FabSwingers.com forum: Re introducing myself

By *oody73 OP Man
15 weeks ago

Penzance

Hi all just returned after a very long break to deal with some personal issues, now back to try and explore again, I never had much luck last time so I'm asking if some of you guys could give me a bit of guidance, I'm genuinely honest about myself and respectful of constructive criticism

By *oody73 OP Man
11 weeks ago

Penzance

Hi fabsters I've been on fab for a fair while now yet have never had any serious meets, messaged a few women being polite and courteous as I understand that some guys can be assholes, I know this because I used to be on here with my ex in the past and some of the messages she got where pretty nasty, I'm not a needy type if a woman says no then I can accept and respect that and move on. maybe it's because I'm not verified by anyone but how am I going to get verified if no one is willing to take the first chance on me, it feels to me like if your not in the clic then you don't stand a chance, I may be wrong and I hope I am because respectfully I don't want to be wasting money and time on here if I'm not going to get anywhere

By *issmorganWoman
11 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op. It's tough on here as a single man, due to the number of other men, all looking for the same.

The rope play etc won't be for all and especially without any trust and regular meets. Maybe a kink site may suit you better for that?..

One thing I would suggest is to try and look a bit more approachable in your pics, smile a bit if possible.

But, well done for actually writing about yourself.

I don't know if there are any organised events near you, but you could give one of them a go too. They are a great way to meet like minded people, good luck.

By *oody73 OP Man
11 weeks ago

Penzance

Thank you so much for your feedback I 100% agree that trust is key to any form of kink play but the same can be said for any form of vanilla play too, I put the ropeplay up just in case someone else had an interest in exploring with me as with everything I would always ensure it's consensual and limits are discussed