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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all.

I have been on this site a few times and have not had much luck. I read all the ads and take notice of what the lady says and attemot to give all that is required. I have sent a few 'one liners' of varying vulgarity. I send a face pic or say I can send one if required.

Responses none, zilch, nil. OK maybe the odd No thanks but that's it.

Is there really anyone else on here?. Where is it I go wrong?

Simon, a genuine guy looking for a genuine lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vulgarity!

There you go then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Vulgarity!

There you go then "

That's not put too well.

After reading a profile I will send a message that fits what is written in that profile. No response

I have written 'Want to meet?' through to 'Lets F**K' No response.

Tried all sorts of emails as requested by you ladies on here and No response.

Where am I going wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your messages vary from want to meet all the way to want a fuck you'll not get very far. Your profile is very shorthand doesn't really say much about you and your pic isn't good. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very short and, not very shorthand...oops

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If your messages vary from want to meet all the way to want a fuck you'll not get very far. Your profile is very shorthand doesn't really say much about you and your pic isn't good. Good luck."

Also the ones I have sent that are written to match the profile get No response too. Basically I am getting nowhere on here and beginning to get a tad fed up with it.

I will add some more to my profile but that is what I am looking for.

Thanks so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the same for me and I also don’t know where I’m going wrong. I don’t actually send vulgar messages. My messages are always polite and friendly but I rarely get a reply. I’ve had 2 replies I believe and then after about 2 messages they just quit talking. I thought my pics looked fairly good but perhaps I’m wrong.

I think it’s mainly due to the fact that most of the ladies get so many messages and to stand out you better make sure your message is incredible. Also because there are so many more men than women on the site; I think most ladies can just pick the best looking and most attractive guys they want.

My advice would be to just hang in there and try to think through every message you send. Cater every message to what the lady is saying in her profile without being vulgar. Your definitely gonna get a reply and meet someone eventually so just try to be patient.

Oh btw if anyone does see something wrong with my profile please let me know

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

You can't force or beg people to meet.

This is not a dial to shag site

There is no ready made solution to get laid

If someone want and like you they will meet you

If no meet, keep on searching or just settle with the social interaction of the site. Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok - messages aside - you have a limited profile, one cock pic, a status update saying "looking for daytime fun" and can't accommodate!

Rightly or wrongly many will see that and assume "married"!

Your messages may not be the only problem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all.

I have been on this site a few times and have not had much luck. I read all the ads and take notice of what the lady says and attemot to give all that is required. I have sent a few 'one liners' of varying vulgarity. I send a face pic or say I can send one if required.

Responses none, zilch, nil. OK maybe the odd No thanks but that's it.

Is there really anyone else on here?. Where is it I go wrong?

Simon, a genuine guy looking for a genuine lady "

Your not the only guy with no luck, i can Accom in a luxury house i have past verifications that are good but this year women/couples around my area dont seem interested in single guys that can accom like they use to be ive been having to go clubs to get the fun.

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