FabSwingers.com forum: Cheating / affairs

By *ouplecu2015 OP Couple
7 weeks ago

Reading

I believe that beyond what is said, betrayal or affairs is more common than you think!

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By *enny100Man
7 weeks ago

City

"I believe that beyond what is said, betrayal or affairs is more common than you think!"

Agreed 100%

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By *teve1867Man
7 weeks ago

wirral

Totally agree my first marriage i was straight cheated on. Second one although we were both part of the scene we always said that if we wanted to meet someone alone the other had to agree. I had no problem with this as I loved cleaning her when she got home 😉. Then out of the blue she told me she had been having an affair for a couple of years. Id not realised as they were meeting at my house while I was at work. She told me she loved him and was moving in with him. I dont know if its damaged me now but I dont think ill ever trust anyone fully ever again.

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By *oonbath89Man
7 weeks ago

radstock

Absolutely, I think the percentage is higher than people think

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By *ilva69Man
7 weeks ago

stockport

"Absolutely, I think the percentage is higher than people think "
yeah definitely!

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By *otfunx1Man
7 weeks ago

Edinburgh

She knows she is free to have fun when out. I encourage her to enjoy herself. As long as she lets me know and tells me about anyfun she does have

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By *osie888TV/TS
7 weeks ago

Bathgate

Sounds fair

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By *eading RayMan
7 weeks ago

Reading

My wife went off any form of sex after the menopause, she knows I have a high sex drive and told me to find my release elsewhere but to never mention anything to her, I only meet during weekday daytimes when I'm supposed to be at work or if I'm away with work in a hotel. I never break my regular pattern at home ie suddenly start going out weekends or evenings on my own. It works for us . But guess the haters will be on my back now .

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By *rasshopper201Man
7 weeks ago

kendal

"My wife went off any form of sex after the menopause, she knows I have a high sex drive and told me to find my release elsewhere but to never mention anything to her, I only meet during weekday daytimes when I'm supposed to be at work or if I'm away with work in a hotel. I never break my regular pattern at home ie suddenly start going out weekends or evenings on my own. It works for us . But guess the haters will be on my back now ."
no mate I’m with you on this my wife went of sex after cancer 15 years ago not had a proper sex session with her since I’ve been loyal for ther first 5 years then started trying to get her to play but not interested she then said to me the same thing just don’t bring anything home !! She is just starting to come round to having sex again 🤞

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

same for me

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By *osie888TV/TS
7 weeks ago

Bathgate

most people cheat one way or another

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By *endall_IronbridgeMan
7 weeks ago

Shropshire

Chance would be a fine thing age filter means no chance

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By *orny-Surrey- Bi-GuyMan
7 weeks ago

Surrey

My wife went off sex due to the menopause. Turned out she didn't go off sex, as heard her masturbating most mornings after I'd got up for work.

Then I caught her having sex with a guy, thanks to my ring doorbell which was in the kitchen charging.

When I asked her if she was cheating on me, she said she would never cheat on me or lie to me, and had never lied to me.

I then showed her the video.

We split soon after.

Menopause was a great excuse to cheat without me knowing, on her days off.

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By *arriedfun69Man
7 weeks ago

Bedford

No idea how someone would get the actual numbers as assume most of the figs are post cheat and split but assume numbers are v high

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By *andycd20000TV/TS
7 weeks ago

limerick side of ennis.

My x wife had half the village we used live it. Caught her in bed a few times. She would ride anything

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By *H228Man
7 weeks ago

webbington

Anyone on Telegram tell me about how you caught your Mrs?

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By *rankie bricksMan
7 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Interested/looking for chat about mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

I’d love to find out my wife was having a secret affair behind my back! 😈

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By *andC1000Couple
3 weeks ago

ashford

"My wife went off any form of sex after the menopause, she knows I have a high sex drive and told me to find my release elsewhere but to never mention anything to her, I only meet during weekday daytimes when I'm supposed to be at work or if I'm away with work in a hotel. I never break my regular pattern at home ie suddenly start going out weekends or evenings on my own. It works for us . But guess the haters will be on my back now .no mate I’m with you on this my wife went of sex after cancer 15 years ago not had a proper sex session with her since I’ve been loyal for ther first 5 years then started trying to get her to play but not interested she then said to me the same thing just don’t bring anything home !! She is just starting to come round to having sex again 🤞"

Difference here is it sounds like both of you have been man enough to have an adult conversation about it with your wives. Too many don’t and just cheat regardless. That’s what hurts the most not the act of sex, but the constant lies. A lot would be surprised if they actually opened up, at how much support they may get from partners. The lies cause the issues and resentment.

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By *tirlingshire matureMan
3 weeks ago

falkirk

We have both had affairs over the years

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By *orkshire500Man
3 weeks ago

Hull

I’d be up for chatting about this. As people say it’s far more common than people think.

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By *ustardormarmiteMan
3 weeks ago

norwich

Who’s cheating then

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By *orruptionandliesMan
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Unfortunately yesh

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By *nlyessexCouple
3 weeks ago

Hornchurch

Fully agree most cheat especially men i know as before my now wife I cheated on my first wife for years with different women plus we have met married guys from this site

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By *rightonsteveMan
3 weeks ago

Hove, mainly…

"I’d love to find out my wife was having a secret affair behind my back! 😈"
looks like she did, eh?

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By *idmanukMan
3 weeks ago

Riddlesden

Mrs has at least twice

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By *ockslut999Man
3 weeks ago

I love being a mistress

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By *andy IanMan
3 weeks ago

cheshire/Preston

From my experience it is

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By *dlim23Man
3 weeks ago

Limerick

I'd say loads of married women and men cheat.

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By *eon7Man
3 weeks ago

Swadlincote

Caught my wife ages ago when I got home from work early. Not really surprised as suspected it for a while. We talked about and agreed she could do what she wanted

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By *imonb500Man
3 weeks ago

Clutton

I don't want to be unfaithful, but like some others, my other half has totally lost interest in anything sexual. We have a loving relationship, but she just doesn't want that. I feel terrible looking here, but I also long for sex.

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By *orksfunM4FMan
3 weeks ago

ilkley

Love to help a lady cheat

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By *r simMan
3 weeks ago

dorset

My first wife cheated on me , I eventually found out who with in the end though

As bad and sad as it sounds there was a ironic twist to it all though

Happy to chat about it you want to pm me

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By *tlanshiaWoman
3 weeks ago

Chatham

"I believe that beyond what is said, betrayal or affairs is more common than you think!"

It is indeed common. But it doesn’t mean it is right or I have to assist

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