FabSwingers.com forum: Nobody ever replies why?

By *te0090 OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I think I'm ok looking, polite, clean and tidy but I never seem to get any replies to my messages??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe put a bit more detail about what you like/don't like. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May be worth trying different pics

just my 2ps worth

one without kids toys in the background

best wishes

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By *te0090 OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Will do thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"May be worth trying different pics

just my 2ps worth

one without kids toys in the background

best wishes "

exactly .......... bleedin rocket science to some people is this

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

they dont want to maybe

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By *te0090 OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"May be worth trying different pics

just my 2ps worth

one without kids toys in the background

best wishes

exactly .......... bleedin rocket science to some people is this

I hadn't noticed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14 hours and still not sorted the pic issue..??? Why do I feel 'UNLOS' coming up....????

ted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will do thanks xx"

You said "will do" 14 hours ago and it's still there. Why do people ask for advice ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"14 hours and still not sorted the pic issue..??? Why do I feel 'UNLOS' coming up....????

ted."

lol just noticed the same !

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By *aula.ceciliaWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Yes,, cant accom, kids toys in background, and too many TVs in the friends list, no thanks

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By *te0090 OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"14 hours and still not sorted the pic issue..??? Why do I feel 'UNLOS' coming up....????

ted.

lol just noticed the same !"

I've changed photo I thought that was a better one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"14 hours and still not sorted the pic issue..??? Why do I feel 'UNLOS' coming up....????

ted.

lol just noticed the same !

I've changed photo I thought that was a better one

Your little avatar pic is SOO much better than the daggey builders pic with kids toys in the background - which also "could" mean you are with someone and have a child together..which "could" indicate you are cheating on them...

like meeting people for real - make the effort with your pics and your profile.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

oh dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because more often than not sending a polite reply to people youre not interested in isn't worth the hassle

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Your profile is pretty sparse.

You're only looking for FF couples and women, these are the smallest demographic on FAB and the most popular by miles, they get hundreds of messages a day.

You have a picture in a children's bedroom, sets the "hmm is he cheating" alarm bells going right away.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"they dont want to maybe

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over a year ago

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

My sons got that disney cars toybox and book shelf!

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By *te0090 OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"14 hours and still not sorted the pic issue..??? Why do I feel 'UNLOS' coming up....????

ted.

lol just noticed the same !

I've changed photo I thought that was a better one

like meeting people for real - make the effort with your pics and your profile.

Thanks glad the new photo is better I'm a full time dad my kids live with me but I get the point with the photos lol thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"14 hours and still not sorted the pic issue..??? Why do I feel 'UNLOS' coming up....????

ted.

lol just noticed the same !

I've changed photo I thought that was a better one

like meeting people for real - make the effort with your pics and your profile.

Thanks glad the new photo is better I'm a full time dad my kids live with me but I get the point with the photos lol thanks xx"

now get a more acceptable one of ur cock over the toilet

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

now get a more acceptable one of ur cock over the toilet"

Over the toilet, with sky remote with children's play things in the background.

can check all the boxes then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they dont want to maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have got tears in my eyes laughing about the picture

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By *te0090 OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

now get a more acceptable one of ur cock over the toilet

Over the toilet, with sky remote with children's play things in the background.

can check all the boxes then.

Lmao

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

OP your profile is rubbish.

Anyone who mails me .... I look at the profile before even opening the message. Honestly, I wouldn't even get to opening the mail if you contacted me.

In this thread alone there are 3 or 4 guys with good profiles.

Look at others who are successful and see whats different between their profiles and yours

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

Huddersfield, centralish

The pic with the toys is still on your profile which is what I think people are referring to

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By *te0090 OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"The pic with the toys is still on your profile which is what I think people are referring to "

Thought I'd took that off

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By *te0090 OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"OP your profile is rubbish.

Anyone who mails me .... I look at the profile before even opening the message. Honestly, I wouldn't even get to opening the mail if you contacted me.

In this thread alone there are 3 or 4 guys with good profiles.

Look at others who are successful and see whats different between their profiles and yours "

I'll start hunting tho men's profiles see what's missing lol

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

ive got that tool belt

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By *te0090 OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"ive got that tool belt

Fat max there the best

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Lol often men message me without taking note of my profile..If you arent what people want what is the point in taking time to reply.

I always check the senders profile before opening message If their age limit stops at 50 i dont even bother going further.

You have a pic up now with a women in (for me thats a nono). I manage to take pics of just me alone.. sure others can too. are you really 35 or just trying to appeal to a younger audience ?

good luck keep trying

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By *te0090 OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Lol often men message me without taking note of my profile..If you arent what people want what is the point in taking time to reply.

I always check the senders profile before opening message If their age limit stops at 50 i dont even bother going further.

You have a pic up now with a women in (for me thats a nono). I manage to take pics of just me alone.. sure others can too. are you really 35 or just trying to appeal to a younger audience ?

good luck keep trying

Lol yes I'm really 35 do I really look that much older?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am facing the same problem too. Am always nice and polite to others. And still don't get reply. Wonder why.

Any feedback on profile and help would be highly appreciated

... Thanks in advance.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

You have a pic up now with a women in (for me thats a nono). I manage to take pics of just me alone.. sure others can too. are you really 35 or just trying to appeal to a younger audience ?

good luck keep trying

Lol yes I'm really 35 do I really look that much older?

To me yes .. I would put you at 40 my son just had his 35 a month ago.. he has no lines on eyes or forhead.. hehe guess he inherited my genes

lol .. sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a pic up now with a women in (for me thats a nono). I manage to take pics of just me alone.. sure others can too. are you really 35 or just trying to appeal to a younger audience ?

good luck keep trying

pmsl

Lol yes I'm really 35 do I really look that much older?

To me yes .. I would put you at 40 my son just had his 35 a month ago.. he has no lines on eyes or forhead.. hehe guess he inherited my genes

lol .. sorry

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By *te0090 OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

You have a pic up now with a women in (for me thats a nono). I manage to take pics of just me alone.. sure others can too. are you really 35 or just trying to appeal to a younger audience ?

good luck keep trying

Lol yes I'm really 35 do I really look that much older?

To me yes .. I would put you at 40 my son just had his 35 a month ago.. he has no lines on eyes or forhead.. hehe guess he inherited my genes

lol .. sorry

your son must be very grateful then lol gutted I must be getting old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much better pics than yesterday

good to see someone smile for a change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bless lol

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By *te0090 OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Much better pics than yesterday

good to see someone smile for a change"

I've got to stop smiling to many lines on my face lol

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Aw im sorry . winks.. dont take it to heart xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get no luck either women want to chat and thats fine but not on here just to chat women seem more after couples and couples the same or bi women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get no luck either women want to chat and thats fine but not on here just to chat women seem more after couples and couples the same or bi women"

as someone said earlier we read profiles, and from all the other threads I'm guessing most women like men that don't use text speak, paragraph, and you need to punctuate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont beat yourself up over "no replies " my friend ,the numbers say that there are a lot of men on here you cant blame couples and ladies thinking "oh god another bloke " and just deleting ,just be polite and dont repeat mail them move on sure theres some one out there. happy hunting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay thankyou for your advice i shall have to rewrite my profile thankyou for sharing your thoughts xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thanks to all who contributed to this posting as it gave me about 15 minutes of amusement lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm ok looking, polite, clean and tidy but I never seem to get any replies to my messages??"

Can't speak for others but says quite clearly on my profile what will generate a response and what doesnt

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