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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hiya, we new to the site. Have been on here for two weeks but we have had no interest. What are we doing wrong. We have pics on our profile. Any kind advice would be very much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We do have pics but they are only coming up when you click on our profile. How do I make them a profile pic. Followed your links and it's not working. Please help

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"We do have pics but they are only coming up when you click on our profile. How do I make them a profile pic. Followed your links and it's not working. Please help"

Sorry cant answer your question but having looked @ your profile, pic, boy oh boy are you going to be busyyyyyyyyy lol.x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Then why oh why has no one responded to us???

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Because you're only looking for single females and they are in high demand.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do we need to put up different photos?

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"Then why oh why has no one responded to us???"

Just read your profile ( only perved the pic last time lol ) as you are looking for a single female, bloody hard to find but sure you will have more luck than us oldies l8l.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You Both look very presntable. Should imagine you will get plenty of interest before long.

Have a look in " my account"

Then "manage and upload photos" at the top is a bit for public photo pic.

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"Do we need to put up different photos?"

No, you need to send really horny ones to us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well the reason we looking for females is that we have never done anything like this before and I would like to start of with something I feel safe and comfortable with x I'm really nervous about it, but really curious too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for the elusive single female, puts you right at the back of the queue. Look like a nice couple though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the only thing i could say is u have wrote much on ur profile......

ie if ur looking for a female to join u while hubby watches, or if its going to be a soft play 3sum, or full sex 3sum, safe sex ? toys ?

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"the only thing i could say is u have wrote much on ur profile......

ie if ur looking for a female to join u while hubby watches, or if its going to be a soft play 3sum, or full sex 3sum, safe sex ? toys ? "

There you go, straight from the horses mouth, or should that be unicorns mouth lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single females are in high demand on here that's why. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I can't put what we going to do yet as I have never done this before, maybe start with a bit of girl on girl action and see where that leads us. I want it to be a very chilled, relaxed and comfortable for everyone involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe look for a couple where it's only the fem that will play fem fem

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Hi,

and welcome to the mad playground.

Your profile text is a little thin and does not really say who you are, what you are looking for, want to try etc.... Having body pics of both of you will certainly make you more appealing.

I suggest attending socials near you, look into the Club/Meet or Meet/Events sections. It is the best way to make new acquaintances, get yourself known and maybe find what you want. I like your profile pic, very horny and enticing.

It is a shame you are so far away as although I only meet couples in clubs, I could have bent my own rule for you.

Take care and stay safe.

Bambi xx

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"Hi,

and welcome to the mad playground.

Your profile text is a little thin and does not really say who you are, what you are looking for, want to try etc.... Having body pics of both of you will certainly make you more appealing.

I suggest attending socials near you, look into the Club/Meet or Meet/Events sections. It is the best way to make new acquaintances, get yourself known and maybe find what you want. I like your profile pic, very horny and enticing.

It is a shame you are so far away as although I only meet couples in clubs, I could have bent my own rule for you.

Take care and stay safe.

Bambi xx"

Woop woop, we have seen the body pics, sorry not nice.............bloody lovely lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok we going to update our status but what do we say, a little bit nervous and as we have never done this before don't know what we like. That doesn't sound very appealing, help????

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"Ok we going to update our status but what do we say, a little bit nervous and as we have never done this before don't know what we like. That doesn't sound very appealing, help????"

Best thing to do is visit a club, you will be able to see what couples get up to and what turns you on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well Bambi we often up in Devon??

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"Well Bambi we often up in Devon?? "

Check your map, somerset is before devon lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi

And welcome to fab!!

You say your not sure what you would like to try, have you both discussed this between you?

Try not to rush into anything and take things at your pace...

As already mentioned maybe visit a club, it may give you both a clearer idea of what your seeking

Good luck

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

You ve been here a very short time, so welcome to the forums , you re seeking the smallest demographic on the site, I suspect that you will need to give a little more detail of what you can offer the Lady(s) ,, you may not know how far you d like to go sexually but expand on your personalities, its often said in advice to single guys would you respond to your profile,,?

Have fun,,,

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Well Bambi we often up in Devon??

Check your map, somerset is before devon lol. "

Dorset is nicer than somerset lol

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

It is very difficult to find a single girl to play with on here.

Much easier to go to a good club. It will mean traveling but our first playtime with a single girl was at the vanilla alternative in Bedfordshire.

There is no pressure to play and it's a great night out anyway. You get to meet people in the scene which is much better than chatting over a messaging system oh and it has an attached hotel that's reasonable rates. Shame we'd have happily shown you round we used to live 15 minutes away from you guys lol

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Well Bambi we often up in Devon?? "

I shall remember that and hotlist you right now xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a question here.. if Thumper is the female and your profile says your Bisexual, but if you have never done this before surely your bicurious?

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By *nythinggoes392Man
over a year ago

calderdale

Hello. I am a genuine single male looking for a genuine couple for a relationship. Wouldn't have thought it was too much to ask but it obviously is. No look so far. Not sure what to do. Any help gratefully received.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello. I am a genuine single male looking for a genuine couple for a relationship. Wouldn't have thought it was too much to ask but it obviously is. No look so far. Not sure what to do. Any help gratefully received. "

Why would a couple want a relatshionship with you?

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By *ndy_mandyCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

We started off slow but over the past few months we have had some great meets. Some very bad ones and we met our best friends through it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not that difficult guys if youre willing to spend the time.

You just need to raise your exposure and poke your heads over the ramparts..

It is like most things a numbers game, and by approaching, viewing being viewed by as many people as possible will encourage your chances.

Its boring statistics really...no magic seduction....

Try putting yourself on the meets list as often as possible, even when your not meeting.

Wink message viewas many profiles as possible.

Chat in the forums, cams etc.

Widen your circle...chatting with people doesnt mean you have to bed them...

And most importantly try to remember to have fun!!!! that is what its all supposed to be about in the end..

good luck guys...you'll be fine just bear with it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only couples I have ever played with are the ones that have a profile text that gives a feel of both people personalities and comes across that the experience will be enjoyable experience for all parties as opposed to me being the "toy" (couldn't think of a better word) to be used for their pleasure

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"Well Bambi we often up in Devon??

Check your map, somerset is before devon lol.

Dorset is nicer than somerset lol "

Bugger you might have us there ( or you can have us in somerset Bambi lol ))

Only way to settle it, is visit all 3 counties Now lol.

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"Hello. I am a genuine single male looking for a genuine couple for a relationship. Wouldn't have thought it was too much to ask but it obviously is. No look so far. Not sure what to do. Any help gratefully received.

Why would a couple want a relatshionship with you? "

Lol, just still lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP give up now and select a skinny brown scotsman from glasgow...we can go full on though

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Hello. I am a genuine single male looking for a genuine couple for a relationship. Wouldn't have thought it was too much to ask but it obviously is. No look so far. Not sure what to do. Any help gratefully received. "

Start your own thread for a start,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I hope he finds a lady to keep him company. I wish you good luck honey, at 61 it must have taken a lot to put yourself out there x

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Well Bambi we often up in Devon??

Check your map, somerset is before devon lol.

Dorset is nicer than somerset lol

Bugger you might have us there ( or you can have us in somerset Bambi lol ))

Only way to settle it, is visit all 3 counties Now lol. "

A 3some then!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would never treat anyone like a toy, I wouldn't like it done to me, so would never do that to someone else. Mutual respect, safe sex, lots of chemistry and teasing. I have changed my profile to bi curious.

I don't know what I can offer yet, but it will be lots of fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never treat anyone like a toy, I wouldn't like it done to me, so would never do that to someone else. Mutual respect, safe sex, lots of chemistry and teasing. I have changed my profile to bi curious.

I don't know what I can offer yet, but it will be lots of fun x"

Best meets ever are accompanied by giggles, even during the naughty bits, lol

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"Well Bambi we often up in Devon??

Check your map, somerset is before devon lol.

Dorset is nicer than somerset lol

Bugger you might have us there ( or you can have us in somerset Bambi lol ))

Only way to settle it, is visit all 3 counties Now lol.

A 3some then!! "

Omg, cant get that vision out of our heads lol.

Can we have it nowwwww pretty please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extend your search to include couples with bi females, where the men can watch and only take part when invited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hiya, we new to the site. Have been on here for two weeks but we have had no interest. What are we doing wrong. We have pics on our profile. Any kind advice would be very much appreciated"
nothing wrong with your profile although expect a wait if you are looking for a single fem as much rarer than single males (e.g. If you were looking for another couple you would prob have loads of attention). Nothing to do with fab but look up 'socials' in your area and get along to one, you will get to meet like minded people and there is strictly no play so no pressure xx

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