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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi im fairly new to the site, I joined to meet some sexy ladies.

The thing is I have been enjoying getting to know a lot of men too...

Should I open up my profile looking for men too?? or stick to me original quest?

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Do as you feel comfy with,people join fab with one thing in mind and then over time decide to try diff things and gain new experiences and new adventures,do what makes you happy,its your life...live it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go where your desires take you....

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

No... I'd say leave it closed off to all men.

Just message me instead. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do as you feel comfy with,people join fab with one thing in mind and then over time decide to try diff things and gain new experiences and new adventures,do what makes you happy,its your life...live it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do as you feel comfy with,people join fab with one thing in mind and then over time decide to try diff things and gain new experiences and new adventures,do what makes you happy,its your life...live it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick with the girls!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

My profile is open to girls - because I love girls - and closed to single Men and Couples - because I enjoy choosing my 'victims' Lol. I seem to have found more men that girls too but I have no desire to change my settings and open the flood gates (of messages)!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless you want to receive a tsunami amount of messages, then yes by all means, Open Pandora's Box and see what may come when the men are invited.

I'd say do what Bambi says, stick with the ladies and choose your 'victims'. Looks like MissD is is safe with Bambi. Me however...

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Unless you want to receive a tsunami amount of messages, then yes by all means, Open Pandora's Box and see what may come when the men are invited.

I'd say do what Bambi says, stick with the ladies and choose your 'victims'. Looks like MissD is is safe with Bambi. Me however... "

You'll be fine (sorry not hijacking the thread...I promise)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile is open to girls - because I love girls - and closed to single Men and Couples - because I enjoy choosing my 'victims' Lol. I seem to have found more men that girls too but I have no desire to change my settings and open the flood gates (of messages)!"

Well said Bambi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do whatever you feel is right for you...

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

;-) xxx

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

You could open your profile to men, and get innundated with messages, some you may like, some you wont.

Why not be proactive and browse guys profiles, and if you see anyone that takes your fancy message them.

Beats waiting for them to contact you and have to sort wheat from chaff !

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Do what you feel comfortable doing. If you want to find a man, go look for one - it will save 356733 emails lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i opened... then closed . I shall pic them out myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i opened... then closed . I shall pic them out myself"

Ha ha do u get bombarded with messages hun ?

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I suspected that may happen, joys of Fab; most ladies and couples get millions of messages, most guys none (or very few).

I get none and send none nowadays !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi im fairly new to the site, I joined to meet some sexy ladies.

The thing is I have been enjoying getting to know a lot of men too...

Should I open up my profile looking for men too?? or stick to me original quest?"

I think you should narrow your criteria and only meets couples from Ipswich aged 41

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile is open to girls - because I love girls - and closed to single Men and Couples - because I enjoy choosing my 'victims' Lol. I seem to have found more men that girls too but I have no desire to change my settings and open the flood gates (of messages)!"

But by placing our own obstacles based upon our own experiences and desires do we not deny ourselves the opportunity to have our own expectations exceeded?

Think a taoist called lao tzu said enlightenment has many paths but only giving into chaos can we understand our limits, only then can we grow. How else can each of us reach there potential.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are one hot woman love you to open up and chat with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it's easy to follow the 'kid in a sweetshop' mentality when you first arrive at Fab. From experience, it's always wise to take minute & remember what you're *actually* seeking on here before writing a profile, sending a message - or even dismissing people out of hand ... good luck whatever you decide! x

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