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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I need help on adjusting my profile so that I can maybe get a meet I understand I am not everyones taste but I would like to get to meet people so any advice or critics are welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need help on adjusting my profile so that I can maybe get a meet I understand I am not everyones taste but I would like to get to meet people so any advice or critics are welcome."

Well as you've only been on here a week, my first bit of advice would be have patience!

Post here in the forums to get yourself known.

Use chat if you don't already, again another good way to get yourself known.

Have plenty of patience.

Take a look where your nearest socials are being held and get along to at least one of those.

Being one of may thousand single males, have patience.

One final thing, have plenty of patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As great as this site is, unfortunately you need to understand that the ratio of single guys to women and couples is immense therefore putting the ball firmly in their court as to having a huge amount of choice, so you really need to learn that lots of effort and you will recieve lots of rejection but this is the only way to arrange meets. Put some thought into your profile and messages and as already said get involved. Lots of guys come onto the site thinking that it's an easy way to have sex. It isn't it is easier to go to a pub and get chatting to girls there. Tenacity is the key and always be respectful even when told no.

Have a trawl through similar threads and you will understand what I am talking about. Keep at it you will get there but I wouldn't give up chastising the primate just yet.

Good Luck

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Read some of the prolific male posters profiles and then compare them to your own.

As to your photos, at least we know who you work for

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Bradford


"As great as this site is, unfortunately you need to understand that the ratio of single guys to women and couples is immense therefore putting the ball firmly in their court as to having a huge amount of choice, so you really need to learn that lots of effort and you will recieve lots of rejection but this is the only way to arrange meets. Put some thought into your profile and messages and as already said get involved. Lots of guys come onto the site thinking that it's an easy way to have sex. It isn't it is easier to go to a pub and get chatting to girls there. Tenacity is the key and always be respectful even when told no.

Have a trawl through similar threads and you will understand what I am talking about. Keep at it you will get there but I wouldn't give up chastising the primate just yet.

Good Luck "

Very well put, lots of guys seem to think that most women n couples will fuck anything but far from it.

From our point of view, make sure you read the profiles of the people whose attention you're trying to get, just because people have hot or sexy photos does not mean they're easy, so pitch your mail accordingly. Try not to be rude, crude or a 5 word sentence man but most folk don't want your life story either. Make it specific, polite without being fawning and easy to read.

Profile, have photos, no excuse not to nowadays. Leave nothing unanswered and as the guy above says, be patient.

And enjoy it all!!

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"I need help on adjusting my profile so that I can maybe get a meet I understand I am not everyones taste but I would like to get to meet people so any advice or critics are welcome."

One week !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for all your advice I will have to get round to putting some new pictures on. And I am sure there are lots of nice people on here and I will be patient. Ajd I will have a good think about re wording my profile. Thanks again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn bisexual

That usually works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rethink on those pics. They really aren't flattering at all, especially the one with the cig behind your ear.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I will keep that in mind thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can only work with what you have, great pics, clear words, just sit back and wait, when the girls see your cock, they will come running, like bees around honey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I quite like a fag and a can of 7 up! my perfect date.

Just dont send copy n paste messages to the masses. Try and read profiles and make sure you are sending to people looking for the same. It may take a while and dont start getting arsey with people that say No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how are u suppose to get varified as gen on here when nobody will give u the time of day? ?

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"how are u suppose to get varified as gen on here when nobody will give u the time of day? ? "

1 line profile, 9 pics of your cock, 1 of which is going in bare. Put some effort in, and you might get somewhere.

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