FabSwingers.com forum: first message

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Welcome to Fab Mike!

I think the best thing to do is to coordinate your profile with your messages, as both will be checked over, if there's potential for a meet.

Avoid too many cliches, and personalise your message, according to whoever you're messaging. Avoiding cliches in profiles is also worthwhile.

Your profile needs to have a good range of photos in it, preferably public, so that people can get a feel for how you physically look. Too many cock pics is usually a turn-off. No pics isn't likely to get someone very far at all.

Otherwise, if you're struggling for meets, consider engaging socially. Get to socials as well as swinging clubs, and meet others any way you can - often knowing others is a great way to get connected more widely.

Good luck!

By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"any advice on a first message to single females and couples to get there attention"
You have been on here 11 months and now you are asking for advice on sending the first message? You have had a meet, that message must have worked.

Read the many, many, many threads on the subject

Best of luck