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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would like to meet someone to be with as a girlfriend, companion and to play with. iv had my fair share of meets but would be nice if I could just meet someone that would like to take is further. sad I know but true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think thats called fuckbuddies. If its not what you would call it maybe you would find it on a dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe rewire the first lime of your profile then?

"not looking for prolonged messages, just want to.have fun"

Does not really say "commitment" and makes.this thread look more like you're trying to blag a woman by dangling a relationship as bait, thinking it will Work

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe rewire the first lime of your profile then?

"not looking for prolonged messages, just want to.have fun"

Does not really say "commitment" and makes.this thread look more like you're trying to blag a woman by dangling a relationship as bait, thinking it will Work"

not trying to dangle anything but fair comment on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps a dating site would best fit your needs,as opposed to a swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps a dating site would best fit your needs,as opposed to a swingers site "

Given he's looking for a partner to potentially swing with and have a relationship with, it seems an ideal site.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land


"Perhaps a dating site would best fit your needs,as opposed to a swingers site "

I agree but many people use this site to look for a fwb/fb & that's their choice.

Update your profile and see what happens.

Personally Im sick of being asked if Im looking for one offs or regulars. I don't have a 'master game plan' if i meet someone, we get on, the sex is good; i might meet them again. I won't commit to anything in discussions before actual meeting but how the hell would i know?

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By *pplecrunchWoman
over a year ago

Yeovil

I feel the same because that way you can push boundaries more with some you can love and trust. You can not find this kind of partner on a dating site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps a dating site would best fit your needs,as opposed to a swingers site

I agree but many people use this site to look for a fwb/fb & that's their choice.

Update your profile and see what happens.

Personally Im sick of being asked if Im looking for one offs or regulars. I don't have a 'master game plan' if i meet someone, we get on, the sex is good; i might meet them again. I won't commit to anything in discussions before actual meeting but how the hell would i know?

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this is exactly what I meant. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel the same because that way you can push boundaries more with some you can love and trust. You can not find this kind of partner on a dating site. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps a dating site would best fit your needs,as opposed to a swingers site

Given he's looking for a partner to potentially swing with and have a relationship with, it seems an ideal site."

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I feel the same because that way you can push boundaries more with some you can love and trust. You can not find this kind of partner on a dating site. "

totally agree!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most fab relationships dont work some do to be honest your ether on here to get pumped not the wedding bells ringing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"most fab relationships dont work some do to be honest your ether on here to get pumped not the wedding bells ringing "

not strictly true. I am on here for that but would like it to maybe lead to more sometimes that all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be ideal to have regular fun sex always gets better that way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would be ideal to have regular fun sex always gets better that way x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would be ideal to have regular fun sex always gets better that way x"

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By *utterflywingsWoman
over a year ago

Creswell Derbyshire


"I think thats called fuckbuddies. If its not what you would call it maybe you would find it on a dating site"

I have found the same guys on so called normal dating sites that are on here.... and how do i know? Because i am on both kinds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree it would be nice too have a regular friend with benefits, as the sex does get better with time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would be ideal to have regular fun sex always gets better that way x"

Yes. Some men believe it or not agree with this

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I think thats called fuckbuddies. If its not what you would call it maybe you would find it on a dating site

I have found the same guys on so called normal dating sites that are on here.... and how do i know? Because i am on both kinds "

same here......just because you are looking for dating....does not mean you cant have fun til the right one comes along.....if they ever did...!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps a dating site would best fit your needs,as opposed to a swingers site

Given he's looking for a partner to potentially swing with and have a relationship with, it seems an ideal site. "

i did say perhaps

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"I have found the same guys on so called normal dating sites that are on here.... and how do i know? Because i am on both kinds "

Me too! Have giggled at some who I recognised who were trying to come across as Mr Puritanical tho hehe x

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By *bw48Woman
over a year ago

warrington


"I would like to meet someone to be with as a girlfriend, companion and to play with. iv had my fair share of meets but would be nice if I could just meet someone that would like to take is further. sad I know but true "
im the same n im on POF n that's just like bein on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps a dating site would best fit your needs,as opposed to a swingers site

Given he's looking for a partner to potentially swing with and have a relationship with, it seems an ideal site."

"So how did you two meet......."

Can't imagine being on a site like this to wanting to experiment and explore would end well relationship wise, but you never know I guess could be a slim chance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree it would be nice too have a regular friend with benefits, as the sex does get better with time. "

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By *oonshadowsCouple
over a year ago

Lytham St Annes


"Perhaps a dating site would best fit your needs,as opposed to a swingers site

Given he's looking for a partner to potentially swing with and have a relationship with, it seems an ideal site.

"So how did you two meet......."

Can't imagine being on a site like this to wanting to experiment and explore would end well relationship wise, but you never know I guess could be a slim chance"

Worked amazingly well for us and I can't imagine being in a relationship never mind married to anyone who didn't want to explore sexually.

I would say that I was single on here for four years before we met and the best thing is to get out, meet different people on here and just enjoy where each meeting leads or doesn't.

Oh and no one asks more once you say you met on the internet, far too commonplace these days lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe rewire the first lime of your profile then?

"not looking for prolonged messages, just want to.have fun"

Does not really say "commitment" and makes.this thread look more like you're trying to blag a woman by dangling a relationship as bait, thinking it will Work"

Are women that needy they need to be dangled things ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to meet someone to be with as a girlfriend, companion and to play with. iv had my fair share of meets but would be nice if I could just meet someone that would like to take is further. sad I know but true im the same n im on POF n that's just like bein on here x "

I meet my partner on pof and it's been 3 year and counting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think thats called fuckbuddies. If its not what you would call it maybe you would find it on a dating site

I have found the same guys on so called normal dating sites that are on here.... and how do i know? Because i am on both kinds "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would like to meet someone to be with as a girlfriend, companion and to play with. iv had my fair share of meets but would be nice if I could just meet someone that would like to take is further. sad I know but true im the same n im on POF n that's just like bein on here x

I meet my partner on pof and it's been 3 year and counting"

lucky guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to meet someone to be with as a girlfriend, companion and to play with. iv had my fair share of meets but would be nice if I could just meet someone that would like to take is further. sad I know but true im the same n im on POF n that's just like bein on here x

I meet my partner on pof and it's been 3 year and counting

lucky guy"

Lol lucky me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps a dating site would best fit your needs,as opposed to a swingers site

I agree but many people use this site to look for a fwb/fb & that's their choice.

Update your profile and see what happens.

Personally Im sick of being asked if Im looking for one offs or regulars. I don't have a 'master game plan' if i meet someone, we get on, the sex is good; i might meet them again. I won't commit to anything in discussions before actual meeting but how the hell would i know?

"

Exactly this why commit to a full on thing when you haven't even slept with them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met through this site at the beginning of last year. It was the first meet for us both (we'd both only just joined up) and we weren't actually looking for much more than fun together (and to push some boundaries).

We moved in together five months later and are now engaged. Quick? Maybe, but having lived quite a bit we both know exactly what we want out of life and are very happy together.

The point of my post is to let you know that it can happen but it can happen anywhere, anytime!

S xx

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By *aughtyladyYummymanCouple
over a year ago

In a place not far from Exeter


"I would like to meet someone to be with as a girlfriend, companion and to play with. iv had my fair share of meets but would be nice if I could just meet someone that would like to take is further. sad I know but true "

I would like that too and don't have a problem with admitting it to myself. It is admitting it to others that makes me nervous. Well done you for having the courage to say it. Good luck. I keep hoping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met through this site at the beginning of last year. It was the first meet for us both (we'd both only just joined up) and we weren't actually looking for much more than fun together (and to push some boundaries).

We moved in together five months later and are now engaged. Quick? Maybe, but having lived quite a bit we both know exactly what we want out of life and are very happy together.

The point of my post is to let you know that it can happen but it can happen anywhere, anytime!

S xx"

Loads of couples on here met either on this site or something similar. Surely the best place to look for a swinging partner is on a swinger's site.

Good luck OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel the same because that way you can push boundaries more with some you can love and trust. You can not find this kind of partner on a dating site. "

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By *bossMan
over a year ago

LONDON

Its wonderful reading how people have met long terms lovers and partners on this site.

I think one can use these, and other kinds of dating sites, however one sees fit. I met a wonderful chap 18 months ago on a swingers site, another one aver two years ago; neither of whom I would call partners, but that have both been long term significant people in my life.

If you want to use this kind of site to find someone long term, do it! If you want to use e-harmony to find a swinging partner, do it! Dont let anyone tell you you cant. I aim to simply be honest with myself and others while im doing 'it'

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"Would be ideal to have regular fun sex always gets better that way x

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"We met through this site at the beginning of last year. It was the first meet for us both (we'd both only just joined up) and we weren't actually looking for much more than fun together (and to push some boundaries).

We moved in together five months later and are now engaged. Quick? Maybe, but having lived quite a bit we both know exactly what we want out of life and are very happy together.

The point of my post is to let you know that it can happen but it can happen anywhere, anytime!

S xx

Loads of couples on here met either on this site or something similar. Surely the best place to look for a swinging partner is on a swinger's site.

Good luck OP. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel the same because that way you can push boundaries more with some you can love and trust. You can not find this kind of partner on a dating site. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel the same because that way you can push boundaries more with some you can love and trust. You can not find this kind of partner on a dating site.

This "

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By *urvy_J3Woman
over a year ago

Bradford

I started a relationship with someone I met on here we were only together 5months it was fantastic it didnt work for personal reasons on both of our parts but had nothing to do with how we met.

So I believe it can happen but maybe its rare

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By *urvy_J3Woman
over a year ago

Bradford

I have also done the dating sites and found that men are not honest they say the things that they think you want to hear "im looking to settle down have a relationship" where actually they date u till u have sex then they move on. Thats y I came off there and came on here as it is more honest and upfront about the whole sex thing

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I have also done the dating sites and found that men are not honest they say the things that they think you want to hear "im looking to settle down have a relationship" where actually they date u till u have sex then they move on. Thats y I came off there and came on here as it is more honest and upfront about the whole sex thing"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps a dating site would best fit your needs,as opposed to a swingers site "

Like me he may be on both, and quite a few people have hooked up on here so why not try it?

Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to meet someone to be with as a girlfriend, companion and to play with. iv had my fair share of meets but would be nice if I could just meet someone that would like to take is further. sad I know but true "

tried plenty of fish? E.g. a "dating" site rather than a swingers site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to meet someone to be with as a girlfriend, companion and to play with. iv had my fair share of meets but would be nice if I could just meet someone that would like to take is further. sad I know but true

tried plenty of fish? E.g. a "dating" site rather than a swingers site?"

People do meet on here you know!

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