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By *iam12345123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

ther does not seem to be any people that actually want to meet .they just say they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we met someone this afternoon! then went to a club and met lots more people who also met other people!

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By *isalikesitWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

Or they are all too busy meeting other people to meet you! Your profile isn't really inspiring, so perhaps you need to work on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has it occurred to you that you're just not what some people are looking for? You can maximise your chances by making sure your profile sells yourself and is well written. Also make sure you read profiles before sending a message tailored for the person In question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ther does not seem to be any people that actually want to meet .they just say they do "

you aren't going to make any friends like this. These sites are meat markets and single guys are the meat. You have to be verified (try socials). Have a face and body pic visible and show people resect (which your tone here makes me doubt).

Mike

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Aww you thought people were going to be throwing sex at you didn't you

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By *rencherMan
over a year ago

Derby


"Aww you thought people were going to be throwing sex at you didn't you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aww you thought people were going to be throwing sex at you didn't you "

I did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find myself turning peeps down because I'm to lazy to drive more than an hour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blah blah blah and blah!!get a grip and a life!! How many folk gonna post this up!!problem is your best just ignoring them!! Rather than giving them air time so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet when circumstances allow xx

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By *ntitledMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Or they are all too busy meeting other people to meet you! Your profile isn't really inspiring, so perhaps you need to work on that."
. cutting...but funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ther does not seem to be any people that actually want to meet .they just say they do "

We know plenty of people that want to meet. You are talking to the wrong people. Or doing something wrong. Or both.

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By *ntitledMan
over a year ago

Widnes

Today i will mostly be replying in lines from songs!!! ....arrrrrr ahhhhhhhhh...smack my bitch up!

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

Check veris I'm sure that will tell if people are meeting I know we do and I know the smal circle of people we meet all meet different people also. So on that note

It must be you that is not actually meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there does not seem to be any people that actually want to meet .they just say they do "
.....OK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ther does not seem to be any people that actually want to meet .they just say they do "

I had a meet this morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your all up your own asses really.... !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got to graft to get meets don't know why can people check me out on profile see where I am going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got to graft to get meets don't know why can people check me out on profile see where I am going wrong"

why are you so angry in your pictures, the one in the yellow top makes me think you're going to kick my head in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh and your bareback verification will make most people run a mile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your all up your own asses really.... !!"

I wish i Could, it would save a lot of effort and typing

Gary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After being on here a while now we noticed the decline in people actually meeting lol so now to save messing about and only meet at clubs or parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet and I'm quite real, last time I looked anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After being on here a while now we noticed the decline in people actually meeting lol so now to save messing about and only meet at clubs or parties."

Lets be Honest your profile doesnt leave much scope for meeting tho does it

Gary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's just you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's just you."

Give the fella a break...at the end of the day hes put a harmless question out there & been shot to pieces for it. Maybe losing the arrogance should be top of your 2014 list love!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you put a Question out there you have to Expect answers, Some may not agree but thats the Nature of the Forum Beast

Gary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you put a Question out there you have to Expect answers, Some may not agree but thats the Nature of the Forum Beast

Gary"

Agree Gary but killing the guy helps nobody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh and your bareback verification will make most people run a mile."

Many miles and very fast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A smart intelligent soul, going bareback

Nette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got to graft to get meets don't know why can people check me out on profile see where I am going wrong"

Pics do look a bit angry but there is one that is quite nice. The close up. Maybe get some where you smile a bit more

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Nope, we don't meet, and all our veries are faked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's just you.

Give the fella a break...at the end of the day hes put a harmless question out there & been shot to pieces for it. Maybe losing the arrogance should be top of your 2014 list love!!!"

Why pick on her? Others have intimated similar?

The two guys moaning in this thread are very young. That may go against them.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands


"Aww you thought people were going to be throwing sex at you didn't you "

They do

To the op. Anything worth having or doing is worth some effort in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aww you thought people were going to be throwing sex at you didn't you

They do

To the op. Anything worth having or doing is worth some effort in "

So true, the only thing in his profile is a moan, so that sets him up tobe a constant moaner about every thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aww you thought people were going to be throwing sex at you didn't you

They do

To the op. Anything worth having or doing is worth some effort in

So true, the only thing in his profile is a moan, so that sets him up tobe a constant moaner about every thing "

When women moan, men love it. Or is it just me, accompanied by screaming "fuck me harder" and thrashing around the bed?

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By *exyfuntimes2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin/Carlow

Love reading these "does anyone meet" posts, so entertaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aww you thought people were going to be throwing sex at you didn't you

They do

To the op. Anything worth having or doing is worth some effort in

So true, the only thing in his profile is a moan, so that sets him up tobe a constant moaner about every thing

When women moan, men love it. Or is it just me, accompanied by screaming "fuck me harder" and thrashing around the bed?

"

Mmmmmmm yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aww you thought people were going to be throwing sex at you didn't you

They do

To the op. Anything worth having or doing is worth some effort in

So true, the only thing in his profile is a moan, so that sets him up tobe a constant moaner about every thing

When women moan, men love it. Or is it just me, accompanied by screaming "fuck me harder" and thrashing around the bed?

Mmmmmmm yes please "

If you insist

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"ther does not seem to be any people that actually want to meet .they just say they do "

I Guess based on your experience nope they don t, based on others experience yep they do, the million dollar question is what are they doing different to you,?

For sixty four thousand pounds I ll give you the answer,,;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ther does not seem to be any people that actually want to meet .they just say they do

I Guess based on your experience nope they don t, based on others experience yep they do, the million dollar question is what are they doing different to you,?

For sixty four thousand pounds I ll give you the answer,,;-)"

I will do it for £63k

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By *orseydaveMan
over a year ago

Norwich NR5

There are hundreds of people who want to meet, but also they have alot of choice who they meet.

Don't make the mistake of thinking just cos you spent 5 minutes joining that women are going to be dragging their knickers off to meet you.

YOU have to make an effort, YOU have to learn to be respectful and patient YOU have to 'sell' yourself, cos believe you me, their are hundreds of guys better looking than you, more polite than you, bigger cock than you and an alround better person than you.

make the effort, dont be pushy, be respectful and you just might have some fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always meet people , just not you this post backfired for you didnt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are hundreds of people who want to meet, but also they have alot of choice who they meet.

Don't make the mistake of thinking just cos you spent 5 minutes joining that women are going to be dragging their knickers off to meet you.

perfect response dave & prob what the guy was looking for!

YOU have to make an effort, YOU have to learn to be respectful and patient YOU have to 'sell' yourself, cos believe you me, their are hundreds of guys better looking than you, more polite than you, bigger cock than you and an alround better person than you.

make the effort, dont be pushy, be respectful and you just might have some fun "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's just you.

Give the fella a break...at the end of the day hes put a harmless question out there & been shot to pieces for it. Maybe losing the arrogance should be top of your 2014 list love!!!

Why pick on her? Others have intimated similar?

The two guys moaning in this thread are very young. That may go against them."

She cant attack him without some recourse surely!!?? She doesnt know the guy (nor do I I should add) so wheres her right or the others for that fact to dig him out for putting that out there?? A forum is for debate, not abuse & my age being 3 weeks of 30 is relevant because...!!??

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

I tried to quote & respond but my phone dislikes the rant . Its a public forum. Not a hand holding kindergarten.

Had the op bothered to have a quick peek at the other few (thousands) of 'help me Im not getting laid' threads. The same advice is repeated over & over & you know what over & over a few times more.

Each profile is unique.

If your profile isn't working for you. Take some time to improve it; be that forum thread research or check out profiles of active members; then..... You guessed it. Make an effort.

With a sense of humour these forums are much more fun

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Maybe it's just you.

Give the fella a break...at the end of the day hes put a harmless question out there & been shot to pieces for it. Maybe losing the arrogance should be top of your 2014 list love!!!"

But he didn't ask a question, he made a statement that was blatantly untrue.

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington

has meets often

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"ther does not seem to be any people that actually want to meet .they just say they do "

Got a lovely young lady at mine now ... just on a quick break while she check's her work email as she's on call.. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's just you.

Give the fella a break...at the end of the day hes put a harmless question out there & been shot to pieces for it. Maybe losing the arrogance should be top of your 2014 list love!!!

Why pick on her? Others have intimated similar?

The two guys moaning in this thread are very young. That may go against them.

She cant attack him without some recourse surely!!?? She doesnt know the guy (nor do I I should add) so wheres her right or the others for that fact to dig him out for putting that out there?? A forum is for debate, not abuse & my age being 3 weeks of 30 is relevant because...!!??"

She said maybe!

Your age is irrelevant as I wasn't talking about you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find myself turning peeps down because I'm to lazy to drive more than an hour."

10 minutes in a taxi is our max travelling distance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it did once lol now its parties and clubs only saying that we have been on fab for about 4 maybe 5 years now

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"ther does not seem to be any people that actually want to meet .they just say they do "
there are a lot of people on here who just like to talk about meeting, but many that do meet also.

just gotta be patient, and out the talkers, they do have a rite to be here aswell it seems its as much a social site as a swingers sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's just you."

So apparently this is me attacking the OP! Wow!! And I'm arrogant with it!! Some people just don't get it.......and never will!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - plenty of peeps meeting just check out the veris. The issue is they are not meeting you and starting a thread like this is not going to increase your chances! All the best and hope the New Year is a good one for you.

I am off to see the New Year in with a bang.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh and your bareback verification will make most people run a mile."

Why?

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By *andS66Couple
over a year ago

Derby


"ther does not seem to be any people that actually want to meet .they just say they do "

You've been here over a year, got no public pics, and a two line profile.... and you wonder why nobody wants to meet you? Jeez...

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I'm real! I want to meet just not you .. is that ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill meet you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh and your bareback verification will make most people run a mile.

Why?"

Because most swingers like to take their sexual health seriously.

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent


"ther does not seem to be any people that actually want to meet .they just say they do "

We will meet you but under our usual rules......

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"ther does not seem to be any people that actually want to meet .they just say they do "

I have a general rule...

if the rant is longer than the profile.... you bring it on yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ther does not seem to be any people that actually want to meet .they just say they do

I have a general rule...

if the rant is longer than the profile.... you bring it on yourself "

Funny and so true !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ther does not seem to be any people that actually want to meet .they just say they do

I have a general rule...

if the rant is longer than the profile.... you bring it on yourself "

Funny and so true !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liam: Some friendly advice. Most people warm towards friendly and outgoing types. You have friend only images. In reality people are not going to be interested in someone whos very short profile write up is just a negative statement.

You are taking a bit of a verbal kicking on this thread but it's self inflicted.

If you tried chatting someone up in the pub with this attitude I dare say you wouldn't be beating them off.with a shitty stick either.

Time to change your tactics......

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By *atty_mooMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

As a single guy it takes time and patience to meet! I also can't meet at a drop of a hat and don't expect anyone else to. I had my first meet on this site a few months ago and had been on here over a year. Just be nice, friendly, and non-pushy, and have your profile reflect the same. Once you get verified it helps a lot! I get a lot more responses now

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By *rencherMan
over a year ago

Derby


"As a single guy it takes time and patience to meet! I also can't meet at a drop of a hat and don't expect anyone else to. I had my first meet on this site a few months ago and had been on here over a year. Just be nice, friendly, and non-pushy, and have your profile reflect the same. Once you get verified it helps a lot! I get a lot more responses now "

Its nice to see someone being positive because they've got a meet instead of being negative because they can't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, happens to us girls all the time - had two guys this week tell me, sorry, i was out last night and met a lovely lady so i now don't want to meet you anymore even tho we had a meeting planned - for me that's as rude and timewasting as it gets!! And not good for the confidence either!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ther does not seem to be any people that actually want to meet .they just say they do "

sorry We only meet among aliens now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do hun but there are a few timwasters and its very frustrating xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ther does not seem to be any people that actually want to meet .they just say they do "

No public pics. Very brief and uninformative profile. You can't accommodate - not always true but interpreted by many as either married or living with parents.

Genuine observations. Make an effort with your profile or people will think you won't make an effort with them....

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh and your bareback verification will make most people run a mile.

Why?

Because most swingers like to take their sexual health seriously."

Exactly, so it shouldn't matter, you should treat each new partner as if they are hiv + then you are as careful as possible. Applaud their honesty. The only safe sex is no sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh and your bareback verification will make most people run a mile.

Why?

Because most swingers like to take their sexual health seriously.

Exactly, so it shouldn't matter, you should treat each new partner as if they are hiv + then you are as careful as possible. Applaud their honesty. The only safe sex is no sex."

so you always wear a condom for oral? and use dental damns when giving oral?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh and your bareback verification will make most people run a mile.

Why?

Because most swingers like to take their sexual health seriously.

Exactly, so it shouldn't matter, you should treat each new partner as if they are hiv + then you are as careful as possible. Applaud their honesty. The only safe sex is no sex.

so you always wear a condom for oral? and use dental damns when giving oral?"

Have you never had bareback sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anybody up for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Random

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we met someone this afternoon! then went to a club and met lots more people who also met other people! "

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By *easarMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

still patiently waiting for a ginuwine meet lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"still patiently waiting for a ginuwine meet lol.."

maybe writing a profile that's more than"waiting for a meet".

how do people know you're genuine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We definitely meet - we met each other on here! xx

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