bit more . im only joking fella but you lined yourself up for that one

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