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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys i really want to try being bi and wondered if there was any couples that would like to show me the ropes? Or any suggestions as i have mailed a few couples but with no success thanks in advance chiron

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By *AC and LACCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Could be tempted in showing you the ropes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could be tempted in showing you the ropes "

was really looking to start with a mf but u never know i may change my mind soon so keep in touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure many Fabbers would be keen to have some "bi-curious" guy come along for a meet and stop halfway and say - "Sorry, bisex is not for me after all. Can I just screw your wife?"

Maybe you should go to a gay sauna and see if you can enjoy a cock first.

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By *iPeopleMan
over a year ago

London

Seems a bit harsh! Surely there are couples who are open to exploring a bit?

Nothing wrong with a gay sauna but tend not to find too much pussy there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems a bit harsh! Surely there are couples who are open to exploring a bit?

Nothing wrong with a gay sauna but tend not to find too much pussy there!"

except for the club cat...lol.

gotta keep the mice out somehow...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not sure many Fabbers would be keen to have some "bi-curious" guy come along for a meet and stop halfway and say - "Sorry, bisex is not for me after all. Can I just screw your wife?"

Maybe you should go to a gay sauna and see if you can enjoy a cock first."

Have to agree with this post , I'm not suggesting this is the case with the OP but many couples will see posts like this as a veiled attempt to get their hands on a female , what happens if you start and decide it's not for u , would u still expect to stay and have fun with the fem ?

Not many couples will want to be an experiment for someone who's not sure , especially when there are so many genuine no guys looking for fun . As per the previous reply we'd suggest maybe meeting a decent bi guy on his own and see how it feels , after all if you're bi then you're bi , whether it be with a single guy or couple ,

Good luck either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It always suprises me how narrowly we try to define people.

Personally, I don't get excited about playing with a cock. I'm not cock phobic, but I don't think.. ooh I really want a cock. NOW. But in the course of playing with a couple, I'm really quite happy to lick, suck (or fuck I suspect). The context is as important as the body part.

I am attracted to women, I am a lover of women, but especially when playing with couples, hands, mouths, fingers and body parts end up all over the place, don't they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It always suprises me how narrowly we try to define people.

Personally, I don't get excited about playing with a cock. I'm not cock phobic, but I don't think.. ooh I really want a cock. NOW. But in the course of playing with a couple, I'm really quite happy to lick, suck (or fuck I suspect). The context is as important as the body part.

I am attracted to women, I am a lover of women, but especially when playing with couples, hands, mouths, fingers and body parts end up all over the place, don't they?

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this is exactly what I'd like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It always suprises me how narrowly we try to define people.

Personally, I don't get excited about playing with a cock. I'm not cock phobic, but I don't think.. ooh I really want a cock. NOW. But in the course of playing with a couple, I'm really quite happy to lick, suck (or fuck I suspect). The context is as important as the body part.

I am attracted to women, I am a lover of women, but especially when playing with couples, hands, mouths, fingers and body parts end up all over the place, don't they?

"

Absolutely spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well there is no right answer to this. I would think most couples would be uncomfortable with this. However if your open and honest, meet for a coffee first etc, and maybe soft swing first and follow any rules they set, then I am sure you might find a couple willing to help out. So many bi guys are suck and go in ten minutes and to be honest you need to really meet a couple or guy that is willing to help and support you. We all started somewhere after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My idea of heaven is mmf fun, topped only by mmf fun where the guy is orally bi and the lady submissive! Given I am a single, middle aged man who cannot accommodate, I have been very, VERY lucky on Fab and have met some charming people. I am sure that at least some of this success is down to being confident and upfront about my sexuality as the bi element is often a determining factor in deciding to extend the initial invitation to me. This openness and security took a while to achieve and am doubtful whether the invitations would be so numerous if I was still testing the waters.

So whilst the sauna idea is a good one, my concern is that it may be a tad daunting for the uninitiated. My suggestion would be to meet 1:1 with a bi guy off Fab. From his point of view there is likely to be a bit of a kick out of introducing a hitherto straight guy to cock. From your point of view there are two benefits;

You will know if it is really for you and, assuming it is,

You will have established contact with someone who may well be best placed to introduce you to a couple who enjoys the company of bi men.

Verifications will follow and help your credibility for future meets and hopefully a virtuous cycle will hav started.

Good luck and happy swinging. I am sure you are on the right site to maximise your pleasure.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try going with a sexy trannie you will turn bisexual believe me xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're not adverse to showing the ropes. Whatever they're supposed to be. We just like to play and go as far as all those involved are comfortable. We'll be in Chams on the 10th and 11th of November so if you're there, say Hi and Perhaps we might have some fun. I'm letting Rich go on his own for the first time on the 28th of Oct if you want to meet up and try the bi fun with him first. . . . if you get on with each other. . Get it on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be tempted in showing you the ropes

was really looking to start with a mf but u never know i may change my mind soon so keep in touch "

mac and lac can you. Show me as I would Never turn down The chance of getting by two beauties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too! I already know them but practice makes perfect! I need a spitsroast too!

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By *icked kittyCouple
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Try Chameleons on a bi night as now you only have to be bi friendly. I know there is a Monday only male membership but am unsure as to waiting list or cost .You will come across plenty of bi action in all its combinations

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try Chameleons on a bi night as now you only have to be bi friendly. I know there is a Monday only male membership but am unsure as to waiting list or cost .You will come across plenty of bi action in all its combinations "

thanks i will do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to all that posted will defo give them all a go i now have had my first bi mf and will be defo trying more thanks chiron

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By *uthTVDerbysTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Could be tempted in showing you the ropes "

Can I just say I found the comment on your profile "THINK THIS IS THE ONLY SITE YOU PAY A £5 AND GET FUCKED WITHOUT EVER MEETING ANY ONE"

Very amusing indeed. And so accurate

Er. That's it. I'll make my own way out ....

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