FabSwingers.com forum: First messages

By *oor4172 OP Man
2 weeks ago

North Bristol

Hi all, this is mainly aimed at women and couples who get way too many messages to look at each one - what information do you always look for in first messages?

I always include the following, but lately I've been wondering whether it's wasted as it's listed on my profile anyway:

Name

Age

Where I live

I can host + travel

Bit about me (in- and outside bedroom personality)

What caught my eye about their profile

Anything requested in the receiver's profile

Some pics

So, is it worth including all that? My assumption is yes because most people won't look at the profile, just the message - let me know if I'm wrong!

By *ngry IngridWoman
2 weeks ago

Cardigan

Most people will look at your message and then go and look at your profile.

I'd just think you were repetitive if I saw most of it.

First messages - what to include?