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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi I'm Mark

As I am new here can I ask you all why is it so hard for a new guy like myself to get meets and then feed back to say that I am real ?. I've been here a few weeks now and when I start chatting and trying to make meets it go's wrong at the last moment . If you would like to know me could you have a look at my profile and come say hi

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Hi I'm Mark

As I am new here can I ask you all why is it so hard for a new guy like myself to get meets and then feed back to say that I am real ?. I've been here a few weeks now and when I start chatting and trying to make meets it go's wrong at the last moment . If you would like to know me could you have a look at my profile and come say hi "
In these situations it's always best to look at yourself and ask yourself why am I not getting any meets? Your approach maybe? Your profile? Your picture?

There are so many threads on this subject, read them and take the advice given.

At the end if the day it's your profile, if you can't put it together to attract others then there is little hope of meets. Honestly the picture is out of focus and the text is nothing out of the ordinary. That is just my opinion.

You have to do lots of work on here competing against the thousands of other single men. Get out to socials, join in the forums, and don't expect to sit back and the others come running to you.

Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Auburnred

Thank you very much for your reply and input . Thanks for the tips, it sounds like I need to take a step back and take a long look and see how I may be able to improve my profile but as a newbi when I filled it out I did not know what to really put as I hate talking about myself. Can you think of any points I could put into a new one ? . And I may need to change my photo then . Thanks for your help on this I will have anther go at it .

Mark

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Hi mark and welcome!

You not bring able to accommodate and not explaining why will automatically scream "married" which will put many people off.

Your public photo is a bit rubbish to be honest! Lol!

Have another look at your profile and sort out the spelling and grammar, which will make it much easier to read!

And lastly....have patience!

Good luck xx

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Hi Mark

Good advice given..make sure you act on it. Get yourself to socials or clubs...these are good ways of meeting people x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

frenchbambi

Many thanks to you as we'll for your input on this , it is welcome and a very big help . I will take anther look at the profile and address it , it may take a bit of time to get it right so that it pays off thanks

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

frenchbambi

Many thanks to you as we'll for your input on this , it is welcome and a very big help . I will take anther look at the profile and address it , it may take a bit of time to get it right so that it pays off thanks

xxx

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

try sending fancy a fuck as your message heading seems to work well, other than that, the other advise you have been given is worth taking on board

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow really

Fancy a fuck works ? Ok but I would have thought that was a bit to strong

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Wow really

Fancy a fuck works ? Ok but I would have thought that was a bit to strong "
oh yeah works 99% of the time for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow really

Fancy a fuck works ? Ok but I would have thought that was a bit to strong "
think the best advice is from the ladies rather than the fancy a fuck line....hes pulling yr leg. good luck

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Wow really

Fancy a fuck works ? Ok but I would have thought that was a bit to strong think the best advice is from the ladies rather than the fancy a fuck line....hes pulling yr leg. good luck"

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Wow really

Fancy a fuck works ? Ok but I would have thought that was a bit to strong oh yeah works 99% of the time for sure "

And I thought you Mr Yam123 were a nice young man...pfft...shame on you....shame shame shame...you deserve to be punished in a way you will not like!!

OP...do not believe his man's drivel...he knows not what he's saying...must the the magic mushrooms!

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Wow really

Fancy a fuck works ? Ok but I would have thought that was a bit to strong oh yeah works 99% of the time for sure

And I thought you Mr Yam123 were a nice young man...pfft...shame on you....shame shame shame...you deserve to be punished in a way you will not like!!

OP...do not believe his man's drivel...he knows not what he's saying...must the the magic mushrooms! "
lol i am a nice man!! punish me bambi i will pretend not to like it i promise

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Wow really

Fancy a fuck works ? Ok but I would have thought that was a bit to strong oh yeah works 99% of the time for sure

And I thought you Mr Yam123 were a nice young man...pfft...shame on you....shame shame shame...you deserve to be punished in a way you will not like!!

OP...do not believe his man's drivel...he knows not what he's saying...must the the magic mushrooms! lol i am a nice man!! punish me bambi i will pretend not to like it i promise "

See you at the Kent social

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for the good advice

Do the fancy a fuck is out then just need to readjust the profile then and see what happens , many thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guys I have done a new profile now . Would you take a look at it and let me know what you think . Many thanks

Mark

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