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"I hope this will help you meet some great people. To all the single guys and anyone with a new profile take time to fill it in and put a bit in about yourself. When sending a message a) read there profile 1st to show this don't ask a question that is already in there profile, chose something about there profile and comment on it. It shows you have read it. B) include a pick. This will help I promiss. (try and smile). And c) you will have more luck if you have more than 12 words in it. Remember single guys there are a lot of you on here you need to make an effort and don't take offence by people not replieing some couples get a lot of messages and its not always practical to replie to them all stay polite and you never know thay might not be interested now but who know in a few weeks. Good luck and I hope this helps some of you A&R x "
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"I hope this will help you meet some great people. To all the single guys and anyone with a new profile take time to fill it in and put a bit in about yourself. When sending a message a) read there profile 1st to show this don't ask a question that is already in there profile, chose something about there profile and comment on it. It shows you have read it. B) include a pick. This will help I promiss. (try and smile). And c) you will have more luck if you have more than 12 words in it. Remember single guys there are a lot of you on here you need to make an effort and don't take offence by people not replieing some couples get a lot of messages and its not always practical to replie to them all stay polite and you never know thay might not be interested now but who know in a few weeks. Good luck and I hope this helps some of you A&R x "
Can i add, don't email people that say they're not interested in meeting single men,yes we get emails from guys saying read your profile and know you don't meet single guys BUT I've got a 9inch cock/im amazing with my hands/need a Fuck/im free now and was wondering if you'd like to meet me,it doesn't work.
if they ever change their minds you won't be on the top of their list to meet, simply as you have already provided evidence you don't listen or respect others wishes.
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"True to that but couples could be bit more polite x "sorry but when you're got 10-15-20 single guys an hour harassing you,its a bit time consuming to write a long reply. A simple "please read the profile" doesn't always work,in my experience. If couples delete messages and don't reply single men moan about it,if we reply say please read the profile i get cocky responses. To quote one reply we got today "why should i. Im too busy to read profiles" he got blocked. Another reply "f*** that,profiles are full of s***,all you girls need is a real man to give you a seeing too" he's also blocked. Another reply "yeah but I've got a lovely 9inch thick cock,Wana ride it?" blocked again. | |||
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"True to that but couples could be bit more polite x ". Your right but you try and repliy to 30+ messages a day some times more. Most couples I know on here try to be polite but as I said there are so meny single guys to chose from it some times hard to stay polite to them all. Especially those who send crappy messages or can't be botherd with there profile as we see it if thay can't be botherd to make an effort to stand our why would thay make an effort to meet.  | |||
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"True to that but couples could be bit more polite x
sorry but when you're got 10-15-20 single guys an hour harassing you,its a bit time consuming to write a long reply. A simple "please read the profile" doesn't always work,in my experience.
If couples delete messages and don't reply single men moan about it,if we reply say please read the profile i get cocky responses.
To quote one reply we got today "why should i. Im too busy to readb profiles" he got blocked.
Another reply "f*** that,profiles are full of s***,all you girls need is a real man to give you a seeing too" he's also blocked.
Another reply "yeah but I've got a lovely 9inch thick cock,Wana ride it?" blocked again.
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"This is NOT to slag off single guys this was a attempt to help you guys get more meets as I think a lot of good guys get looked over. X" exactly,unfortunately you try and help people and they take it as you attacking them. We've made friends with some really nice single guys,they know we're not planning on meeting single men but we chat and have a laugh with them. But when you get cocky replies from 98% of the single guys that contact you then, unfortunately you're always going to be on the defensive. Lets see if anyone listens to us lol | |||
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"I just don't see the point of speaking to a couple who I will never meet ? ". Well don't get upset if thay are rude or don't replie then! Move on. | |||
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"I just don't see the point of speaking to a couple who I will never meet ? "Who says we won't play with them?? We're not planning on meeting single men doesn't mean that won't change. And who are we more likely to meet with? Someone Thats taken the time to chat get to know us or some random idiot that thinks he's gods gift? its called being sociable,friendly. Would you just turn up to a club and expect someone to say Oi you Fuck me now? Lol no you'd chat have a laugh find out information,what their into etc. They also sometimes come along to a club with us,some are nervous about going alone and we may meet up with our other friends single girls couples that may play with single guys. | |||
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"I feel the need to add - D. Proof read your message for spelling and grammatical errors before sending it." . Good shout but not all of us have particuly good spelling or gramer skills this dose not stop me running my own company. But you should at least read it befor you send to check it makes sence. X | |||
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"I feel the need to add - D. Proof read your message for spelling and grammatical errors before sending it." and E. text talk. Please no,take the time to hit a few extra keys | |||
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"I just don't see the point of speaking to a couple who I will never meet ?
Who says we won't play with them??
We're not planning on meeting single men doesn't mean that won't change. And who are we more likely to meet with? Someone Thats taken the time to chat get to know us or some random idiot that thinks he's gods gift?
its called being sociable,friendly.
Would you just turn up to a club and expect someone to say Oi you Fuck me now? Lol no you'd chat have a laugh find out information,what their into etc.
They also sometimes come along to a club with us,some are nervous about going alone and we may meet up with our other friends single girls couples that may play with single guys.
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"I think he's getting it! X" I think you're right lol Hopefully more than one will listen. Doubt it but we can live in hope lol | |||
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"I think he's getting it! X I think you're right lol Hopefully more than one will listen. Doubt it but we can live in hope lol " well if we can save a few of them it will make it a better place for the rest of us.  | |||
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"I think he's getting it! X I think you're right lol Hopefully more than one will listen. Doubt it but we can live in hope lol well if we can save a few of them it will make it a better place for the rest of us. "exactly and more chances of meeting couples and single girls for them | |||
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"I feel the need to add - D. Proof read your message for spelling and grammatical errors before sending it.. Good shout but not all of us have particuly good spelling or gramer skills this dose not stop me running my own company. But you should at least read it befor you send to check it makes sence. X" Spellcheck? | |||
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"True to that but couples could be bit more polite x
sorry but when you're got 10-15-20 single guys an hour harassing you,its a bit time consuming to write a long reply. A simple "please read the profile" doesn't always work,in my experience.
If couples delete messages and don't reply single men moan about it,if we reply say please read the profile i get cocky responses.
To quote one reply we got today "why should i. Im too busy to read profiles" he got blocked.
Another reply "f*** that,profiles are full of s***,all you girls need is a real man to give you a seeing too" he's also blocked.
Another reply "yeah but I've got a lovely 9inch thick cock,Wana ride it?" blocked again.
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"This is NOT to slag off single guys this was a attempt to help you guys get more meets as I think a lot of good guys get looked over. X" and for those who have tried all of the above before with no luck? ... though I will admit it's nice to see someone providing useful tips like this as opposed to the usual Single men bashing | |||
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"This is NOT to slag off single guys this was a attempt to help you guys get more meets as I think a lot of good guys get looked over. X and for those who have tried all of the above before with no luck? ... though I will admit it's nice to see someone providing useful tips like this as opposed to the usual Single men bashing" | |||
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"There's to many men think it's there right to get some action from the 1st message, which in return gives the nice genuine men a bad rep, so no 1 gets to prove there ok." . This was why I started this thread x. | |||
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"This is NOT to slag off single guys this was a attempt to help you guys get more meets as I think a lot of good guys get looked over. X and for those who have tried all of the above before with no luck? ... though I will admit it's nice to see someone providing useful tips like this as opposed to the usual Single men bashing "to answer your question,you've not done one or more of the above mentioned. Or simply not listened to what the people are saying to you in messages. Doing as people have suggested won't guarantee you meets just make them more likely. It takes time, not everyone's into turn up Fuck leave. Some like a "friendship" approach, single guys unfortunately need to prove their not idiots coz a handful have screwed things up. We've had single guys seem very keen to meeting up (when we were looking for single guys that is), set the time,place etc and they simply don't show. We'd rather stick to the ones we're friends with or that are recommend/met via friends simply as we know their genuine. I (R) hate being treated like an unpaid hooker & that's how a lot of single guys approach us. | |||
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"There's to many men think it's there right to get some action from the 1st message, which in return gives the nice genuine men a bad rep, so no 1 gets to prove there ok." | |||
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"I feel the need to add - D. Proof read your message for spelling and grammatical errors before sending it.. Good shout but not all of us have particuly good spelling or gramer skills this dose not stop me running my own company. But you should at least read it befor you send to check it makes sence. X Spellcheck?" | |||
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"I hope this will help you meet some great people. To all the single guys and anyone with a new profile take time to fill it in and put a bit in about yourself. When sending a message a) read there profile 1st to show this don't ask a question that is already in there profile, chose something about there profile and comment on it. It shows you have read it. B) include a pick. This will help I promiss. (try and smile). And c) you will have more luck if you have more than 12 words in it. Remember single guys there are a lot of you on here you need to make an effort and don't take offence by people not replieing some couples get a lot of messages and its not always practical to replie to them all stay polite and you never know thay might not be interested now but who know in a few weeks. Good luck and I hope this helps some of you A&R x "And some advice for couples, include a pic of both people, not just the woman or man, or how do we know you are in fact a couple. | |||
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"I hope this will help you meet some great people. To all the single guys and anyone with a new profile take time to fill it in and put a bit in about yourself. When sending a message a) read there profile 1st to show this don't ask a question that is already in there profile, chose something about there profile and comment on it. It shows you have read it. B) include a pick. This will help I promiss. (try and smile). And c) you will have more luck if you have more than 12 words in it. Remember single guys there are a lot of you on here you need to make an effort and don't take offence by people not replieing some couples get a lot of messages and its not always practical to replie to them all stay polite and you never know thay might not be interested now but who know in a few weeks. Good luck and I hope this helps some of you A&R x
And some advice for couples, include a pic of both people, not just the woman or man, or how do we know you are in fact a couple."good point | |||
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"I hope this will help you meet some great people. To all the single guys and anyone with a new profile take time to fill it in and put a bit in about yourself. When sending a message a) read there profile 1st to show this don't ask a question that is already in there profile, chose something about there profile and comment on it. It shows you have read it. B) include a pick. This will help I promiss. (try and smile). And c) you will have more luck if you have more than 12 words in it. Remember single guys there are a lot of you on here you need to make an effort and don't take offence by people not replieing some couples get a lot of messages and its not always practical to replie to them all stay polite and you never know thay might not be interested now but who know in a few weeks. Good luck and I hope this helps some of you A&R x
And some advice for couples, include a pic of both people, not just the woman or man, or how do we know you are in fact a couple."thinking about it, just coz you have a photo together doesn't prove your a couple. Just been together at the same place at the same time. I've got photos of me and my mates husbands,does that prove im in a relationship with them? This kinda thing is about trust as much as anything else. And Thats something everyone has to earn,its not an automatic right. | |||
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"I hope this will help you meet some great people. To all the single guys and anyone with a new profile take time to fill it in and put a bit in about yourself. When sending a message a) read there profile 1st to show this don't ask a question that is already in there profile, chose something about there profile and comment on it. It shows you have read it. B) include a pick. This will help I promiss. (try and smile). And c) you will have more luck if you have more than 12 words in it. Remember single guys there are a lot of you on here you need to make an effort and don't take offence by people not replieing some couples get a lot of messages and its not always practical to replie to them all stay polite and you never know thay might not be interested now but who know in a few weeks. Good luck and I hope this helps some of you A&R x
And some advice for couples, include a pic of both people, not just the woman or man, or how do we know you are in fact a couple.
thinking about it, just coz you have a photo together doesn't prove your a couple. Just been together at the same place at the same time. I've got photos of me and my mates husbands,does that prove im in a relationship with them?
This kinda thing is about trust as much as anything else. And Thats something everyone has to earn,its not an automatic right. "This is why being verified is more important. X | |||
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"PS...it isn't just single men who don't read profiles. "completely agree,the amount of couples that don't read profiles is stupid and then they sit there a bitch about single men. Its not fair on them, everyone is always slagging single guys off but the ones we're friends with are lovely. A few bad eggs spoil it for everyone. | |||
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"I hope this will help you meet some great people. To all the single guys and anyone with a new profile take time to fill it in and put a bit in about yourself. When sending a message a) read there profile 1st to show this don't ask a question that is already in there profile, chose something about there profile and comment on it. It shows you have read it. B) include a pick. This will help I promiss. (try and smile). And c) you will have more luck if you have more than 12 words in it. Remember single guys there are a lot of you on here you need to make an effort and don't take offence by people not replieing some couples get a lot of messages and its not always practical to replie to them all stay polite and you never know thay might not be interested now but who know in a few weeks. Good luck and I hope this helps some of you A&R x
And some advice for couples, include a pic of both people, not just the woman or man, or how do we know you are in fact a couple.
thinking about it, just coz you have a photo together doesn't prove your a couple. Just been together at the same place at the same time. I've got photos of me and my mates husbands,does that prove im in a relationship with them?
This kinda thing is about trust as much as anything else. And Thats something everyone has to earn,its not an automatic right.
This is why being verified is more important. X " | |||
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"When posting to a couple do you address them as a couple ... When me and a fuck buddy had a couples profile we would get men messaging like a dog with two dicks and they seem to forget there was 2 of us and to get action they needed approval off both
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