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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi please be honest with me what am I doing wrong? I've been on the site a few months now and chatted to a few member but never gone as far as a meet. Please take a look at my profile and give me a few ideas on improvements. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures would help for a start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Know how you feel mate, I've been on here months, had two meets, one social, other fun. Sent plenty of respectful messages but loads of women on this site don't want to know so called newbies even if you have verifications. I expect I'll be leaving this site in the very near future. Hope you have better luck than I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience patience and ..............yep, you guessed it. Patience, dial a shag this isn't. Check out the successful male profiles, they'll give you some good pointers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just hard to say positive, thanks for the comments,

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Firstly, the very first line of your profile is so negative I don't want to read any further. And secondly, you have no pics at all. Your profile is your shop window, it needs to tell people what you're selling.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Hi please be honest with me what am I doing wrong? I've been on the site a few months now and chatted to a few member but never gone as far as a meet. Please take a look at my profile and give me a few ideas on improvements. Thanks "
Negative start on profile, very off putting. No pictures even in private. It's irrelevant asking for ideas as it's your profile, if you can't get that together by yourself then you may not get meets.

Best of luck though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First line is a big turn off, so wouldn't read any further, also a picture says a thousand words, without one, very doubtful you will attract any fickle, shallow women. so maybe just a couple of ideas for you to consider x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys. Opening my eyes a bit xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi please be honest with me what am I doing wrong? I've been on the site a few months now and chatted to a few member but never gone as far as a meet. Please take a look at my profile and give me a few ideas on improvements. Thanks "

The first line of your profile was where i stopped reading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Know how you feel mate, I've been on here months, had two meets, one social, other fun. Sent plenty of respectful messages but loads of women on this site don't want to know so called newbies even if you have verifications. I expect I'll be leaving this site in the very near future. Hope you have better luck than I."

Two meets in two months is pretty good going, some guys wait up to 6 months before getting a meet so count yourself lucky

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've updated it abit, please let me know what you guys think? Xx

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton


"I've updated it abit, please let me know what you guys think? Xx "

Little question, did you read the profile back yourself?

Not easy to read, did you put it on word first and spell check it?

Still no pictures, and that will put lots of people off.

Do not have to have your face, torso, in as suit, classy shots.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks x

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

fabswingers starter kit

1. cock pics.

2. sky remote and or lynx can to veri size

3. dodgy back ground in the cock pic toilet seat, kids toys, family photo.

4. spell check your profile

5. you are now good to go the women will flock in if u follow this to the letter.

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"fabswingers starter kit

1. cock pics.

2. sky remote and or lynx can to veri size

3. dodgy back ground in the cock pic toilet seat, kids toys, family photo.

4. spell check your profile

5. you are now good to go the women will flock in if u follow this to the letter.

good luck

"

You're evil

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By *enandlisaCouple
over a year ago

Burnley'ish


"Hi please be honest with me what am I doing wrong? I've been on the site a few months now and chatted to a few member but never gone as far as a meet. Please take a look at my profile and give me a few ideas on improvements. Thanks "

A honest and open question to the OP.

What exactly did you expect from this site when you joined?

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"fabswingers starter kit

1. cock pics.

2. sky remote and or lynx can to veri size

3. dodgy back ground in the cock pic toilet seat, kids toys, family photo.

4. spell check your profile

5. you are now good to go the women will flock in if u follow this to the letter.

good luck

You're evil "
who moi

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Hi please be honest with me what am I doing wrong? I've been on the site a few months now and chatted to a few member but never gone as far as a meet. Please take a look at my profile and give me a few ideas on improvements. Thanks

A honest and open question to the OP.

What exactly did you expect from this site when you joined?

"
i suspect wall to wall pussy is what he thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi please be honest with me what am I doing wrong? I've been on the site a few months now and chatted to a few member but never gone as far as a meet. Please take a look at my profile and give me a few ideas on improvements. Thanks "

Hello mate, I noticed that the amount of people willing to meet me went up a lot once I got verified so that needs to be a priority for you...even if you just meet for a social.

Good luck!

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"Hi please be honest with me what am I doing wrong? I've been on the site a few months now and chatted to a few member but never gone as far as a meet. Please take a look at my profile and give me a few ideas on improvements. Thanks

Hello mate, I noticed that the amount of people willing to meet me went up a lot once I got verified so that needs to be a priority for you...even if you just meet for a social.

Good luck! "

That is excellent advice for anyone on here. That's why organised socials are so great for newbies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Know how you feel mate, I've been on here months, had two meets, one social, other fun. Sent plenty of respectful messages but loads of women on this site don't want to know so called newbies even if you have verifications. I expect I'll be leaving this site in the very near future. Hope you have better luck than I.

Two meets in two months is pretty good going, some guys wait up to 6 months before getting a meet so count yourself lucky "

I met with a guy who has waited a year for a meet. And his profile isn't that bad really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I met with a guy who has waited a year for a meet. And his profile isn't that bad really. "

I think I was on here for 4 or 5 months before having a meet and that was social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi please be honest with me what am I doing wrong? I've been on the site a few months now and chatted to a few member but never gone as far as a meet. Please take a look at my profile and give me a few ideas on improvements. Thanks "

Posting for help when you don't even have any pictures of yourself..... honestly, what do you expect others to be able to do for you when you don't help yourself..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is like a sweet shop for women, theres so much choice for women on here so without any pictures on public your just going to be passed by.

Also, you say you'd like to do a couple a favour and help them have a MMF.... I'd say the couples do the single guys the favour and ask them to join

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