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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hey ladies and gents just need a little help iv been on and off fab for years but never had a meet i just cannot seem to find a lady interested in asian fellas. Im sure there must be a few out there i know we aint the pick of the bunch lol but come on help me out a little

get in touch if you are xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

wow no response on the forums either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile states looking for TV/TS but your straight? that gets alarm bells ringing for the ladies as its ambiguous.

Also not even 1 public pic deffo screams time waster to most people on here, when the single ladies have the pick of the bunch as far as single guys go.

Hope that helps!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not going to be of any help as I don't meet men, have met Asian women tho and found them just as lovely as any other women. Good luck with finding a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile states looking for TV/TS but your straight? that gets alarm bells ringing for the ladies as its ambiguous.

Also not even 1 public pic deffo screams time waster to most people on here, when the single ladies have the pick of the bunch as far as single guys go.

Hope that helps!"

ahh thanks i see but i am verified so not an absolute time waster but i see where your coming from. another thing i dont want a pic of my face up to the public will a body shot do ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks butterfly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

def doesn't have to be a face pic (most don't have them public on here), but with a couple of arty body ones (dick pics don't go down well either), you should hopefully get some meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

done hopefully wont be long until theyve been uploaded thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

saying you had no luck because of idiots is not the best plan either

there is a train of thought that goes along the lines of if you get let down by different people a number of times, there is one common link : YOU !

may not be you as a guy, but how you use the site to the best of its potential and how you arrange your meets / what failsafes you put in etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hmm okay but you there are like a hundred time wasters iv drove up to meets and then theyve decided no they dont want to which is very very annonying but i see you point thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hmm okay but you there are like a hundred time wasters iv drove up to meets and then theyve decided no they dont want to which is very very annonying but i see you point thanks "

i agree

there are lots of timewasters

same as any site

if you are looking, it is your 'job' to find them out before you even get to arranging the meet

OK, 1 or 2 may still slip thru the net, but I should imagine you will see a dramatic fall in people letting you down if you do your research properly.

Out of interest, did the timewasters you experienced come more from the women you seek or the TV/TS ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

tv/ts but a fair number of women have been timewaster asswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am not being a funny fker by saying that btw, i am trying to give you pointers so that you don't have the same happen again

things such as :

- exchanging face pics prior to meeting

- having face pics that are a true and accurate representation of what you look like

- if unable or unwilling to show pics, show someone what you look like on cam

- have some body / full length shots to exchange

- don't rush into meets excitedly because some says they want to meet

- don't get into long drawn out chats which start 'what are you gonna do to me when we meet?' (as an example)

- exchange phone numbers

- buy a 2nd sim purely used to arrange meets off here or to provide to those interested

- maybe chat with the person on the phone beforehand ?

Seriously, the more steps your put in, the higher your success rate will be

At the minute, from what you have said, you have no problem getting people to commit to a meet online, but these rarely materialise in the physical.

I think you may either be talking to the wrong people (ie the fantasists / last minute wank merchants) or not watching out for danger signs in potentially being let down.

I don't think all of it down to your race - some women won't meet you because of it, just like some won't meet me because I'm a big lad - but, as a whole, I do think it is how you are using the site that is letting you down.

Now, if you yourself can only meet last minute and find it hard to pre-plan meets, then you will find it harder here than some guys who do have the ability to be online freely and plan meets at leisure and in advance.

Some here will do 'there and then' meets but for most here, swinging is a lifestyle choice not just away of finding some random cock.

Hope that helps

Good Luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cheers thats helped loads

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By *uthTVDerbysTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Good advice given there. Just don't get as cynical and sceptical as me otherwise youll never meet anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"hey ladies and gents just need a little help iv been on and off fab for years but never had a meet i just cannot seem to find a lady interested in asian fellas. Im sure there must be a few out there i know we aint the pick of the bunch lol but come on help me out a little

get in touch if you are xx"

You have a "meet in person" veri, but you've never had a meet???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"hey ladies and gents just need a little help iv been on and off fab for years but never had a meet i just cannot seem to find a lady interested in asian fellas. Im sure there must be a few out there i know we aint the pick of the bunch lol but come on help me out a little

get in touch if you are xx

You have a "meet in person" veri, but you've never had a meet???"

yeah sorry needed to make it more clear a meet with a women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get yourself to a club - make it an evening or a party night and get involved that way - chameleons is one of the best clubs in the country and it s on your doorstep

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By *imtomyMan
over a year ago

manchester

Not easy is it fella.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think many on here struggle to meet at times..as many looking for different things..ie when both free, type of meet..quick,last min, planned etc. can be frustrating but people do meet and there are peeps looking for same and genuine...just takes time get there

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