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By (user no longer on site) OP   
8 weeks ago

Hi all, first thanks for reading. Secondly, what am i doing wrong here? Send face pics, never send random cock pics, always polite, take time and read the profiles of people I message, site supporter and verified.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
8 weeks ago

Newry

Your profile has no public photos and a bio that tells the reader very little.

Your list of interests is also quite niche and, whilst you're photo verified, you're not meet verified.

Many will check out your profile before even thinking about opening your message. There's nothing there that would make you stand out from the thousands of other men here.

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By *rickynn478Man
8 weeks ago

northampton


"Hi all, first thanks for reading. Secondly, what am i doing wrong here? Send face pics, never send random cock pics, always polite, take time and read the profiles of people I message, site supporter and verified."

I regularly have little to no response to messages i send

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
8 weeks ago

Hi. Thanks for the tips. Few people have said about filling out the profile and public pic so watch this space. As for meet verified well can't get meet without messages lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
8 weeks ago

You have public pics amd a filled out profile, good luck to you sir.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
8 weeks ago

Newry


"Hi. Thanks for the tips. Few people have said about filling out the profile and public pic so watch this space. As for meet verified well can't get meet without messages lol"

You could get yourself to an organised social? If you check out the Irish Events Listing you'll be able to see which ones are specifically for new people and which you don't need verifications for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
7 weeks ago

Oh right. On it

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By *allySlinkyWoman
7 weeks ago

Leeds

You need some sort of profile pic, not just the silhouette

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By *elaxed_Fun_TimesMan
7 weeks ago

Buckingham

Club visits are the way to go, I think. I say that with meeting people in mind, not (necessarily) playing.

There are many inactive profiles; people who are not serious about meeting or want validation or other reasons not keeping in with the spirit of the site; people who don't show up; not "clicking" with somebody in person when finally meeting...

If you get chatting to people in a club you at least verify they are real people

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
7 weeks ago

Central

No reply is to be accepted as 'no thanks' and may be accompanied by a block, to prevent time being expended later.

The approach of giving respect and not sending nude, unrequested pics, is the minimum standard for all people here.

You can increase your contacts by going to Fab socials and clubs, where you might also get verified.

It does generally take single men a long time to get established here. It's a great site to supplement the swinging lifestyle. If you use clubs, you'd potentially establish yourself a bit more easily.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
7 weeks ago

Thanks for all the advice guys and gals. All taken into consideration.

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