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Why do I hardly get any replies ?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mailed a good few women slash/couples on this complimenting then and hoping for some chat but it never seems to work ! Am I doing something wrong ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile doesn't really say much about you and what you are looking for.. and the fact you carnt acomm will put many people off... but good luck PS... maybe try doing some more pics as the ones you have are nothing special OOO and read other threads like yours (there is 1000s) and get some ideas from theres

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ this exactly ^ ^ ^ ^ ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do what i do,dont message anyone and wait for them

give as good as i get and if i get a message off someone thats ignored me in past guess what i do with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you use comedy in a short message that shows you read their profile?

For example I was asked if I liked been restrained cos my area had a high crime rate

I responded as they had a sense of humour, had read my profile and it wasn't an essay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mailed a good few women slash/couples on this complimenting then and hoping for some chat but it never seems to work ! Am I doing something wrong ??"

You need to give people a reason to reply. As nice as a compliment is, I'm not really sure it gives people that reason.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

As others have said... your profile says nothing really...

Apart from that you're 25 in the age section and 20 in the profile text...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mailed a good few women slash/couples on this complimenting then and hoping for some chat but it never seems to work ! Am I doing something wrong ??"

Mate, we're men I'm afraid ...it's a women's world here my friend

If it makes you feel any better I don't get many replies either - perhaps 1 in 10 max. Best thing to so is just relax and enjoy the banter on the forums that's what I do now ...if I get to meet someone it's a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No response is a reply. Its a not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take each day as it comes..you'd get response from those you click with..

...im still trying to figure out what im doing wrong. But those that reply..just take your time

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Do some different photos. The step ladder isn't very sexy and the flash flare is distracting. Less is more. Put more in your profile about what you can offer. It's a good start, but add more that reflects your personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mailed a good few women slash/couples on this complimenting then and hoping for some chat but it never seems to work ! Am I doing something wrong ??

People make me laugh this is a few site be grateful people even look at your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

free

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Mailed a good few women slash/couples on this complimenting then and hoping for some chat but it never seems to work ! Am I doing something wrong ??

People make me laugh this is a few site be grateful people even look at your profile "

I've looked at yours

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Definitely lose the step ladder pic with your trousers round your ankles and your socks on...not a good look!

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