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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not having as much luck as i would have expected on here (not that i was expecting lots, by any means) but was after some tips on my profile and first messages to people please?

I've read a few of the comments on the forums and think I've digested them (seems to be differing opinions on cock shots so I've left them off my profile) for instances.

Any way, any advice is received with great appreciation and i will endeavour to reciprocate. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've only been on 4 weeks, can take months to get a meet

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By *aramel_sundaeMan
over a year ago

London

Well the fastest way to get a meet is find out what clubs are local to you, and have FAB members attending. And then make an appearance. It may be daunting, but its says a lot about your courage and of course you'll get to make a few face to face connections.

Sitting and waiting for someone to agree to a meet online can take ages as there are soo many other guys in the same boat.

Hope that helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only here about 6 weeks and had 3 different meets get to know people first before you met. Ask them to met for a coffee and chat first see if you click. It's all about respect don't just ask for a met, in your first massage

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Get yourself along to eurekas! It's not far and single blokes are welcome. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i was on before it took me months to get a meet and that was social the men outnumber the women by 10 to 1just be patiant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've only been on 4 weeks, can take months to get a meet"
...Or years

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

The warning at the end of your profile is not necessary.

Make sure you read profiles and message only when you fit their criteria - not just cos they look hot!

If you've messaged before and not had a reply take it as a no and don't message them once a month, every month using the same cut and paste message.

Keep your first message polite and light - if you wouldn't say it sober to a woman you were attracted to in a bar in front of people then don't put it in your first message.

Have a face pic you can send, it doesn't have to be public or even in your private gallery.

If messaging a couple don't assume it will be the lady reading the messages, there are two of them so talk to both.

Don't assume a reply means they want sex chat, some do some will want to just arrange a meet and keep anything like that for in the flesh.

Be prepared to meet in a public place first - especially if it's a single female.

If you ask why you got turned down be prepared for some hone truths!

And if she looks too good to be true run an image check - there are some very hot people on here but there are also some who nick pics from the internet and some of the hot young women are really fat balding blokes getting off on the eager messages.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not having as much luck as i would have expected on here (not that i was expecting lots, by any means) but was after some tips on my profile and first messages to people please?

I've read a few of the comments on the forums and think I've digested them (seems to be differing opinions on cock shots so I've left them off my profile) for instances.

Any way, any advice is received with great appreciation and i will endeavour to reciprocate. Thanks."

Lots of patience lots of time and don't take a lack of reply's personally there is lots of competition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've only been on 4 weeks, can take months to get a meet"

Tell me about it lol it took me 5 months to get a meet on here haha but it will happen you just have to wait lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get yourself along to eurekas! It's not far and single blokes are welcome. X"
Being allowed in and welcomed are two different things ..the staff and management are downright rude unless your coupled

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Get yourself along to eurekas! It's not far and single blokes are welcome. XBeing allowed in and welcomed are two different things ..the staff and management are downright rude unless your coupled "

The single guys that were there when I went seemed happy and the ones I've spoken to go regular and are very welcome.

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Never been to Eureka so can't comment. Been to Pleasures many times in Wateringbury. Get there on a Friday. Always made welcome and no pressure. Never had a bad night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well the fastest way to get a meet is find out what clubs are local to you, and have FAB members attending. And then make an appearance. It may be daunting, but its says a lot about your courage and of course you'll get to make a few face to face connections.

Sitting and waiting for someone to agree to a meet online can take ages as there are soo many other guys in the same boat.

Hope that helps."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on here for months and only had a couple of meets. The two I have met have become good friends so that's good. I send respectful messages but I'm lucky if I get a reply. It does pee you off but just stick with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice and tips. But please continue, I'm an empty glass!

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