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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi,not sure where I'm going wrong here,been polite and honest,but not getting anywhere.just deleted,anyone got any advice? I'm very new to all of this xx

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there

Six weeks is nothing and there's not much on your profile. That said, you've already got one veri so you must be doing something right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd agree. At that rate you'd have 8 or 9 meets in your first 12 months. I reckon thats pretty good going!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fair enough u are new..

u gotta at least beef up the profile a bit, definitely pics wise

remember as u cannot accom, questions will be asked

people rarely want to meet at their home if they have family

your looking for something regular...careful how u word it it might just backfire on u..they might assume ur going to become a constant pest etc if they meet u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its all uphill for single blokes, you have to stand out to get noticed, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just two things, being polite and honest wont get you far, women want thrusting bastards, most have a nice honest husband, there here for a bit of excitement! so they can keep their nice marriage going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding a fb is probably too big a goal x

Enjoy yourself & you'll be surprised when you find that person x

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Get your Cheque book out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its all uphill for single blokes, you have to stand out to get noticed, good luck"

Wise words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just two things, being polite and honest wont get you far, women want thrusting bastards, most have a nice honest husband, there here for a bit of excitement! so they can keep their nice marriage going "

I concur

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Hi,not sure where I'm going wrong here,been polite and honest,but not getting anywhere.just deleted,anyone got any advice? I'm very new to all of this xx"

You may not be doing anything wrong, its the way it is for all demographics on here that sent messages are often deleted without response, my suggestion concentrate on your inbox not your sent items,

only other advice I d offer is if your approach isn t working change it,

Have fun

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Okay, look at all the similar threads on the Forum pages and all will say the same.

You have only been on here by a few weeks; you are a mere beginner! If you thought it could be an "Instant-Fix" site, then jog on! It doesn't work that way.

You are competing with dozens, if not hundreds of other guys, so effectively, you have to "sell" yourself, and that means starting with your profile.

Have you actually looked at your profile and compared it to those of other guys in your region? Yours is one long, long, long, long sentence, with every word run into each other!

Tip! Read it out loud to yourself and see if you can reach the end before having to pause to take a breath of fresh air? So, split it down into sentences. Expand on it too, say what you are seeking.

You say you can't accommodate, but you have been honest enough to say why, so that is a positive step.

You need to be noticed, so try to get to socials or clubs in your region. Get onto the Forum pages too!

Achieving your goal takes perseverance, patience and even more patience! It does work in the end! Good luck!

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